Sima Guang's family style in Song Dynasty.
1. Home is the world.
The Book of Songs praised Zhou Wenwang's moral character, saying: First set an example for his wife, and then pass it on to his brothers, so as to achieve the goal of governing the country by family.
These are the principles emphasized by the saints, that is, correct the family style first, and then correct the world style.
China's ancient tradition of attaching importance to family education is often criticized by modern people as advocating feudal hierarchy, but it is not known that respecting the old and loving the young is the basic duty of human nature and the initial starting point of cultivating human love.
Of course, the significance of China's traditional family education goes far beyond this. It also puts forward the basic model of moral construction with the isomorphism of family and country.
This model does not simply equate family management with governing the country, and transplant the experience of family management into the general plan of governing the country. Instead, it extends the emotional analogy of the family to the society and regards the family as the most basic unit of the social structure, so that everyone can first cultivate the quality and ability to adapt to and handle social affairs in the family unit.
This is a far-sighted family education.
Traditional family education in China is an excellent example of the perfect combination of family education and social education in the history of world education.
2. A gentleman wants less, does not serve, and can be straight.
If a gentleman reduces his desires, he can go straight without material slavery.
If the villain reduces his desire, he can be cautious, save money, stay away from crime and have a prosperous family.
Therefore, the ancients said: thrift is the principle of all kinds of morality.
Luxury breeds greed.
Gentlemen are greedy for money, greedy for money, distort morality, and quickly invite disaster.
Ordinary people are greedy, so they take too much, spend too much and even lose their families.
Therefore, corrupt officials must take bribes and be thieves for the people.
Indulge in material comforts blindly, and people will become slaves of material things.
Only by curbing greed can we stand on the material ground, be independent and maintain the most precious spirit of freedom in the world.
When civilians choose luxury, they will not only squander their existing hardships, but also turn luxury houses into cages.
Those in power let greed expand, which not only betrayed the discipline of the country, but also regarded public power as a talon.
Sima Guang's assertion that an insatiable person will take bribes when he lives in an official position and steal when he lives in his hometown should be taken as a lesson for people today.
Teach your husband what he likes and make him an adult.
Since ancient times, loving children and not knowing how to teach them have left them in danger, humiliation and confusion. Can you count the examples? If you love a child, you should educate him and let him grow up smoothly.
Loving them will put them in danger, humiliation and confusion. Where can I really love his children? People love their children, and most of them say that children are too young to be sensible and will be educated when they grow up.
This is tantamount to cultivating early buds of harmful trees, but it is said that it is more difficult to cut them when they grow to the thickness of folds. It's like putting a bird in a cage and catching it, releasing the reins and catching it. What's easier than releasing a bird without releasing its cage or reins?
If you love your son, you should educate him as early as possible. These are two important principles of China's ancient family education thought.
Nowadays, people love children, and most of them try their best to meet their needs, which is equivalent to letting naive children rule mature parents; Or refuse to give children a correct education on the grounds that they are not sensible, which actually misses the best period of education.
Once a child's temperament is shaped, it is as difficult to transfer as a stone.
Ancient family education put the responsibility of educating children in every family, which is undoubtedly more complete and far-sighted than the educational model that blindly relies on school education.
4. Be a wife. There are six virtues.
As a wife, her character should have six points: first, gentleness and obedience; Second, cleanliness; Third, be generous and not jealous of others; Fourth, frugality; Fifth, modesty and prudence; Sixth, work hard.
In today's society, equality between men and women is emphasized, and the excellent moral character that a wife should have is naturally ignored.
Only obedience and respect can resolve disputes and cultivate harmony without losing the true colors and elegance of women.
If you compete with your husband on some trivial matters and fight to the death, then the family will be torn apart and the children will be injured.
Only generosity can leave a stable and warm home for her husband and let him travel around the world.
If you are jealous, mean and suspicious, you will drive away all your friends around your husband, which is tantamount to ruining your family and neglecting your family.
Only cleanliness, frugality and hard work are the ways to keep a house.
It can be said that a virtuous wife dominates the vitality and kindness of a family.
Sima guang's famous saying
Sima guang's famous saying
1, don't cherish gold and jade, loyalty is the treasure.
Everyone is proud of luxury, and my heart is only pure and beautiful.
3, small things are not confused, big things are not confused.
4, people are embarrassed if they are not enough, and look back at evil!
5, benevolence must rule, disdain must be chaotic, the inevitable way.
6. Better be a fool than a villain.
7. Under the system, few people are unified and discipline is fixed.
8. To be an official, you must be talented. If you are incompetent or incompetent, then you don't have to kiss.
9, selling evil is not cute, it is a curse.
10, I'd rather be a fool than a villain.
1 1, I have no outstanding people, but I can't talk about my life and behavior with others.
12, talent, moral capital also; De is handsome.
13, talent and virtue are called saints, talent and virtue are called fools, virtue and virtue are called gentlemen, and virtue is called villains. Anyone who is good at learning will be an official, and he can't eat the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain, let alone eat the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain.
14, a gentleman has few desires, does not serve, but can go straight; If a villain wants less, he can save it, and he is not far from guilty.
15, all the achievements of Pepsi are respected, and its failure will be slow.
16, if you don't get what you deserve, you will be ashamed.
17, teachers are easy to meet, but teachers are hard to meet.
18, the past is not far away, I belong to the teacher.
19, the adopted son is not the godfather's fault, and the discipline is not strict.
20. Skillful people quit without breaking, quiet people quit without the future, and broad-minded people quit and forget.
2 1. If a villain wants more, he will try to lose his life.
22. If you are illiterate, you want to be virtuous, and you want to be talented and not cut jade.
23. A wise man is honest enough, honest enough, smart enough, considerate enough and farsighted enough, strong enough, firm enough and upright enough. Big benefits the world, while small benefits a country.
24, the family is poor in thinking about marrying a good wife, and the country is thinking about looking good.
25. Be generous and prudent, and don't commit crimes.
26, the sage's official, the craftsman's material is also, take its strengths and use its shortcomings.
27. Money is thick and sweet, and people are afraid of money.
28, life is not conducive to time, death is unknown in the future, it is also self-defeating.
29, endure small anger and save big letters.
30. People with virtue can't be reconciled, and so can people without virtue.
3 1, use the way of fighting to appease the gentleman's sincerity and turn the enemy into your cunning.
32. Great Sage, unfortunately; As for everyone, how can it be useless to live when you cherish the yin? Give up on yourself when you die.
33. People who manage their finances well support what they have come from and receive what they have, so they are inexhaustible, top-down and pay enough.
34. The friendship between people and ministers should be outspoken, not arrogant.
35. Prosperity begets arrogance, while negligence begets disaster.
36. Luxury leads to more desires. If a gentleman longs for more, he will read Mu Fugui, and he will waste his way and get into trouble soon.
37. The eagle strikes the sky and the wind is strong, and Pengfei waves in spring.
38. You must recite a book, or recite it at once, or when you don't sleep in the middle of the night, you can learn more by reciting its text and thinking about its meaning.
39. There is honey in the mouth and a sword in the belly.
40, mortal love, poverty will change.
4 1, face to face, the ancients warned.
42. Heroes are useless.
43, frugality, so it is beautiful.
44. The friendship between the poor and the humble should not be forgotten, and the wife of the dross should not be left behind.
45. Non-trust cannot make people, and non-people cannot protect their homes.
46. Heart is the foundation and cultivation is the foundation.
47. The problem for people is that they don't read history.
48. Talent is the capital of virtue; De is handsome.
49. To choose an official, you must be talented. If you are incompetent or incompetent, then you don't have to kiss.
50. The merits of heaven and earth should not be rushed, but hard work should be tiring.
5 1, Desheng is talented and called a gentleman; He who wins virtue is called a villain.
52. Chu doesn't need Wuqi to cut chaos, and Qin uses it to be rich and powerful.
53. When reading important books, you must recite them.
54. Heart is the foundation and cultivation is the foundation.
55. If you hear it, you will be blessed after one day; He who hears his name will suffer from the loss of heaven.
56. If you are illiterate, you want to be virtuous, and you want to be brilliant in literary talent without cutting jade.
57. Under the system, few people are unified and discipline is fixed.
58. Shi Gui is good at it, but he doesn't know it.
59. Listening is bright, favoritism is dark.
60. Love is not in the way, so it is also harmful.
6 1, the merits of heaven and earth should not be rushed, and hard work will be tiring.
62, the big is the outline, the small is the discipline, so Zhang Li up and down, neat and humane.
63. A gentleman is greedy for money if he wants more, and chaotic if he wants to be anxious; The villain wants more, seeks more for vain use, and the family is ruined.
64. People will not make progress if they are self-sufficient.
65. Do not believe, do not believe; Separated up and down, resulting in defeat.
66, people must be unprepared, to give up its short, take its long.
67. It is not easy for a husband to make a commitment.
68. If you are responsible for the difficult things, it is easy to get something for nothing; Make up for it, and its elders will decline.
69. Use people as tools to learn from each other's strengths.
70. Politics is based on morality and governing the country is based on pollution.
7 1, those who are good at managing money, raise what they come from and receive what they have, so they are inexhaustible, and what they pay is enough.
72. If you learn to be excellent, you will be an official, and you will not get a sage and a gentleman, and you will not get a villain and a fool. What is this? A gentleman thinks he is good, but a villain thinks he is evil. Think that what you are good is good; People who think they are evil are also evil. Although fools want to be bad, they are not wise and invincible. For example, a suckling dog fights with people and people get hurt. The villain is smart enough to be a traitor and brave enough to be violent, but the tiger with wings is more harmful! Virtue is strict, talent is love; Love is easy to kiss, and strictness is easy to get rid of, which shows that the examiner covers more talents than morality. Since ancient times, there have been many traitors, especially Zhi Bo, who have lost their families, so that there are more virtues than virtues. Therefore, the country is the home, and the distinction between talent and morality shows the order. () Why not lose someone else's foot?
73. The smallest is the biggest, and the prudent is the best.
74. It is not for self-interest to nurture the country.
75, flat and then clear, clear and then clear.
76. You can't get out of the clan by raising talents, and the usage is neither hard nor powerful. It is that Israel is not easy to do things and rape is not punished.
77. Be kind and frugal.
78. Believers are the wealth of the monarch.
79. Shi Gui is good at it, but he doesn't know it.
80. Natural people have their own strengths. The personnel of the country are equipped with many leaders. However, people who do whatever they want and do nothing are not good at what they use, and what they do is not good at what they use.
Sima guang's famous words through the ages
Sima guang's famous words through the ages
1, be there or be square, how can you be ruthless? -Sima Guang's "Xijiang Moon"
2, the bun is loose, the lead is light, the smoke cover is light, and the flying is uncertain. How can we be heartless if we don't see each other? Wake up first after a break, and be quiet in the deep courtyard. -Sima Guang's "Xijiang Moon"
3. "Fight the world at the age of 28, never ride a horse for life, gallop thousands of miles, just for dreams-Sima Guang's" Zi Tongzhi Sword ""
It's sunny and rainy in April, and Nanshan turns bright. There are no catkins in the wind, only sunflowers open to the sun. -Sima Guang's "Early Summer in the Guest"
5, the way of governing the country, we must judge our own advantages and be strong and short, cover up those who are smart and dredge to avoid excesses, those who are ignorant and rare to avoid being sheltered, those who are brave and strong to avoid being too violent, those who are kind and gentle to avoid breaking, those who are quiet and comfortable to avoid being late, and those who are broad-minded to avoid forgetting. We should judge what we should do and what is just, and then neutralize it, so those smart and hypocritical people will not dare to expect it. -Sima Guang's History as a Mirror
6. What is a gentleman? What is a villain? Virtue is greater than a gentleman and virtue is greater than a villain. -Sima Guang's History as a Mirror
7. Heart is the foundation and cultivation is the foundation. -Sima Guang
8. How can you love yourself if you don't love your loved ones? -Sima Guang's family model
9. The merits of heaven and earth cannot be rushed, and hard work should tire the sun and the moon. -Sima Guang
10, "the wind has no catkins, and the sunflower is inclined to the sun. -Sima Guang's Early Summer
1 1, Pepsi's achievements are also respected there, and its failure will be slow. -Sima Guang
12, a mother, not suffering from lack of kindness, suffering from knowing love and not teaching. The ancients said, "A loving mother defeats her children." . Love without teaching leads to corruption, great evil, punishment, chaos and death. It is not the failure of others, but also the failure of mother. Since ancient times and today, many people can't be complete. -Sima Guang's Family Model
13, the family is poor and thinks of a good wife, and the country is chaotic and thinks of a good man. -Sima Guang
14. When reading important books, you must recite them. -Sima Guang
15, luxury leads to more desires. If a gentleman longs for more, he will read Mu Fugui, and he will waste his way and get into trouble soon. -Sima Guang
16, Scott is good at it, but I don't know. -Sima Guang
17, the way of family harmony: forbearance-Sima Guang's family model
18, talents, moral capital; De is handsome. -Sima Guang
19, everyone is proud of luxury, and my heart is only simple and beautiful. -Sima Guang
20. Better be a fool than a villain. -Sima Guang
2 1, Baoji is loosely tied, and lead is lightly supplemented. The smoke hood is light and the flying floc is uncertain. -Sima Guang's "Xijiang Moon"
22, endure small anger and save big letters. -Sima Guang's "Zi Tongzhi Tang Jian Jiba"
23, the original "Zhouyi": from bottom to bottom. Family: Li Privet. Xun said: home, women inside, men outside, men and women on the right, the meaning of heaven and earth is also. Family members are strict, and parents are strict. Father, son, brother, brother, husband, wife and family are right. It is home and the world is stable. -Sima Guang's Family Model
24. People who manage their finances well, support what they come from and receive what they have, so they are inexhaustible, top-down and pay enough. -Sima Guang
25, if people are not enough, they have gained, and look back at evil! -Sima Guang
26. To be an official, you must be talented. If you are incompetent or incompetent, then you don't have to kiss. -Sima Guang
27. There is honey in the mouth and a sword in the belly. -Sima Guang's "Zi Tongzhi Ji Jian Tang Xuanzong Tianbao First Year"
28. "If you smell it, you will be blessed; He who hears his name will suffer from the loss of heaven. -Sima Guang's Zi Tongzhi Jin Jianji
29. The mountains and rivers remain the same, and there will be many people in the future. -Sima Guang's Prints
30. How affectionate are you if you don't see each other? Wake up first after a break, and be quiet in the deep courtyard. -Sima Guang's "Xijiang Bao Yue's bun is loose"
3 1, flat means clear, clear means clear-Sima Guang
32. Choose a person for the official, don't expect it. If you use a gentleman, you will finish, and if you use a villain, you will compete with a villain. -Sima Guang's Six Years of Emperor Taizong Zhenguan in Ji Tang.
I have no outstanding person, but I will never talk to anyone in my life. -Sima Guang
34, don't cherish the golden jade, loyalty is the treasure. -Sima Guang
35. Born people have their own strengths. The personnel of the country are equipped with many leaders. However, people who do whatever they want and do nothing are not good at what they use, and what they do is not good at what they use. -Sima Guang
36. Use people as tools to learn from each other's strengths. -Sima Guang
37, swordsman goshawk, general white tiger tooth. Split up water, ride and hunt sand. Waves have books hidden sleeves, but it is difficult to rely on Xinda's family. I can't bear to hear the dawn and blow out plum blossoms. -Sima Guang's "Plug"
38, life is not conducive to time, death is unknown in the future, it is also self-defeating. -Sima Guang
39. Illiterate and want to be virtuous, but also want to be brilliant and not cut jade. -Sima Guang
40. Under the system, few people are unified and the discipline is fixed-Sima Guang
4 1, people can't be unprepared, and they should take advantage of their shortcomings. -Sima Guang
42. If you ask about the rise and fall of ancient and modern times, please only look at Luoyang City-Sima Guang.
43. I feel like a guest after coming for a while, but I can't go home when I come back. -Sima Guang
44. "Only sunflowers are biased towards the sun"-Sima Guang
45. Good can be law and evil can be discipline. -Sima Guang's "Gold Tongzhi Jianbiao"
Sima guang's famous words through the ages
1, be there or be square, how can you be ruthless? Sima Guang's Xijiang Moon
2, the bun is loose, the lead is light, the smoke cover is light, and the flying is uncertain. How can we be heartless if we don't see each other? After the song, the wine wakes up first, and the deep courtyard is quiet. Sima Guang's Xijiang Moon
3, "Twenty-eight days, quit the horse for a lifetime, gallop thousands of miles, just for dreams? Sima Guang's Zi Tong Zhi Jian
It's sunny and rainy in April, and Nanshan turns bright. There is no catkin, but the sunflower is biased towards the sun because of the wind? Sima Guang's Early Summer in the Guest
5, the way of governing the country, we must judge our own advantages and be strong and short, cover up those who are smart and dredge to avoid excesses, those who are ignorant and rare to avoid being sheltered, those who are brave and strong to avoid being too violent, those who are kind and gentle to avoid breaking, those who are quiet and comfortable to avoid being late, and those who are broad-minded to avoid forgetting. We should judge what we should do, which is just, and then neutralize it, while the smart and the false dare not expect it? Sima Guang's "Zi Tong Zhi Jian"
6. What is a gentleman? What is a villain? Is virtue greater than a gentleman, and virtue greater than a villain? Sima Guang's "Zi Tong Zhi Jian"
7. Heart is the foundation, and cultivation is the foundation? Sima guang
8. How can you love yourself if you don't love your loved ones? Sima Guang's Family Style
9. the merits of heaven and earth are irresistible, and hard work should be tired of the sun and the moon? Sima guang
10, "The wind has no catkins, and the sunflower is inclined to the sun? Early Summer by Sima Guang
1 1, where Pepsi's achievements are respected, will its failure be slow? Sima guang
12, a mother, not suffering from lack of kindness, suffering from knowing love and not teaching. The ancients said, "A loving mother defeats her children." . Love without teaching leads to corruption, great evil, punishment, chaos and death. If others fail, so will mother. From ancient times to the present, there are too many people for us to do. Sima Guang's Family Style
13, the family is poor and wants to marry a good wife, and the country is chaotic and wants to look good? Sima guang
14, you have to recite all important books? Sima guang
15, luxury leads to more desires. If a gentleman longs for more, he will read Mu Fugui, and he will waste his way and get into trouble soon. Sima guang
16, being a scholar is more important than doing things, and you don't know it? Sima guang
17, the way of family harmony: forbearance? Sima Guang's Family Style
18, talents, moral capital; De, is handsome? Sima guang
19, everyone is proud of luxury, but my heart is only pure and beautiful? Sima guang
20. Better be a fool than a villain? Sima guang
2 1, Baoji is loosely tied, and lead is lightly supplemented. The smoke hood is light and the flying floc is uncertain. Sima Guang's Xijiang Moon
22. endure small grievances and save big letters? Sima Guang, Zi Tongzhi Jian? Tangjiba
23, the original "Zhouyi": from bottom to bottom. Family: Li Privet. Xun said: home, women inside, men outside, men and women on the right, the meaning of heaven and earth is also. Family members are strict, and parents are strict. Father, son, brother, brother, husband, wife and family are right. Is home and the world stable? Sima Guang's Family Style
24. Those who manage their money well, support what they come from and take what they have, so they are inexhaustible and pay enough up and down? Sima guang
25, if people are not enough, they have gained, and look back at evil! ? Sima guang
26. To be an official, you must be talented. If you are incompetent or incompetent, even though you don't need it? Sima guang
27. Have a honey belly sword? Sima Guang, Zi Tongzhi Jian? Ji Tang? Tianbao first year of Emperor Xuanzong of Tang Dynasty
28. "If you smell it, you will be blessed; He who hears his name will lose his life? Sima Guang, Zi Tongzhi Jian? Golden rooster "
29. Mountains and rivers remain the same as before. How many future people are there? Sima Guang Engraving
30. How affectionate are you if you don't see each other? After the song, the wine wakes up first, and the deep courtyard is quiet. Sima Guang's "Xijiang Bao Yue's bun is loose"
3 1, flat and then clear, clear and then clear? Sima guang
32. Choose a person for the official, don't expect it. If you use a gentleman, you will finish, and if you use a villain, you will compete with a villain. Ji Tang Ten of Sima Guang? Emperor Taizong Zhenguan for six years. "
33. I don't have outstanding people, but I can't talk to people all my life? Sima guang
34. don't cherish gold and jade, but loyalty is a treasure? Sima guang
35. Born people have their own strengths. The personnel of the country are equipped with many leaders. However, people who do whatever they want and do nothing are not good at what they use, and what they do is not good at what they use. Sima guang
36. Use people as tools to learn from each other's strengths? Sima guang
37, swordsman goshawk, general white tiger tooth. Split up? Water, horse riding and sand hunting. Waves have books hidden sleeves, but it is difficult to rely on Xinda's family. Can't bear to smell the corner and blow out the plum blossoms? Sima guang's fortress
38. Life is not conducive to time, and death is unknown to the future. Is it self-defeating? Sima guang
39. Do you want to be talented if you can't read and want to be virtuous? Sima guang
40. Few people are unified and disciplined under the system? Sima guang
4 1, people can't be prepared, so we must choose the best from the worst? Sima guang
42. If you ask about the rise and fall of ancient and modern times, please only look at Luoyang City. Sima guang
43. I am still like a guest for the time being, but I can't go home? Sima guang
44. "Only sunflowers are biased towards the sun"? Sima guang
45, good can be the law, evil can be the precept? Sima Guang's "Going to Beijing to Treat Mirrors"
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