Sanmao once wrote in the book: "I believe that suffering is a blessing, but I get contempt. Being a person who defends myself earns respect."

People A good horse will be bullied by others, and a good horse will be ridden by others.

Whether it is life or people, people bully the weak and fear the strong. If you are patient, the other party will get worse and worse, stumbling you and making you upset.

But when you become difficult to mess with, they begin to be afraid of you, favor you, and will try their best to cater to you and please you.

Being "not easy to mess with" is the beginning of a broad life. Only by becoming more "ruthless" will your happiness be more stable.

Women must be "harder" on themselves and make themselves better, stronger and more independent.

You are good enough to meet a better person; you are strong enough to not be afraid of any wind and rain; you are independent enough to not have to look at other people's faces...

No talent A good woman can make a living by being married; a capable woman can make a living by herself. Women must understand that they must rely on themselves first for everything and should not try to rely on others in any aspect.

Earn money by yourself; give love by yourself; discover happiness by yourself.

There is a saying that goes like this: how much grievance you can endure, how much you can accomplish; how much slander you can endure, how much praise you can endure.

No one is born excellent, strong and independent. Many things are often acquired.

No matter when, you can never stop the pace of learning, improve and enrich yourself, and make yourself strong and independent.

If women want to live happily, they must be ruthless, have higher requirements for themselves, have the ability to support themselves, make money by themselves, go wherever they want to play, and buy whatever they want. .

Be a woman who is not easy to mess with, and rely on yourself for everything. You don’t need to look at other people’s faces. You just need to wear armor, stride forward, and pursue the happiness you want.

There are many women in life who are always reluctant to let their husbands do housework. They are worried that he will mess up the house and have to clean up the mess themselves.

They do everything themselves and shoulder all responsibilities themselves. In the end, her husband was raised as a "giant baby" who knew nothing and was unwilling to take on anything.

Women should be more "cruel" and clearly discuss with their men the division of housework after marriage. For example, I will cook and you will wash the dishes, and I will wipe the table and you will sweep the floor. As long as the rules are established from the beginning, a lot of unnecessary conflicts will be reduced later.

No one is born to like to work. No one stipulates that women must do the housework and take care of the children. Don't worry that he can't do it well, and don't give up the principle of letting men share responsibilities just because you are soft-hearted.

The more "cruel" a woman is, the happier the family will be.

Only when a husband and wife work together to run a family can the situation of "men not being sympathetic to women's hard work in housework, and women always complaining about men not helping" will not occur.

Be a woman who is not easy to mess with. Be ruthless when you need to be ruthless. Be tough when you need to be tough. Love yourself and never wrong yourself.

You should be kind, but you should never abandon your principles and bottom line, whether to yourself or to others.

You need to know what is best for you, and you also need to know what kind of life you really want and what kind of person is truly suitable for you.

Life is short, you must learn to please yourself first, and then consider others. Don't be ignorant, don't follow the crowd, don't wrong yourself for others, and don't lower your posture.

Some people say: "You have to be ruthless in your heart and steady in your work. Don't be too naive, let alone too honest. If you think about others, will others think about you? What can we talk about when you have the strength? Kindness. ”

Be ruthless, have a strong heart, and have strong bones. This is the new woman and the best state of life for a woman.

Whatever you are, the world will treat you accordingly. Attitude determines everything. What attitude you have towards life determines what kind of destiny you will have.

You live your whole life and know yourself whether you are good or bad. You must stick to your life attitude and principles of doing things, cultivate and improve yourself, and make yourself better. Then use the strength you have to pursue what you want.

For the rest of your life, be a woman who is not easy to mess with, and be more cruel, so that your happiness will be more stable, your life will blossom all the way, and you will be free and easy all your life.