First, grandma should know Fan Xian's life experience.
Although it is not clearly pointed out in the play, from the various behaviors of Fan Xian's grandmother, we should know Fan Xian's life experience. It is also on this premise that she acquiesced in Wu Zhu's teaching of Fan Xian's martial arts, and at the same time acquiesced in the monitoring of other influential people in the family, but under her control, these were in a balanced state.
Second, Fan Xian's grandma education belongs to the stocking mode.
Grandma seems to ignore Fan Xian, but she actually belongs to the free-range education method. She let Fan Xian learn martial arts by himself, experience being a man, and grow and progress in the process. But once other forces want to threaten Fan Xian's life, grandma will come out to protect Fan Xian. It is precisely because she knows Fan Xian's life experience and knows that after Fan Xian enters the capital, she will only encounter more and more complicated things than now, so she let Fan Xian experience it at an early age.
Third, grandma actually loves Fan Xian in her heart.
From grandma's entrustment to Fan Xian when she left and grandma's handling of the housekeeper, we can see that grandma actually loves Fan Xian in her heart. When Fan Xian grows up, she knows grandma's mind better. You can see his understanding and love for grandma by kissing her forehead before he left.
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