Don't always compare your mother-in-law with your mother, don't use your mother's standards to ask your mother-in-law, and don't ask your mother-in-law like your mother, so that you won't complain so much, but you will appreciate her bit by bit.
For example, young people, it doesn't matter if mom scolds or hits twice. Don't take it to heart, but we can't stand it if my mother-in-law says something ugly. Why? Because you are not my mother, why do you scold me? Therefore, the mother-in-law is not a mother, and it is best to keep a proper distance. And like the woman, the daughter-in-law is more delicate at home. She wants to do housework and doesn't want to do it. When she gets to her husband's house, she won't be so delicate. Can you just sit there and wait for ready-made food like at home? It is ok to be nice to your mother-in-law, because she is the mother of the person you want to spend your life with, but don't think too unrealistic.
This problem is typical in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in today's society. We need to know the origin of the name mother-in-law. Personally, I feel that the difference between mother-in-law and mother is more in my heart. On the contrary, is there still a problem that "a mother-in-law is not a mother if she kisses again"? No matter in the past or now, when dealing with the relationship between people, there is always a mindset of "heart for heart" and "heart for heart", not to mention the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. There must be an equal thinking logic of "mother-in-law is also a mother if she doesn't kiss, and mother-in-law is also a mother if she doesn't kiss." Don't draw a wrong inertia thinking in your mind early that "mother-in-law will not be a mother if she kisses again"!
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