Topic: philosophy of life, the less capable people are, the more likely they are to find fault with others.
Structure: total score structure, text parallel.
Start with an encounter story to draw out your own point of view. "The most taboo of being a man is to find fault with others and not see your own problems."
The middle word says 1. Smart people know how to cultivate self-cultivation, but stupid people often criticize others. It is easy for people to see other people's mistakes, but it is difficult to see the back of their own heads. When you learn to find reasons from yourself and not criticize others, you have won the pattern. And further elaborate their own views.
End with "when you learn to find reasons from yourself and don't criticize others, you have won the pattern." To sublimate their views and encourage everyone to be such a person.
Material: a lot of material, anecdotes, famous sayings, stories, ancient stories, things that happened around us were used. The material is rich and colorful.
Famous saying:
1. Qing Dynasty scholar Shen Juyong said: "The stupidest thing in life is to hate yourself, and the worst thing in life is to talk about others."
There is a saying abroad: "The stars in the sky can be counted clearly, but the soot on your face is invisible."
3. "The Analects of Confucius" says: "It is far from resentment to bow to shame and lightly blame others."
Smart people know how to cultivate self-cultivation, but stupid people often criticize others.
5. Degang Guo once said in cross talk: "I'm not afraid that I'm incompetent, but I'm afraid that I think I'm capable."
6. "Always find fault with others, not your own."
7. People can easily see other people's mistakes, but it's hard to see the back of their own heads.
8. Mencius says, "Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you."
9. Only incompetent sailors will complain about the sea breeze, and incompetent tailors will complain about the size of customers.