I just want to be your sun, your sun,

In your heart, in the bottom of your heart,

No matter how far away it is,

Don’t be afraid of me being by your side,

Even if I can’t be by your side,

I will still work hard to shine for you.

"The Sun"

Only those who continue to grow and develop can keep pace with the times, avoid being abandoned by society, and become their own sun.

Some people have been accustomed to growing up under the protection of their parents, and cannot adapt to the harshness of society when they leave home; some people have a smooth journey under the care of their friends, but if they put aside friendship, it seems that the whole life has collapsed. The world is full of powerlessness; some people are loved and pampered by their husbands and become people with mediocre qualifications. If they leave the man, their life will come to a standstill.

As a human being, we cannot rely too much on others, as that will only reduce our value to life. We must understand that only through our own efforts is the most reliable.

I still remember that the 33-year-old Zijun in "The First Half of My Life" can be said to be a senior full-time wife. She has been kept at home for many years and has long been out of touch with society. It was not until she got divorced that she realized that she had entered the world. Society, how difficult it is to live with children. Life peeled off her skin, but it also forced out her backbone, and she eventually became a confident and independent professional woman.

There is no need for each of us to wait until the end of life to push ourselves. We can set our own goals from the beginning. The feelings and care between two people should nourish each other***. Progressive, rather than blindly demanding. Because asking blindly will only make us farther and farther away from the track of society until the end.

May you be your own sun and live your own wonderful life without asking blindly.

I hope you can become what you want to be through hard work, be able to follow your heart, and not care too much about other people's actions and opinions.

Once upon a time, there was a man who was very face-saving, jealous and envious of other people's advantages and strengths. He often slandered others behind their backs, secretly worked hard to be like others, and failed miserably in the end.

We can learn from the strengths of others, but when imitating, we should also see whether it is suitable for ourselves. Instead of this, we should look for our own advantages, develop our own strengths, and use our own charm to conquer the world's contempt for you.

In life, we must work hard and move forward when we receive help. We must not be afraid of hardships and dangers and face difficulties alone.

May you all be your own sun, and everything in your heart be filled with light.

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