Tolerance is the elegance and leisure of "I will go to the water to stop my path, and then sit and watch Yun Qi", and it is the tolerance and forbearance of "crossing the wave-robbing brothers and meeting each other with a smile to forget the enmity". Everyone has a tolerant heart. The sky is big, people's hearts are big, and the world is bigger than people's hearts. People's hearts are different. They are warm-hearted, caring, kind, kind and tolerant. At the same time, some people are cruel, black-hearted, jealous and unbalanced. Just because there are many hearts, people are half-hearted, fickle and unbalanced, and one tolerant heart is occupied by another. Over time, a tolerant heart has become very narrow, self-respecting, serving others, going its own way, not looking for three points, not letting people go.
We feel that life is tiring or depressing, partly because of survival and partly because we can't tolerate the success of others. We attribute the success of others to an accident or opportunity, that is, we don't seriously sum up the law of his success. We feel depressed in life, partly because we are lonely and idle, partly because we are bored and idle, and partly because we are too small-minded to allow others to surpass us and our own small mistakes. We often say that life is not easy, life is not easy. The so-called easy, tolerant is easy, tolerant is generous, tolerant is wise, tolerant is great, tolerant is rigid, tolerant is strong. If you can tolerate, you can love. If you can love, nothing is difficult, everything is easy. A big belly can hold things that are difficult to hold in the world; Laugh often and laugh at ridiculous people in the world; Don't gossip, sit still and think about yourself. This is all about being a man.
Tolerance is a virtue, a self-cultivation, a quality, and a moral principle for dealing with interpersonal relationships. Tolerance is a kind of happiness, a lofty realm and a kind of strength. Tolerance can deepen the feelings between people; Tolerance can make the friendship between people last forever; Tolerance can resolve the contradiction between people; Tolerance can deepen the understanding between people; Tolerance can make a family harmonious and happy; Tolerance can make a unit cohesive; Tolerance can make a society develop harmoniously.
According to records, during the Warring States Period, one day, Chu Huaiwang hosted a banquet for guests and rewarded generals and ministers. The cock crow that night ... After three rounds of wine, Chu Huaiwang was in high spirits, so he summoned his beloved princess to propose a toast to everyone. The princess was so beautiful that she attracted everyone's attention as soon as she appeared. She toasted everyone one after another. When it was the general's turn, the light suddenly went out, so the general took the opportunity to grab the princess's hand, and the princess took the opportunity to take off a HongLing unique to the general. Later, the light came on again, and the concubine returned to Chu Huaiwang and told me what had just happened. This incident directly violated the reputation of the imperial concubine, and even more insulted the dignity of Chu Huaiwang. If it had been put on ordinary people, it would have been furious. But Chu Huaiwang did not break into a furious rage without thinking, but skillfully resolved the general's embarrassment. After lights out, he ordered all the generals to turn around and go to HongLing. By the way, the ministers also took off the jade ornaments symbolizing their status, and then let the eunuchs in the palace put them away. When the lights came on again, a brand-new HongLing appeared in front of all the generals, and all the ministers naturally changed into a brand-new Yu Pei, so everyone shouted: "Thank you, long live the emperor!" However, only the general knows that the king tolerated himself in this way! However, the story is not over. In a battle, the Chu army was surrounded by many enemy soldiers and was trapped in the point where he wanted to enter but could not retreat. Chu Huaiwang was in a hurry. At this moment, a general came out, fierce and desperate, killing the enemy soldiers around him to pieces, and finally saved the battle. And this brave soldier is the tolerant general of that day!
This is the power of tolerance, small can save lives, big can save a war, save a nation, a country! Therefore, we should learn to tolerate and understand others with a broad mind. Tolerance and understanding are the most primitive and sincere communication methods between people, and they are also the most effective! Let's be more tolerant and less quarrelsome; Love more and complain less; More understanding, less suspicion; More cooperation and less friction; More happiness, less sadness. Let the sky of love be broader and the sunshine of mood be brighter!
Tolerance, like an air freshener, can bring a warm fragrance to people. Forgiving others is equal to perfecting yourself; Forgiving yourself is sometimes equal to forgiving others. Forgiving yourself is not to make yourself decadent, but to keep moving forward in a healthy environment. Is to cherish yourself, cherish yourself and protect yourself. This is not a selfish concept. Learning tolerance will make your life easier and more free and easy; Be generous to others, and you will feel more comfortable and happier physically and mentally; Always be tolerant, and your life will be full of sunshine and hope. Learning tolerance will make your life easier and more free and easy; Be generous to others, and you will feel more comfortable and happier physically and mentally; Always be tolerant, and your life will be full of sunshine and hope. A tolerant person is a healthy and optimistic person.