In ancient times, there was a saying that "a good man doesn't serve as a soldier", and only a redneck will serve as a soldier. This proverb says that literati and Five Blessingg have different values and communication methods, so it is difficult to communicate in a friendly way. Stubborn communication may still be a struggle

In real life, there is a situation that "a scholar meets a scholar and can't say the past". It is more likely that there is something wrong with your communication style. These situations are caused by improper communication methods. If everyone understands these words from the beginning and learns to listen, many misunderstandings in life may be avoided.

Of course, the words "scholar" and "soldier" are only people's subjective labels. When communication is not smooth, you still have to find the reason from yourself. Maybe we can change our expression and position, and everything will be solved. However, in the face of irreconcilable relations, don't be forced. After all, there are so many people in this world that it really doesn't make sense.

Why can't you tell? There are probably three reasons: first, the other party does not understand, after all, the discourse system is different; Second, the other party disagrees, and there may be differences in ways of thinking; Third, the other party is a rogue and doesn't intend to listen to your reason at all. In the last case, it is obviously useless to talk about anything.

In fact, "scholar" and "soldier" represent different social classes with different cultural levels. We sometimes show great rejection and trust in effective communication between different classes, and it is impossible for them to achieve smooth communication with such great cognitive differences.

In fact, the lack of respect between people is the root cause of "unreasonable explanation". When encountering obstacles, we should open our hearts and mouths instead of closing our eyes and ears. If we can get each other to say what they think, many embarrassments and misunderstandings will be solved.