Don't be tired when you have nothing to do. Wise people regard it as self-cultivation.

In a speech, Mr. Hu Shi said something inspiring to inspire graduates.

If you use your leisure time to play mahjong, you may become a gambler;

If you use your leisure time to do social services, you may become a social reformer;

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Or if you use your leisure time to study history, you may become a historian.

Your leisure often determines your life.

The sentence "Your leisure often determines your life" is so enlightening that people wake up from a dream.

Kung Fu is beyond 8 hours.

What you do outside of work just widens the gap between you and others.

Writer Wu Danru once said: "The entertainment method you choose will determine your future without even realizing it."

How you spend your time will, in turn, be how you spend your time.

The attitude towards leisure time determines the height of life and also hides a person's future.

Make friends carefully, study diligently, stay true to your roots, and get rid of flashiness.

Be cautious in making friends as a person; be practical and practical in doing things.

If you fly with the phoenix, you will be a handsome bird; if you fly with the tiger and wolf, you will be a ferocious beast.

Excellent people can inspire themselves to move forward; bad people can tempt themselves to become decadent.

Be down-to-earth in doing things, and don’t be too ambitious or opportunistic.

Let yourself calm down and do the things at hand with peace of mind. People who are too restless will never accomplish anything.

Improve your own strength and don’t be too obsessed with illusory things.

With hard-core strength, once you encounter an opportunity, you may soar into the sky.

A man who can endure hardship is a true hero, but a man who is not envied by others is a mediocre man.

There is this passage in "The Soul Code":

"You cannot ask for a storm-free ocean of life, because pain and suffering are part of life. An ocean without storms, That’s not the sea, it’s a mud pond.”

Life is a practice, and life is a training.

Real life is always full of mud and sand, with laughter and tears, thorns and flowers.

All the hardships we experienced turned into a hard shell to protect us from the cold.

Only in hardships and setbacks can people continue to practice and survive hardships before they can become mature.

When facing the jealousy of others, it might be a good thing to think from another angle.

If someone is jealous of you, it means that you have extraordinary strengths in some aspect;

If no one is jealous of you, it only means that you have mediocre qualifications and nothing to achieve.

There is a good saying on the Internet:

“Some people like you because they think you are better.

Some people hate you because Because they think you are too good.

Some people respect you because they think you are very good.

Some people look down on you because they think you are not. Not excellent.”

Be proud but not complacent in the face of praise; be humble but not discouraged in the face of criticism.

Life is never based on other people’s words. Stick to yourself and live hard.

There is nothing more meaningful than living your life well and living it abundantly.

When you are in poverty, you will not be bullied by others; when you are prosperous and prosperous, you will not be envied by others.

A person's attitude towards himself in times of adversity reveals his integrity;

A person's attitude towards others in times of good times reveals his cultivation.

In times of adversity, maintain the integrity of your own personality, do not look down on yourself, and do not blame others;

In times of good times, respect the integrity of others' personalities, keep a low profile, and be tolerant to others.

Be above others, treat others as human beings, avoid having too much sense of status, put away your arrogance, and face others with humility and low-key.

Below others, you should treat yourself as a human being, treat others as equals, neither humble nor arrogant. You should respect each other as well as yourself.

When dealing with others, you must learn to suffer losses. As the saying goes: give in for life without losing a moment.

"Warning Words" says: "You cannot use all your power, enjoy all your blessings, take advantage of all your advantages, and use all your wisdom."

Interacting with others*** In matters, every penny has to be weighed, and the agencies will calculate and take advantage, which will ultimately lead to unpopularity.

The most valuable thing about being a human being is the willingness to take the initiative to suffer losses.

A person who is able to suffer is a person with lofty ideals, and a person who is willing to suffer losses is not an idiot.

People who know that they have suffered losses but still choose to persevere have great wisdom.

Taking a loss at the right time can resolve difficult problems;

Knowing how to make concessions at the right time can ease the relationship that was originally broken.

Anyone who cares about the gains and losses of a city or a pool is destined to not go far.

Reading unseen books is like finding a good friend; reading known books is like meeting an old friend.

Mr. Yang Jiang once wrote in "The Joy and Joy of Reading":

"Studying is like visiting the home of the most outstanding person in the world.

When you want to see an admired teacher or pay a visit to a famous scholar, you don’t have to say hello in advance, and you don’t have to worry about disturbing the host.

Just open the door and enter the room after turning a few pages.

And you can go often and at all times. If you don't get the point, you can leave without saying goodbye, or you can find another way and confront him. "

Destiny likes to turn your hands into clouds and rain, and it is often the easiest. Playing tricks on people.

In this life, suffering will torture people, and praise and sudden gain will still destroy a person.

But if you read more books and can read wisdom, you can correctly face the various encounters of fate.

Yu Qiuyu once said: "The sooner you read, the more wonderful life will be; the day later, the more mediocre troubles you will have."

Reading is to create a world for yourself. I am in a shelter, no matter how windy or rainy it is outside, I feel calm inside.

Everyone has anxiety problems and life problems. Only reading can cure everything in life.

Don’t make money with those who like cheap things; don’t do anything with those who are suspicious.

Don’t get along with people who are free and have financial dealings.

People who like to take advantage are too concerned with immediate gains and losses.

When dealing with people who like to take advantage of others and have money, it is often easy to become alienated because of small benefits.

If things go on like this, it will not only hurt your feelings because of money, but also bring you a lot of unnecessary trouble.

You cannot work together with people who are suspicious by nature.

Cao Cao became suspicious because Lu Boxhe and his family were killing pigs for entertainment. The sound of sharpening knives aroused Cao Cao's suspicion and killed Lu Boxhe and his family.

Because he suffered from headaches, he was suspicious of Hua Tuo, and Hua Tuo died in prison.

People who are suspicious are good at making misconceptions and making things up out of thin air, and those around them will suffer greatly.

Working with someone who is suspicious by nature will only lead to physical and mental exhaustion in the end.

Zeng Guofan also said: "If you do things with beneficial people, you will be hurt; if you do things with suspicious people, things will not work out."

If you make high vows, If you have a moderate relationship, you will enjoy inferior blessings; if you choose a high place to stand, sit on a flat place and walk towards a wide place.

This is a couplet written by Zuo Zongtang in the Plum Garden in Wuxi, Jiangsu.

The first couplet says: People should be ambitious, seek only moderate fate, and live an ordinary life.

The second line means: you should look far-sighted when looking at problems, be low-key in life, and leave room for things to happen.

People should have great ambitions, not blindly follow or degenerate, and have the determination to realize their life aspirations;

But at the same time, they should also understand that life is not perfect, and should not be harsh or discouraged. Learn to be content and tolerant.