The mastery of human feelings is the article

"Everything in the world is knowledgeable and the mastery of human feelings is the article" is from the fifth chapter of "Dream of Red Mansions" "Wandering in the Fantasy Land" refers to the performance of the Twelve Hairpins Drinking Immortal Brew A couplet from "A Dream of Red Mansions" was framed by Cao Xueqin in Wang Xifeng's "office", and it is a wise saying to savor carefully.

This couplet is Cao Xueqin’s evaluation of Wang Xifeng. She manages the domestic affairs of the Jia family, as well as the entertainment inside and outside. She has a shrewd mind, smooth methods, a fierce personality, a broad vision, rich knowledge, and the ability to grasp things in a measured way. , cannot manage the affairs of that large family.

There is knowledge when one has a clear understanding of worldly affairs, and articles are written when one is well versed in human feelings. This is a kind of knowledge and a profound understanding of society and life. A lifetime of studying poetry and books for ten years is just a drop in the bucket compared to the knowledge in the world. School only allows us to learn basic learning methods and basic education. But in this complicated society, each of us is constantly learning and exploring, and constantly experiencing this society and this world.

"Knowledge of worldly affairs" embodies a kind of maturity and wisdom, while "sophistication of human feelings" interprets maturity and competence. In this "relationship" society, those who have gained the right will ascend to heaven, but those who have lost the right will have little help.

Once upon a time, when I think about myself, I was like a locomotive running at full speed, just blowing air and rushing forward, but rarely paying attention to the complicated chores around me and losing many opportunities; however, now, I am I always have a normal heart and a sense of gratitude, "let nature take its course and let the gains and losses take its course," and "don't be happy about things, and don't worry about yourself." Nowadays, I am more willing to experience myself, feel life, and taste life.