Smart women deal with cheating men

In fact, when mistresses break into the marriage world, women are always unprepared or take extreme actions, which will only lead to the deterioration of the relationship, and even The success of "Little San". In fact it was like a war. If you want to repel your enemies, you can't mess around and use the right tactics to win the marriage battle.

As the old saying goes, if you know yourself and your enemy, you will never be in danger. To separate mistresses, you must first understand the types and tricks of mistresses.

Let’s take a look at the tricks and characteristics of Mistress?

Outstanding appearance. This kind of mistress relies on her beauty to swagger through the market, which greatly satisfies men's erotic needs. They exude a charming aura that makes men unable to resist.

However, in real life, many men find mistresses who are not necessarily good-looking, and some are even ugly. But they fulfill other needs of men. Knows the heart of men. For example, like Ling Ling's approach in "The First Half of My Life", although she is not outstanding in appearance, she knows how to win a man's heart. Able to discern what a man needs, showing gentleness and understanding, men simply cannot escape from her grasp.

Youth and ignorance. When a man reaches a certain age, he will always be ready to act when he sees young girls. When he gets along with them, he will feel that he is still young. These girls are easy to deceive, and they get deeper into the trap unknowingly and cannot extricate themselves. They know that the man has a first wife, but they indulge in being a reviled mistress.

Daily and nightly. Some men easily develop sparks with subordinates, secretaries, colleagues, etc. They get along day and night and understand each other's habits and personalities. People who cheat are very convenient and readily available, but the cost is also the highest. Because it is generally difficult for a man to get rid of someone after cheating.

Be rich and powerful. The value of such women is higher than that of men, and women can also play with these philandering men. And men take advantage of women to get everything they want.

Each type of mistress has weaknesses and fatalities. Although there are endless tricks and tricks, there are rules to follow.

If you know this, you can prescribe the right medicine to catch the enemy by surprise and attack them unprepared.

When the first wives find out about a man’s cheating, they must first calm down. Impulse is the devil. At this time, the more confident you appear, the more anonymous intimidation you can produce, and you can suppress your opponent first in your aura. The mistress is always in the dark, and you are in the light. You must make full use of this unique situation. When the first wives are angry, they develop the mentality that they are victims and feel that whatever their husbands do, they deserve to suffer. This idea is completely wrong. Crying, making trouble, and hanging himself, calling all the relatives to watch, making the man lose his face, this is the way to push him further and further away. For us, we feel comfortable, but the result is not what we wanted. This is an approach that is not worth the gain. Don't be manipulated by extreme emotions and find the most effective tactics.

What exactly should the original wife do?

Get to know your husband. If you had known this earlier, there would be no mistress in your marriage. Have you ever tried to understand your lover's true inner world? There is a deep part of the human being that needs to be understood, respected, wanted, and admired. A deep part of a woman's heart is that she needs a man who cares about her and cares about her. Have you done it? If not, then learn it quickly.

Modification creates joy in life. After you get married, it’s not just about the two-point and one-line rules between the workplace and the family. You actually have many choices. When life lacks interest and becomes too dull, married life will naturally seem too boring. In the family, it is easy for the two of them to have unnecessary quarrels due to some conflicts in life. And these unnecessary quarrels are often the trigger for your relationship to break up. You can try traveling with ***, or going to some forum lectures with ***, to add fun to your lives. By doing something you have never tried before, you and he can talk and laugh. , the feelings between each other will become more progressive. In fact, the environment in which you get along can be appropriately changed, and it is not limited to a single place, so as to make life more meaningful. When married life brings happiness and happiness to two people, how can the mistress easily break the relationship between you?

There are many ways to drive a wedge between the husband and the mistress, which will depend on the type of mistress and the relationship between the mistress and the mistress. He is good at using tricks to choose and despise the enemy strategically and pay attention to the enemy tactically.

This kind of psychological game is more lethal than just crying and torturing yourself, and only then can you truly feel proud. The first wives should also pay attention to improving their own value in this process. The worse the situation, the more they want to live a wonderful life. Why would you risk yourself for a cheating man and a shameless mistress?

We need to show the most beautiful side of ourselves, even more charming than before. The things that should be done should not be neglected, the family should not be neglected, the children should not be neglected, and the work should not be slacked off. When a man sees that you have managed your family in such an orderly manner and that your whole person has changed, he must be shocked and touched in his heart.

The warmth of home is calling him, and the new you also makes him look at you with admiration.

As long as the emotional floodgates are opened, many memories from the past will emerge.

Compared with the hiding and hiding in his mistress, all this was completely different, and regret naturally emerged. When the husband wants to return to the family, he still has to maintain a high profile and let him taste the feeling of not being welcomed by the family. This is also to stabilize his mentality that he will not be confused after his return.

Of course, how to maintain the relationship after returning and how to eliminate the bad feelings between them is another game.

There are countless tactics for separating mistresses. If you want to know more, you can consult Yuandun Emotional Mentor