Du Lala’s graduate student boyfriend went abroad and did not want to come back. Before breaking up, he inspired Lala and said: Love is not for testing, but for cherishing. Rather than being separated by thousands of miles, it is better to end it early.

The graduate student’s theory of love is explained in simple terms and is a practical view of love. It is also a very useful view of love for most people.

Many people regard love as the supreme thing and are tired of love all their lives.

Is love really so important?

In fact, most people never get love in their lives. Of course, everyone will have loved one or n persons of the opposite sex, but this is not love, this is unrequited love. Even unrequited love will change with age and environment. When you were a child, you might have a crush on your playmates, classmates or teachers; as an adult, you might have a crush on your colleagues, bosses or subordinates. Passengers may have a crush on flight attendants, viewers may have a crush on actors, patients may have a crush on nurses, and prisoners may have a crush on prison guards? Secret love requires novelty, idols, adoration, and hormones.

It is really difficult to develop a crush into love. Unrequited love is likely to last a person's lifetime. The Weaver Girl falling in love with the Cowherd and the Fairy falling in love with Dong Yong are really just myths.

You are really lucky to have love in this life, because the opportunity for two people to have a crush on each other at the same time is very rare, so please cherish it. However, don't regard love as the only one. Some luckier people will receive N loves, and every love is true and pure. One cannot step into the same river twice. The river of love is also flowing. Love also has stages, and some are fleeting, which is one of the reasons why you must cherish it. It doesn't matter if you are broken up or broken up, "It doesn't matter if it lasts forever, you only care about what you once had." This is a wise saying about love.

So, if you have love, enjoy it to the fullest, and don’t think about testing who and whom all day long. Don't try to test love into marriage. The most important thing to do with marriage is family, not love. Love is not the prelude to marriage, at most it is a dream before marriage wakes up. The idea of ??injecting love into a marriage, and for a lifetime, can only be a fantasy. People who have this kind of thinking will live a very tired, annoyed and panicked life, and they will also make their married life a mess due to the torment of this kind of thinking. No marriage without love? Don’t you want to marry and have children? Are you having a hard time? Of course not.

On the contrary, many people who have never been in love are very happy all their lives after getting married. There is no love in their marriages, but there is love, and love is greater than love