The best definition of love may be taking the initiative to treat an individual (whether it is a person, an object or a god) sincerely and make the whole happy. In short, love is the initiative to make the whole happy. （Thomas Jay Oord）。
Love is innate, so it can be considered as a characteristic of human nature. In other words, love is one of the essences that people must possess. Although the cultural differences among all ethnic groups in the world make it difficult to define a universal definition of love, it is not impossible. See Shapia-Wolff Hypothesis. Love can include love of soul or soul, love of law and organization, love of oneself, love of food, love of money, love of learning, love of power, love of reputation, love of others, and so on. Different people pay different attention to the love they receive. Love is essentially an abstract idea, which can be experienced but difficult to say.
Philosophers say that love is a medium made of special materials, which makes people look radiant and youthful. Writers say that love is an exciting lyric poem, which makes people feel surging and enthusiastic; Medical scientists say that love is a psychological medicine that is hard to find through the ages, which makes people dredge the meridians and sorrows; Educators say that love is an unparalleled means of education, which makes people successful in their studies and full of spirit. Our education, in the final analysis, is the education with "love", educating students to know what love is, what to love and how to love. Without love, education is a tree without roots and passive water. Without love, education will become a desert and a barren land without life; Without love, education will turn into a piece of rotten wood, a lifeless dead branch and rotten leaf; Without love, education will become a broken river, a dry water without vitality. If every teacher loves his students as he loves his own children, there will be no students who can't teach well; If every teacher loves his career as much as his own body, there is no education that can't be done well.
Love has always been praised by people throughout the ages, and love can be said to be the most beautiful love! Many love stories are also talked about by people! The tragedy of love is sad, from "Butterfly Lovers" to "Romeo and Juliet" which are familiar to Chinese people are all love tragedies in the literary world! But love is still the same theme as justice in the human world!
how does love come about?
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The chemical explanation is: Because the "dopamine" in your brain is vertical
"The brain center-thalamus is the center of human love, in which Cupid's Arrow-a variety of neurotransmitters, also known as love stimulants, including dopamine and adrenaline, are stored. When a pair of men and women fall in love at first sight or get to know each other for many times, neurotransmitters such as dopamine in the thalamus are continuously secreted and surge out unstoppable. Then, we have the feeling of love.
under the action of dopamine, we feel the happiness of love. The same mechanism works when people taste chocolate or when addicts are "walking on clouds". Fortunately, our brains can tell the difference between each other. Dopamine is like a master key that can unlock many locks, and it produces different reactions in the body according to different situations. The smell and taste of chocolate tell the brain that we are eating; The body odor and fragrance of couples remind the brain that we are in love.
The "passion" brought by dopamine will give people the illusion that love can be a permanent craze. Unfortunately, our bodies can't bear the stimulation of this kind of ingredients like cocaine all the time, that is to say, a person can't be at the peak of tachycardia forever. So the brain had to cancel this idea and let those chemical components metabolize naturally under its own control. Such a process usually lasts for one and a half to three years. As dopamine decreases and disappears, passion becomes calm. "
Classification of love
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1. Citizens' love for the country
2. People's love for things. Also called love.
3. Love between people includes (1) love between elders and younger generations, such as father's love, maternal love and respect for love (2) love between friends (3) love between men and women
Famous sayings about love
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Love is the flame of life, without which everything becomes night. -Roland
I don't mean that social relations can be ignored in marriage. I mean that the influence of natural relations is much greater than that of social relations. It can even determine the fate of our lives, and it is so strict in hobbies, temper, feelings and personality that such a matched couple can withstand all possible disasters. When they live a poor life together. -France Rousseau
If love is for self-interest, this love is not true love, but a desire. -Edmund
The love between father and son is born of nature, but if we pay attention to interests, we lose the warmth of our family. The combination of husband and wife is out of love, but on the condition of economy, it loses the original intention of loving each other. -Socrates, Greece
To love others and be loved by others is everything, and this is the law of the universe. For love, we exist. Those who love and comfort are not afraid of anything or anyone. -France Penchard
Love is a puff of smoke blown by a sigh; The lover's eyes have its purified Mars; Lover's tears are the waves it arouses. It is also the wisest madness, the bitter taste that makes the throat choke, and the honey that makes the tongue lick. -English Shakespeare
Love can create miracles. Once destroyed love is rebuilt, it will be more magnificent, more beautiful and more tenacious than before. -English Shakespeare
Love is equal to … life, and life is a kind of responsibility and obligation, so love is a kind of responsibility. -Russia Goncharov
Love is the spark of life, the sublimation of friendship, and the harmony of the soul. If human feelings can be divided into levels, then love should belong to the highest level. -English Shakespeare
Love is another name for understanding. -India Tagore
What does it mean to love someone? This means being happy for his happiness, doing everything that needs to be done to make him happier, and getting happiness from it. The meaning of love is to help the other person improve and improve himself at the same time. Only Ming Che, who has become thoughtful because of love, is in love. -Chernyshevski
If light is the first object of love in life, isn't love the light of the heart? Love is our second reinvention. -F. Balzac
When the goddess of love taps you on the shoulder, even people who don't know what poetry is will suddenly become a poet. Fantasy love is more active than honest love, but the warm time is short. -Fa Stendhal
The indifference at first will make the love in the future more enthusiastic; If she gives you a false impression, it's not because she hates you, but because she wants you to love her more.-English Shakespeare
Patriotism:
As a person, you should respect your parents, be kind to your children, be generous to poor relatives, and be polite to everyone. -Russell
We love our nation, which is the source of our self-confidence. -Zhou Enlai
I love my motherland and my people. Without it, I can't live, let alone write. -Ba Jin
We Poles have no right to leave our motherland when our country is enslaved. -Madame Curie
After I die, I will send my ashes to my hometown ... bury them and plant an apple tree on them, so that I can finally repay my hometown land and my fellow villagers. -Peng Dehuai
Motherland, I will always be loyal to you, devote myself to you, and fight with my piano forever in song for you. -Chopin
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous. Love is not boastful. It is not arrogant. It is not shy. It does not seek its own benefits. It is not easy to get angry. It does not count people's evils. It does not like injustice. It only likes the truth. Everything is tolerant. Everything is believed. Everything is hoped. Everything is patient. Love is never-ending.
Love ode.
Motherly love
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Motherly love has a deep understanding of righteousness, softness and firmness. When you cry in infancy, maternal love is a warm embrace, and when you learn language, maternal love is a patient teaching; When you stay up late to prepare for the exam, maternal love is warm hot tea; When you travel far, maternal love is a whimper; When you get grades, maternal love is tears of excitement; When you are sick in bed, maternal love is bloodshot eyes; When you are infected with bad habits, maternal love is a well-meaning exhortation; When you are treading on thin ice and refuse to mend your ways, maternal love is the salt that is sprinkled on your wound and hurts her heart.
There is one of the most beautiful voices in the world, and that is the mother's call.
the mother in memory! Dearest lover, you are all my joy and friendship!
Your birthday reminds me of your thoughtfulness and everything you have done for me. I only hope to give you double the happiness you have given me! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
The sweetest word a person's lips can utter is mother, and the best call is "mother".
Understanding of love
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Love is a gain, not an expense;
love is passion, not fatigue;
love is enthusiasm rather than indifference;
Love is habit, not improvisation;
Love is pleasure, not sadness;
Love is pleasure, not venting;
Love is uplifting, not depressing;
love is creation, not stagnation;
Love is true love, not doting;
love is a process, not a result!
Love is the spiritual contact between one person and another person whom one trusts! Love is eternal! Love is a lifelong companion ...
Love is the most beautiful thing in the world.
loving someone is a kind of happiness, and being loved by someone is also a kind of happiness!
There is a saying in the Bible: Love is patient and gifted!
love is the joy brought by beauty, the wonder created by wisdom and the surprise given by the gods. People who lack love long for it, and those who have love cherish it.
Love, only love, can make people dare to give their lives for the people they love; This can be done not only by men, but also by women.
If love has no material support, everything is a mirage, and
it is an illusory building, which is beyond reach.
Plato believes that when the mind abandons the body and yearns for the truth, then the thought is the best. When the soul is infected by the sin of the body, people's desire to pursue truth will not be satisfied. When human beings have no strong demand for carnal desire, their mood is peaceful. Carnal desire is the expression of animal nature in human nature and the nature of every organism. People are so-called higher animals because human nature is stronger than animal nature, and spiritual communication is beautiful and moral.
Love gives him what he needs, not what he gives you.
Love is speechless
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Bing Xin said, "Love is on the left, sympathy is on the right, and we walk on both sides of life, sowing seeds and flowering at any time, and embellishing this long distance with fragrant flowers, so that pedestrians who wear branches and brush leaves will not feel pain and have tears to fall, but they will not be sad." This love and love. Everyone can shine a kind of light that can be read immediately.
Affection is a kind of depth, friendship is a kind of breadth, and love is a kind of purity.
Affection is an unconditional and unrequited sunshine bath
; Friendship is an ideal bank that can live safely at any time; Love, on the other hand, is a mysterious soul that can make songs forget and tears shine.
Love in a foreign language:
English (English)-I love you
Afrikaans (Dutch in South Africa)-Ekhet Joulief
Albanian (Albania). -Tedua
Arabic (for men)-Ana Behibak (for men)
Arabic (for women)-Ana Behibek (for women)
Armenian (Armenia)-Yes Kez Sirumen
Bambara (Banla). -m "Bi Fe
Bangla (Bengali)-Aameetumake Bhaloaashi
Belarusia n-Yatabe Kahayu
Bisaya-Nahiguma Ako Kanimo
Bulgaria" -Obicham te
Cambodian (Cambodia)-Sorolahn Nheeah
Catalan (Catalan)-T "Estimo
Cheyenne (Cheyenne)-Ne Mohotatse
Chichewa (Chippewa). -ndimakukonda
Corsican (Corsican)-Titengu Caru (Tomale)
Creol (Creole)-Miaime Jou
Croatian (Croatian)-Volimte
Czech. -Milujite
Danish (Denmark)-Jegelskerdig
Dutch (Netherlands)-Ikhou van Jou
Esperanto (Esperanto)-Miamasvin
Estonian (Estonia). -Maarstan Sind
Ethiopia-Afgreki "
Faroese (Faroese)-Egelskiteg
Farsi (Persian)-Doset Daram
Filipino (Philippines)-Mahalkita
Finnish (Finland)-Mina Rakas.