Making a baby boy is a process that many parents grope for on the way to educate their children, but raising a boy and a girl is actually different. Boys had better be masculine. Let's share how to build a baby boy. Let's have a look.
Create a man's treasure 1 1, and create opportunities for him to play the role of "protector"
When I get home from work every day, I feel tired and want to sleep, but I still have to deal with my son's "entanglement", but I understand that it is unrealistic for him to understand your hard work at this stage. So I said to him gently, "Mom is tired. Can you lend me your shoulder?" My son unknown so, who was very interesting, tilted his head to one side, leaned his little shoulder on me and said seriously, "Mom, aren't you tired of leaning on my shoulder?" I squatted down, leaned my head gently on his shoulder and said appreciatively, "Yes! My son is a man and will protect his mother when he grows up. " The son grinned. My son will always be my "protector" in the future, proud!
You can be unhappy, but you can't lose your temper casually.
Some children tear, bite and lose their temper when they are unhappy. Once this kind of behavior becomes a habit, they will not know how to control it when something happens. I told my son, "You can say it when you are unhappy, but never lose your temper." But it needs more than just language. Therefore, I was careful not to lose my temper in front of the children. Take me for example, my son seldom makes trouble.
3, the consequences are good and bad.
Learn to bear the consequences when you are young, and you will be responsible when you grow up. I pay great attention to let my son consciously learn this in small things. For example, when my son throws a picture book on the ground when he is angry, I will never help him pick it up, nor will my family be allowed to pick it up. It doesn't matter if he refused to answer it at that time, just leave the book on the ground. When he pestered me to tell a story, I said to him, "didn't you throw away the book?" Mom can't tell you. "At this time, my son began to worry, and quickly picked up the book himself.
Building a man's baby II. Cultivate a good person
Key 1: Why is it best for boys to be "poor"?
As the saying goes: since ancient times, there have been many rich ladies and never many handsome men. As an educational concept, raising boys in poverty has been accepted by more and more people. Its connotation is: the cultivation of boys' qualities such as hard-working, brave and strong, sincere and frank, witty and decisive, and responsible. "Poor" support is to let boys experience more storms and practice more. As the old saying goes, "When you are in trouble, you are successful." In other words, only when boys are tempered in the necessary "poverty" and "bitterness" can they know how to be proud of their efforts and ashamed of extravagance and waste.
Key 2: Why are boys so dependent and independent now?
Mr. Tao Xingzhi once wrote a poem: "Drop your own blood, shed your own sweat and do your own thing;" Relying on heaven and relying on Laozi is not a hero. " This poem humorously expresses the wisdom of life: independence is the most precious "wealth" in life for boys, similar to the "stocking" education in modern educational concepts. Tolstoy once said: "Love for children is what an old hen will do. The key is how to educate children. " This sentence is the "soft rib" of modern family education: loving children is not to be their amulet and umbrella, but to make them become independent and strong through training and guidance!
Key 3: Why should we pay attention to the cultivation of boys' ability?
Boys are in the growth period of growing up and learning knowledge, and it is also the best period to cultivate their various abilities. Whether it is thinking ability, cooperation ability, decision-making ability, competition ability, adaptability or imagination ability, it is an essential capital for boys to achieve their future life.
Key 4: Why should we pay attention to the cultivation of boys' learning ability?
A lot of scientific research and social practice show that whether a person can succeed in learning depends largely on whether he loves learning and whether he has the ability to learn. Therefore, cultivating boys' enthusiasm and initiative in learning is the foundation of scientific tutoring.
Key 5: Why do boys have the courage to take responsibility?
A boy who doesn't understand the importance of responsibility will never grow up and will always be a small role. As Churchill said: the price of greatness is responsibility. Therefore, if parents love their sons, they will subtly influence and cultivate the boy's sense of responsibility, and strive to cultivate the boy into a responsible man.
Key 6: Why should we pay attention to adolescent education for boys?
Adolescent boys are energetic and active, and are in the period when the sun rises. However, due to some physiological and psychological changes, boys in this period are also prone to some "problems", such as rebellion, puppy love, internet addiction and even running away from home. Therefore, at this time, parents must pay more time and energy to pay attention to them, give them more respect, tolerance and understanding, and help them get through this "dangerous period" safely.
Key 7: Why should we pay attention to the cultivation of boys' gold quality?
As the saying goes, be a man in advance. Quality largely determines the success or failure of a person's work. Therefore, parents should cultivate boys' honesty, integrity, diligence, self-esteem and positive gold quality from an early age, which is the foundation of their future success. Therefore, broadening boys' horizons, as an "educational course", is indispensable in family education.
Key 8: Why should we broaden the horizons of boys?
Xu xiake once said: a gentleman is a blue sea, and dusk is also. As a person in the future, if a boy stands at a higher starting point and has a broad vision, he can overcome more difficulties and achieve greater success in his future life.
Key 9: Why do many modern boys lack masculinity?
Seneca, an ancient Roman philosopher, famously said, "A truly great man is a fearless mortal like God." No boy is born resolute. Similarly, there is no boy who cannot cultivate fortitude and courage. As long as parents can create an environment for boys to exercise fortitude and fight against weakness in many ways, then every boy can become a strong and resolute man.
Key 10: Why should we pay attention to the financial and business training of boys?
In the modern society with more and more developed economy, it is equally important for boys to learn financial management knowledge and master scientific and cultural knowledge from an early age. These are all necessary skills for boys to survive and develop in the future. Therefore, parents must not treat the cultivation of boys' financial quotient lightly.
Key 1 1: Why do you say that socializing can make a boy's big future?
Carnegie said: A person's success 15% depends on his professional knowledge, while 85% depends on his interpersonal relationship. Therefore, for boys, good social skills are not only an important part of their own development, but also an important guarantee for their future foothold in society.
Key 12: Why can an educated boy become a charming gentleman?
The so-called gentleman is a "complex" with tolerant personality, grateful attitude, humorous and chic speech and respect for parents' words and deeds. Therefore, in order to make a boy a charming gentleman, personal cultivation and etiquette cultivation are indispensable.
Key 13: Why should we train boys to get rid of the mentality of quick success and instant benefit?
Because boys will bear more social responsibilities and obligations than girls in the future, parents often place greater hopes on boys and pay more attention to them. However, boys are also prone to psychological stress, and problems are naturally more likely to occur under heavy pressure. In fact, education is a slow art and a waiting art, as Mr. Ye Shengtao said, "Education is agriculture, not industry". Therefore, parents of boys must abandon the mentality of quick success and instant benefit, and keep in mind the educational truth of "it takes ten years to plant trees and a hundred years to cultivate people".