First of all, we must learn to be confident.

Confidence is the prerequisite for success and the secret to happiness. Only with self-confidence can we remain optimistic in the face of difficulties and setbacks and find ways to overcome them. "Confidence in a life of two hundred years will mean that you will swim three thousand miles in the water." Some people may say, why don't I want to be confident? But I just can’t feel confident. Yes, how can I make myself more confident? I think, let us look more at our own strengths and strengths, and discover and explore our potential. As the saying goes: A ruler is short, an inch is long. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and everyone has their own unlimited potential. People cannot just focus on their shortcomings, shortcomings, and present, but must learn to appreciate themselves and look more at their strengths, strengths, and future. Traditional educational ideas and backward humanistic concepts make most people look at people and things in reality with a rigid gaze, believing that it is difficult to change. Materialist dialectics has long told us that no people or things in the world remain unchanged, and development and change are eternal. The era of "looking older at the age of three and older at the age of seven" has long passed. We educators should first wake up and no longer look at our students through colored glasses. We ourselves must first be a confident person. Don't always compare your own shortcomings with other people's strengths. That would be really annoying and annoying. You must learn to appreciate yourself, accept yourself, and encourage yourself. If you can't do this, you can think of ways, such as accumulating your own successful experiences and experience, insisting on keeping a diary and writing excerpts; list your advantages on paper, and write one or two famous quotes or quotes that can inspire you. mottos, posted on the wall and other places that can be seen everywhere, see them every day to motivate yourself. In short, you must find ways to make yourself confident. Confidence will lead to happiness, happiness will allow you to explore your potential, and you will be efficient. The so-called happiness means that the faster it is, the happier it is, and the happier it is, the faster it is. Forming a virtuous cycle, it is not difficult to have a good mentality.

Secondly, we must learn to adjust.

Life is ever-changing, joys and sorrows, birth, old age, illness and death, natural and man-made disasters, happiness, anger, sorrow and joy are all inevitable. A failure in an exam, a misunderstanding with a partner, or an extreme word will all affect our mood. There are always many unhappy things in life, which requires each of us to learn to adjust our mentality. How to adjust it? The simplest and most effective way is to replace negative cues with positive cues. When you want to say "I'm done", you should immediately replace it with "No, I still have hope." When you want to say "I can't forgive him," you should quickly replace it with "Forgive him, I am also wrong." Yeah" and so on. Usually develop the habit of positive suggestions. Say to yourself "I can do it" and "That's great". If you turn these two sentences into a mantra, that would be great! Yes, you must learn to use positive suggestions, think brightly, think from others’ perspective, and think from multiple perspectives. Winter is here, can spring be far behind? The end of the night is dawn. How can we get the fragrance of plum blossoms without going through a lot of hardships?

Third, we must learn to be tolerant and cultivate a broad mind.

A person who is narrow-minded and only focuses on himself will be easily angry, depressed and careless. And when you have a broad mind, you will tolerate others, appreciate others, and tolerate others, and your own mood will be able to remain optimistic. As the saying goes, "the sky is brighter when you take a step back" and "the benevolent are invincible." I think the reason why great people are great is that they have a broad mind. Lin Xiangru tolerated Lian Po, and only then did he have the "friendship of the enemy" and the strength of Zhao; Zhuge Liang tolerated Zhou Yu, and only then did the Battle of Chibi and the Three Kingdoms stand; only then did the Communist Party launch a national united front, and only then did the new The founding of China; only when teachers tolerate students can they come up with better education methods and enjoy the fragrance of "peaches and plums all over the world". Let us be kind to every child, understand everyone deeply, believe in ourselves and others, be strict with ourselves, be lenient to others, have the motherland in mind, and look at the world. In this way, we will be able to maintain a good attitude.

In the final analysis, what determines a person’s mentality is his ideals, outlook on life, and world view. If a person has ambitious goals, a correct outlook on life, a broad mind, is persistent and enterprising, challenges himself, is unyielding to fate, believes in himself, and thinks positively, then he will definitely be able to maintain a good attitude and have a wonderful life.