"Middle age" is an era full of mixed tastes. Often when talking about middle age or writing about middle age, we see that most of the words and languages we hear are tears and grievances.
I have to admit, this is true. For middle-aged people, life may make us feel the deepest and truest, perhaps it is a kind of helplessness "tired", or a kind of confusion and helplessness. ...
For everyone from middle-aged to middle-aged, people of this age have a bitter stomach and have to swallow it secretly from their throats. Because every middle-aged person is the backbone of a family, the child of his parents and the parents of his own children. Therefore, it determines the attribute characteristics of the role of middle age: there are old people in the world and villains in the world.
We can't just watch ourselves born, raise ourselves and bring ourselves into this world. Our parents suffer with us, so we have the responsibility to let our parents live a happy life in their later years and make them happy because of our existence and children. Similarly, we can't bear to see our children suffer with us because we don't work hard-that is, middle-aged people in real life, old and young, would rather be crushed by life, wronged by themselves, crying alone in a dark corner, and don't want to see their relatives worry about us because of our incompetence, or even suffer with us ...
When people reach middle age, in our life, in the heart of every middle-aged person, we always seem to feel something is missing. Is it easy? Is it happiness? There seems to be both, and there seems to be more. ...
Moreover, in every middle-aged person's heart, in every middle-aged person's emotion, there is another kind of loneliness brought by the sun and the moon-we are entangled in the days of daily necessities in real life, and the days without money may be the biggest problem among all the problems in our marriage. It is precisely because of the life without money that too many couples have embarked on the sad ending of "strangers" who parted ways; Husband and wife have been together for too long, without a trace of freshness, and marriage has become a lonely day. From the initial "nothing to talk about" to the "nothing to say" after the husband and wife are too familiar-this is the marriage and love life between husband and wife after middle age.
However, for every middle-aged person, no matter men or women, there is still a gorgeous rose about love in his heart, and he still yearns for the romance of gentle love. Therefore, there is a sharp contrast between our dull life and the poetic love and romance in our hearts: should we protect our marriage, our lover, a kind of morality, and restrain the primitive animals who yearn for it infinitely to find fresh desires, or should we just live for our own life and pursue that kind of charm? This is a kind of confusion and hesitation of most middle-aged people. They long for love and poetic life. They don't want their lives to be bound by daily necessities. They don't want their love life to be lonely. However, they deeply understand that they have a responsibility and responsibility in their hearts.
On the road of life, there is no smooth sailing, but there are more long hardships and difficult thorns, and even mixed feelings.
For middle-aged people, this feeling may be deeper, not to mention some experiences-because there are old people in the world, because there are little people in the world, and because this responsibility and responsibility are on us, we feel that life is very tired, helpless, confused and confused. ...
However, it is the same responsibility and responsibility that makes us feel the warmth of our family and loved ones, and understand that there is still a kind of happiness in this world called "being old in the world and being small in the world"-life may not only be a life, but also a state of mind, because the taste of our life changes with different attitudes.
When people reach middle age, life is bitter and difficult. However, whenever we come home and see white-haired parents waiting for their children to come home, we can feel the warmth of being loved and taken care of as their children. To tell the truth, not everyone is lucky enough to have experienced such a blessing.
When people reach middle age, although it is not so easy to live a small life, it is even more difficult because they have to be responsible for the life of a young family. Even we feel depressed and lonely because of the embarrassment of life and nowhere to vent our emotions. However, whenever a family gets together, talking and laughing, and having a reunion dinner, we are mothers, sons and daughters-in-law. At this time, we are.
Life is a state of mind and a happy state. The same kind of life, because of different understanding, because of different mentality, will produce different results-the same old and young life, the same life surrounded by daily necessities, the same dull loneliness, different understanding, there will be different tastes-people in middle age, half happiness, half tears. ...