In the last episode of "North and South", Bai Jinghui passed away!

Due to a sudden myocardial infarction, in the film, after she received a call from her son inviting her to Hangzhou during the New Year , and finally passed away sitting in his own home.

A family of 6 people hurried home and after sadly preparing for Bai Jinghui’s funeral, the six people gathered together and read out the will left by Bai Jinghui.

Two letters - one for granddaughter Dai Xiaoyu and one for granddaughter Bao Xue.

Many netizens wantonly accused Bai Jinghui of being partial, saying that she has been particularly fond of her granddaughter on the surface over the years, but in fact she always puts her granddaughter first in her heart.

Because the only property left in her will was given to Dai Xiaoyu, Bao Xue got nothing.

But is this really the case?

Through this clip, let’s analyze how many ways a person can express love for someone when they are about to die.

Bao Xue grew up with her grandma Bai Jinghui, but Dai Xiaoyu did not.

Bai Jinghui knows very well that Bao Xue has a lively and cheerful personality, a happy and harmonious family, and a sweet talk that can coax people.

Precisely because of the company of her granddaughter, Bai Jinghui's life has become more colorful, and the smile on her face has increased a lot.

Bao Xue is Bai Jinghui’s pistachio.

In addition, Bao Xue's mother is very filial and her father is also a kind person. Bai Jinghui herself is also happy with the young couple.

Therefore, no one can shake Bao Xue's position in Bai Jinghui's heart.

Dai Xiaoyu is Bai Jinghui's granddaughter, but she did not grow up under her knees. She was the one who was forced to take care of Bai Jinghui's son later when he became jealous.

However, seeing that their cousins ??got along very well, they took over this "errand" and tried their best to take care of their meals.

Later, Dai Xiaoyu went to Norway to study for five years. During that period, she rarely went home to visit Bai Jinghui.

Dai Xiaoyu’s feelings for her grandma are naturally inferior to Bao Xue’s feelings for her grandma. How can we tell?

When in Norway, Dai Xiaoyu and Peng Pai were about to get married. They only invited Bao Xue and did not inform Bai Jinghui. If they hadn't broken up later, they probably wouldn't have wanted to return to China at all.

Later, when the two sisters went to Bai Jinghui’s house for dinner, Bao Xue found Bai Jinghui’s diagnosis of “broken bones” at home. Bao Xue ran out angrily and blamed her grandma for “not informing” her, crying. His eyes were red, but Dai Xiaoyu seemed much calmer.

Therefore, analyze it from a normal psychological perspective: Love is a very abstract thing. It is a feeling, a pure and beautiful reaction of body and mind that transcends reality. It is exquisite and sensitive, affecting the whole body and mind and emotions of joy and sorrow. Moreover, the power is so great that it is often beyond the control of reason, or simply unreasonable.

In the simplest terms: love is a kind of perception, and it is also a kind of passion.

Bao Xue was raised by Bai Jinghui from childhood. The number of times they met and the time they spent together were longer than that of Dai Xiaoyu. Coupled with her carefree and lovable personality, Bai Jinghui naturally doted on Bao Xue even more. More caring.

Netizens will definitely be confused: "Since you love Bao Xue so much, why was the only property ownership right in the will given to Dai Xiaoyu free of charge? Isn't this very contradictory?"

No!

Bai Jinghui was left to Dai Xiaoyu when she was in a very "miserable" situation.

This misery stems from Dai Xiaoyu’s strong personality and insistence on doing things his own way.

At the age of 30, her career was unsuccessful, her life was in a mess, her love life was not smooth, and she even lost her uterus, leaving her with no fertility for life.

Her future road will definitely be more difficult than Bao Xue's.

And what about Bao Xue?

In her twenties, her career is still developing, her parents are healthy, and she has found a boyfriend who understands her and is willing to take care of her. What’s more, she has a free and easy personality and can think of everything. From the current perspective, the future is still very smooth and smooth.

Therefore, if Bai Jinghui leaves the property to Bao Xue, it is just the icing on the cake, but giving it to Dai Xiaoyu is a timely help.

It is impossible for an old man who has passed away to use his real estate to express his gratitude to his granddaughter.

On the contrary, it is more like the last responsibility performed before death!

There are three reasons:

The first point, as we mentioned above, is also No more words.

The second point is that in the play, there is a close-up scene of Bai Jinghui writing her will. She was very calm at the time, thinking over and over again in front of the dark desk before finally writing.

The third point is the most eye-catching scene when reading the "Will". Dai Xiaoyu is sitting on the main seat with his father and Bao Xue's mother, with a letter in front of them.

After opening the envelope, the letter left to Dai Xiaoyu was only one piece of paper, and the content was very simple: directly leave the property to her.

The letter left to Bao Xue consisted of 4 pieces of paper, and the content was very detailed: First, she recalled the friendship between Bao Xue and her, and then she felt guilty for the decision she had made, and told the house to stay. The final reason for Dai Xiaoyu was to ask for Bao Xue's understanding.

Deep love cannot be measured by common sense.

Just as Han Yu said: One is at the end of the sky, and the other is at the corner of the earth. When I am born, my shadow is not connected with my form, and when I die, my soul is not connected with my dream.

Compared with leaving the real estate to Dai Xiaoyu, the love Bai Jinghui gave to Bao Xue during her lifetime and the time and energy she spent trying to figure out Bao Xue's thoughts before her death left a 4-page will that was even more sincere.

Isn't it more valuable to be remembered by someone "in your heart" before you die?

As an elder, it is actually difficult for a bowl of water to be balanced. This is a very stringent requirement, not to mention that there is no specific unified standard for drinking water.

Because "everything cannot be done in pairs", there is a saying of "partiality".

This is normal human psychology. The balance in the heart will always tilt under the premise of comparison, resulting in "resentment".

I don’t want others to inflict on me, and I also want nothing to be done to others.

Because Bai Jinghui knew that Bao Xue would be "estranged" in his heart, she explained the reasons for all her choices in the letter and sought Bao Xue's understanding and forgiveness.

Assagioli said: Without forgiveness, life will be dominated by endless hatred and revenge.

Bai Jinghui hopes from the bottom of her heart that Bao Xue can get rid of the complaints in her heart and live a good life every day. This is also a manifestation of deep love!

Monrotino co-wrote a book This article describes a very interesting scene at the beginning: There is a group of goldfish kept in a round glass fish tank. Which one is more real, the world they see or the world we live in?

Naturally, everyone has his or her own opinion, and we have our own values.

We need the ability to see through phenomena and see the essence clearly, in order to be a "fish" that is not fooled by appearances.

Jiang Qing was once an actress, and she has a beautiful appearance , although it can’t be said to be the most beautiful one in the country, it still has its own unique charm. But underneath her beautiful appearance, she has a vicious heart, and even wants to harm the country and the people.

On the contrary, Zhang Haidi was paralyzed by a high amputation, but he had the perseverance and determination to fight against the devil. In the end, he still wrote his splendid and destructive life in the hospital bed and wheelchair, becoming a role model admired by the world.

Everything needs to be carefully analyzed, observed, and tasted like tea. Only then can we have the opportunity to taste the spirit and deep meaning, taste the inner vitality, prosperity and tenacity, and thus infect us. Let us have more passion to invest in life!