Life needs tolerance. Everyone's life will be unhappy, and everyone will fail. When you encounter obstacles that you can't overcome with all your strength, please don't forget that tolerance is a vast sea, which can contain everything and resolve everything, and will lead us to gallop forward with him.
Tolerance is a silent education. Only tolerant people, their beliefs are more real. The hardest thing is to give without asking for anything in return, because it is based on love and tolerance: to be forgiven by others, you must forgive others first. Although we don't ask for anything in return, good quality will always show its value in the end, which is even more touching. It is better to help others than to blame them. If you criticize and blame others' mistakes blindly, it will only be more offensive and may arouse the rebellious mentality of making repeated mistakes.
Shen Dianxia, a famous Hong Kong female artist who was deeply loved by the audience, died in Hong Kong at 8 am (February 19, 2008). I feel sorry for her death, because she has many virtues that others don't have. The most prominent point is that she is a very tolerant person, and she is highly respected for being tolerant of others.
When Shen Dianxia was a gold medal emcee in Hong Kong, he hit it off with Adam Cheng, who was not well-known and had a great impact on his life. Despite the pressure of public opinion, she fully supported Adam Cheng's career and comforted his feelings. After living with him for nine years, she resolutely registered marriage with him, risked her life to get pregnant and gave birth to a daughter for him. However, their daughter was less than two months old, but Adam Cheng moved on. Their ten-year relationship vanished, and finally ended with a heavy blow to Shen Dianxia. Many years later, Shen Dianxia's talk show "Behind the Palm" started, and the first guest of the first program turned out to be Adam Cheng. They sat opposite each other. At the end of the program, Shen Dianxia suddenly and unexpectedly asked Adam Cheng: I wanted to ask you a question a long time ago. Today, I take this opportunity to ask you. You just have to answer yes or no. The question is whether you really loved me many years ago. Hearing this, Adam Cheng almost only thought for a moment, and then replied firmly and seriously: I really love you! When this was said, Shen Dianxia burst into tears, and then a happy smile rippled on her charming face. It seems that after many years, so many sufferings and grievances have vanished in the words "I really love you".
Yes, it is difficult to forgive those who hurt themselves, but those who can do this are noble. Fat sister forgives the people who hurt her with the broad mind that women rarely see, and also creates a harmonious interpersonal environment for herself. Her wisdom of turning disasters into blessings is really amazing. So I said, tolerance means that a person's self-love has reached the realm of honesty, cheerfulness and willingness to make progress, and tolerance means love and care after understanding and understanding; Therefore, the greatness of tolerance lies in the heart, and true tolerance is always sincere and natural; Tolerance is a wise way of life. Suffering is a blessing. Misunderstanding, abuse and ingratitude are all ignored. This loss is actually a kind of tolerant wisdom. To tolerate others with a broad mind and sincere attitude is equivalent to giving yourself a magical gift. The pleasure of tolerating others is supreme, which makes us realize that we deserve to be tolerated, and also makes us realize that people without tolerance are flawed and dangerous.
Tolerance is a profound realm and artistic conception, and it is the cultivation of people. It is the experience of interacting with people, the art of dealing with people, and the mind of people. It can tolerate the joys and sorrows of the world and make life leap to a new level: being kind to others means being kind to yourself, and demanding others means demanding yourself. Only by looking at life with a tolerant heart and understanding others can we get a relaxed and comfortable life and live in joy and friendship. When I fail, I will be more tolerant and stop complaining to myself, so that my heart will be less sorry and frustrated, and I can help a strong one. Forgiving others is also forgiving yourself, protecting yourself, leaving some space for others, and you will get a blue sky, a tolerant person, a person who can seize opportunities everywhere, be harmonious and complete, and treat life with a smile.
Tolerance is the noblest virtue. No one is too poor to express tolerance. No one can be stronger and more proud than those who practice tolerance. How broad a person's mind is, how many people's hearts can be won, and you will gain a lot if you are tolerant.
"The vastest ocean in the world, the sky wider than the ocean, and the human mind wider than the sky." If everyone is more tolerant, human beings will be more understanding, more kind, more cherished and more beautiful. The bitterness of life will also turn into colorful music. If you learn tolerance in life, you will understand a lot of truth. Give yourself, learn to be tolerant, be willing to appreciate and praise others, and always keep the flexibility that can make you grow and increase your knowledge-all these have produced happiness, harmony, perfection and success in your career. This is the characteristic of a colorful life.
There is a fable about two horses walking together. One bit the other's neck, but the bitten one comforted the horse who was ashamed of biting himself. Although the story is small, it reveals the touching character between heaven and earth, that is tolerance.
In the fable, the tolerance of animals is good for evil, while in Buddhism, the tolerance of Maitreya is "the stomach can hold the world". How to understand tolerance in our real life? In fact, tolerance is a realm.
Tolerance is like water
The usual "tolerance" means forgiving others' temporary mistakes, not haggling over every ounce, not complaining about others, and being a generous person in a friendly way. Tolerance is like water, and encountering contradictions is often more effective than excessive retaliation. It is like a clear spring, slowly erasing the temporary hostility of the other party, making people calm down, so as to see the original reason of the matter clearly. At the same time, I also saw myself clearly. The bitten horse in the fable rationally chose tolerance, and finally they made up. Imagine, if it is tit-for-tat, what can be brought about by fighting back at each other in the same way, in addition to both losses and cross the rubicon? Therefore, it can be said that the legendary national horse is actually very wise. Its wisdom lies in "returning evil with good".
Tolerance is like fire.
Because a higher level of tolerance not only means not caring about personal gains and losses, but also means warming others' hearts with your love and sincerity. It is rare to be calm as water; The bearing of giving charcoal in the snow is more valuable and moving. From the fable, we can see that the horse that made the mistake has realized its absurdity and felt ashamed. At this time, the tolerance and comfort embodied by the bitten horse is like a flame, bright and warm. Tolerance can not only melt each other's freezing, but also radiate the heat of love to each other's hearts. In that era, which was criticized by some people as "materialism", what people with shrinking space from bottom to top lacked was not the tolerance between the two horses. If you choose tolerance, you choose understanding and warmth, and you choose the vastness of life.
Tolerance is poetry.
Tolerance is a poem of life. The highest tolerance is not only manifested in the handling of an event in daily life, but sublimated into a kind of mind for the universe and a poetic tolerance for life. The meaning of tolerance is not limited to people's understanding and care, but the generosity and fraternity of the heart to all life between heaven and earth. The legendary horse can't reach this realm, but this realm is so real and profound for human beings.
Those who are worried about the dullness and misfortune of life, please choose tolerance. This does not harm your dignity at all, but helps people to cross mediocrity in the long river of life. With the ideological realm of tolerance, we can understand the true meaning of life, and tolerance is also an art of life. draw
There is no contradiction between tolerance and "being strict with yourself and being lenient with others". Forgiving yourself easily is not tolerance, but cowardice. "Treat people in an all-round way" depends first on the object. Tolerance does not cherish tolerant people, which is promiscuous; Tolerance to those who are not worthy of tolerance is tolerance; It is indulgence to tolerate unforgivable and immoral people. Therefore, tolerance itself is also a kind of knowledge of life.
On the road of our life, it is not as simple as two horses. Life is often complicated and often boring. It is precisely because tolerance is like water that complicated things become pure after filtering; It is because tolerance is like fire that insipid becomes more and more distinct through calcination; It is precisely because of this poetic tolerance that life is endowed with art and eternity.
/kloc-One day in October, it was crisp and sunny in autumn, which happened to be a weekend. The villagers were invited to get together at the farmhouse. During the chat, Mr. Wang said: A daughter and her 60-year-old father got on the bus and found that there was no seat, so they swore and forced an 84-year-old man to give up his seat. Before the old man gave up his seat in time, the father of more than 300 kilograms insisted on sitting on the old man. The old man had to get up and give up his seat a little, but his daughter was still unwilling to give up her seat, and the abuse was unbearable. The whole car can't stand it anymore, thinking that the old man will refute no matter how weak he is. But then the old man said, "I'm really sorry. Don't scold me for being ill. I am angry! " "The car was suddenly silent, and the unexpected behavior of the old man made the whole car awe-inspiring!
The words that hit the floor reverberated in my heart for a long time. Without an open mind, it is difficult to tolerate uneducated selfish people. It seems that the old man's mind and self-restraint are extraordinary, and he can be a saint. Although Mr. Wang didn't criticize the behavior of the father and daughter too much, I think it goes without saying that when the two kinds of people are put together, who will be respected and who will be spurned.
I saw a short article on the Internet about two college students listening to a song in the dormitory. Because they had different opinions on the song, they even started to beat and scold. Under the persuasion of roommates, classmate A was pushed back to another dormitory. I thought this was the end of it. Who wants to go back to the dormitory, classmate A gets angrier and angrier, picks up a fruit knife and goes straight into classmate B's dormitory. Without any precautions, classmate B is stabbed twice in the chest. When the dormitory students reacted and rushed to the hospital, they died because of ineffective rescue. In this way, a youthful life disappeared without value, while another young man with the same youthful passion was shackled with a soul in prison. How much hardship and sweat do two families have to pay to train a college student? It's a pity that they can carry on the family line, and how parents who have lost their beloved son should face the future life! Really, a small step makes a long-term regret.
Tolerance is a virtue. As the saying goes: "The prime minister can sail in his stomach, and the general can gallop on his forehead", "Take a step back and broaden the horizon." This is the demeanor of a gentleman and the behavior of a wise man. "There are hundreds of rivers and rivers, and the capacity is large; The wall is thousands of miles apart, and it is just without desire. " This is a fact. The famous French poet Hugo said: "The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky." Lin Xiangru made Lian Po tolerant, Zhuge Liang made Meng Huo tolerant, and Bao Ziya recommended Sun Shuai to be more tolerant. These tolerant hearts have been recorded in the history books, and they shine up to now, reflecting the light of human nature.
Tolerance is a kind of wisdom. It not only embodies the goodness of human nature, but also embodies an intelligent skill. It will make the noble soul clearer and the despicable soul dirtier. Goethe, a famous poet, once met a person who often criticized his articles on the road. The man said some rude words in front of Goethe and blocked the way. Goethe stood aside with a smile, without any difference. Others were very angry and advised Goethe to refute. Goethe smiled and said, "If I were like him, wouldn't I be crazy?" Goethe's approach is a kind of wisdom. The noblest revenge is forgiveness. There is no need to argue with a madman. Under the wisdom of tolerance, selfish people will be more ashamed.
Tolerance is actually patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstanding from friends, too many arguments and "counter-attacks" are really not enough. Calm, patience and understanding are the most important. Believe this famous saying: "Tolerance is a grain growing in thorns". If there is a little tolerance, a little calmness and patience, and a little understanding of peace and harmony, that college student will not create an amazing tragedy for a trivial matter.
Human nature is an invisible thing, which has two sides. Once people lose tolerance, they will become narrow and selfish. When the 84-year-old man presents the tolerance of human nature to everyone, it is a kind of wisdom and skill. He skillfully resolved an explosive contradiction, and he undoubtedly slapped the selfish father and daughter heavily. I don't know if the father and daughter want to take the bus again and someone will give them their seats, or do they want to find a crack to get in?
Tolerance makes the weak feel the world gentle and the strong feel the world noble. "Friend, you might as well make your life more tolerant and wise, let your mind gradually become calm, and face life easily and happily, and life will become warmer and better.