First of all, the risk of marriage is too high and the divorce rate is very high! The current high divorce rate also makes many young people afraid of getting married and do not want to enter a marriage full of landmines. What's more, today's young people almost have to empty their homes when they get married, and even have to bear a lot of debts. Because getting married requires the man to pay a betrothal gift, buy a house, decorate the house, and the woman to buy a dowry, furniture, a car, etc., as well as a banquet. The above-mentioned projects cost a lot of money, and for many families, it may take ten or even decades of their savings!

I have investigated many "married people" and discovered a very interesting phenomenon. Young people who don't want to get married tend to have lower monthly salaries. When their monthly income is less than 5k, they basically lose the desire to get married. Those with a monthly salary of more than 30,000 are thinking about their lifelong events. The problem they face is how to find "true love" in the vast crowd! Among these "late marryers", 80% of the young people gave me the same answer: they have no money to get married. They said that if they did not have the financial strength, they would not dare to consider marriage easily.

Shakespeare once said: Any love relationship that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooliganism! This is a famous saying, but with the progress of the times, with the advent of the era of free love, and in today's open era, people understand this sentence more, it is feudal! The so-called shadow in the heart refers to a person who personally experienced his parents' struggle with marriage during his childhood. All unhappy marriages will inevitably break out into many fierce quarrels, and behind all the quarrels, the most affected person Nothing more than children.

After getting married, especially after giving birth to children, women begin to consciously take responsibility for taking care of the family and taking care of the children. But men still do what they want, and what’s even scarier is that they don’t even think about changing. How many women enter into marriage with beautiful longings, but after getting married, they find that men only want to find a nanny.

How many men who promised to be considerate and diligent turned out to be giant babies who were unable to work hard and couldn’t distinguish between grains after marriage!