Let me give you some more
1. Faithfulness is not enough-Lao Tzu
2. Honesty can break the sky, but reality can break the sky-Xue Xuan
3. Those who don't believe in words will fail to do it-Mozi
4. People who break their promises are not famous-Liu Xiang. Young people who have no credit accumulation must become losers-Ikeda masterpiece
8. People can't stand without trust-Confucius
9. If you live an honest and honest life, you will definitely have a clear conscience-Gorky
1. If you are sincere, people will respond with sincerity-Cheng Yi
11. Where can you be without honesty? You may get back on your feet at once and break your promise, but you may never be able to recover it-Franklin
14. Half the truth is often a big lie-Franklin
15. Sincerity is an opening of the mind-Larochefoucauld
16. Honesty is the foundation of human beings-Lu Xun
17. Sincerity comes, and the stone opens-Wang Chong. Master hongyi
2. Treat people with truth, not only benefiting others, but also benefiting others-Yang Tong
21. If you want others to be honest, you must first be honest-Shakespeare
22. Honesty is the lifeblood of life and the foundation of all values-Dreiser
23. Honesty is a kind of. He who thinks sincerely is a man's way-Mencius
26. The beauty of a word is more valuable than a thousand dollars-Ge Hong
27. Without faithfulness, a man cannot stand in the world-Cheng Yi
28. An honest man must be faithful to himself, and his last support is sincerity-Emerson
29. Honesty and diligence. Don't trust people, but his wife suspects them-Yang Quan
32. He wants us to buy his honesty, and this kind of person sells his reputation-Wolfgang
33. What a liar gets is not believed even if he feels straightforward-Aesop
34. People who think they are smart often have no good end, and they are the best in the world. Because only honest people can stand the test of facts and history-Zhou Enlai
35, those who are helped by others believe-Zhouyi
36, and faithfulness is the treasure-The Book of Rites
37, the disaster is greater than no faith-Fu Xuan
38, the husband keeps a promise. Moreover, it is the basic condition of wisdom-Kant's Lasting Peace
4, honesty and diligence should be your permanent companions-Franklin
41, a horse should be disciplined before seeking goodness, and a man should believe before seeking energy-Quasi-Nanzi
42, honesty is the first chapter of the book of wisdom-Jefferson
42. The knot of the world-Mozi
45. Credit is hard to gain and lose, and the credit accumulated in ten years' effort is often lost because of temporary words and deeds-Ikeda Daisaku
46. Deceiving others can only be temporary, but honesty is a long-term policy-john ray
47, a small reliance is a big one-Han Feizi
48. I don't want to win the praise of ten friends with hypocrisy-petofi
49. I don't need to make a statement, I don't need an idea, I just want to go with sincerity, and I will have my own unspoken letter for a long time, and I will be a blessing in silence-Lv Kun
5. Thousands of teachers teach people to seek truth, and thousands of students learn to be real people. -Tao Xingzhi
51. If you are used to empty talk, the most respectable person will lose his dignity. -maxim
52. If you are sincere, the way of heaven is also; If you think sincerely, you will learn from others. -"Mencius on Li Lou"
53. Less empty talk, more work, down-to-earth and hard work. -Deng Xiaoping
54. Think about evil things and turn them into hell; Think about good deeds and turn them into heaven. -Hui Neng
55. I live to make others live better. -Lei Feng
56. Talent is the capital of virtue; Virtue, talent is handsome. -Sima Guang
57. Keep your word and do what you want. -Confucius "The Analects of Confucius Zi Lu"
58. People don't believe, and they don't know what they can do. -Confucius "The Analects of Confucius Governing Politics"
59. If you push people to be sincere, you will not say it. -Wang Tong's "Wen Zhong Zhou Gong"
6. If you are not sincere in your studies, you will learn miscellaneous things. If you are not sincere in your work, you will lose things. If you are dishonest, you will deceive yourself and abandon yourself. If you are not sincere with others, you will lose your morality and increase your resentment. -Cheng Hao, Cheng Yi, "On Learning"
61. We should let nature take its course, stand on the truth, seek the light of life, and not fall into the realm of reluctance and hypocrisy, and turn the real life into disillusionment. -Li Dazhao
62, full of losses, modest benefits. -"Shangshu Dayu Mo"
63. Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people fall behind. -Mao Zedong
64, 9 Niu Yi don't boast, complacency will overturn. -Chen Yi
65. Be determined to do great things, not to be a big official. -Sun Yat-sen
66. Little knowledge makes people proud, while rich knowledge makes people humble. -da Vinci
67. Life is short, and only virtue can leave it to distant generations. -Shakespeare
68, the gentleman has changed, and the villain is not; To mend one's ways, not to be obsessed; In the end, you will be blessed, and in the end, you will be lost. -Shao Yong's
69. Morality is really not a dogma that guides people how to make themselves happy, but a theory that guides people how to deserve happiness. (Kant, German philosopher)
7. If you are not sincere, you will cheat your heart and abandon yourself. If you are not sincere with others, you will lose your morality and increase your resentment. (Song Yang Shi's "Henan Cheng's Speeches on Learning")
71. People are honest, although sparse, they must be dense; Be empty with others, although you will be sparse. (Han Hanying's Biography of Han Poems)
72. A promise that is light will not be trusted, and a lot of things will be difficult (Lao Zi)
73. A true person is sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving. (Zhuangzi)
74. People don't believe it, and they don't know what they can do. (Confucius)
75. Since ancient times, people have died, and people cannot stand without faith. (Confucius)
76. Those who are sincere and motionless have nothing; If you are insincere, you will not be able to move (Mencius)
77. If you are sincere, you will learn from heaven. If you think sincerely, you will learn from others. ("Mencius")
78. Cultivating the heart is not good at honesty (Xunzi)
79. Clever deception is better than sincere (Han Feizi)
8. If you want to correct your heart, be sincere first, and then be sincere. (University)
We should reject lies and stick to honesty. How can we avoid the embarrassment encountered by the opposing party in work and life? We thought:
If we refused at first, there would be no embarrassing situation afterwards. We are now living in an era of openness and unpopularity.
"Don't say that the hat worn by the aunt next door is ugly, do you hear?"
"You should say to the new class teacher,' I'm very glad you are our class teacher'!"
We don't mean to say similar things from our own heart, but choose some nice words that don't make people sad. This is because we believe that there can be no shortage of white lies in life.
shall we look at this problem from the opposite angle? Someone wears an ugly hat, and we can tell them realistically that it's really not good. This is because always telling white lies will also bring you trouble. Therefore, we should learn when to tell the truth and when to tell a white lie, otherwise it will lead to the result that we can't distinguish between true and false.
For example, suppose you receive a birthday invitation from a friend who is not very close at the weekend. You don't want to go, but you refuse it for fear that the other person will be angry, and the promise is ambiguous. Time flies. It's almost my friend's birthday, but you still don't want to go. Now I find a reason to tell the other person that you can't go. Think about it, what will the other person think of you at this time? The other party will definitely see that you are unwilling to go and will be very angry.
you didn't refuse at first, but you still made your friend angry. What would it be like to show your attitude when you receive an invitation?
"I am very happy to be invited, but I can't go because I have something in town that day."
if you refuse at first, there will be no embarrassment later.
There is no doubt that a white lie is itself a lie. Lies, lying is cheating, cheating is immoral, and immoral things are unpopular. These are all inculcated by teachers since childhood. But we ask ourselves, who hasn't told a lie? There are many purposes for our relatives, friends or strangers, but when we add "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone may accept it, which is the concentrated expression of human weakness.
mark. Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will embarrass your opponent and make your friends feel relieved. " Therefore, the view of psychologists is: don't lie easily, even if it is a white lie.
We think that we should start with the definition to distinguish things, and synthesize the interpretation of Kangxi dictionary. A white lie means not seeking truth from facts, telling lies and empty words, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the truth. From the analysis of the structure of well-intentioned lie phrases, it is a partial phrase, and the head word is a lie, so a well-intentioned lie is essentially a lie. It is an indisputable fact that white lies are often used by some "professional liars" because of the uncertainty of white lies. The "lie" itself is dark, the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things, and a white lie itself is a lie. Although he has shed his beggar clothes and put on his cheongsam, he still can't get rid of the essence of his lies, and lies mean deception, which hinders honesty. The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once it is exposed, it will do more harm to the other party. As a lie itself, it is already an act contrary to honesty.
in the 2-character moral code put forward in the "Outline for the Implementation of Civic Moral Construction" promulgated by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, "honesty" is a very important code, and honesty means seeking truth and justice. The ancients said that "the true one" is sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving.
As General Secretary Hu Jintao said in his speech, "The socialist harmonious society we want to build should be a society with democracy and the rule of law, fairness and justice, honesty and friendship, full of vitality, stability and order, and harmony between man and nature."
through the above analysis, we believe that no matter whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, being a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.
Let's take another example:
A terminally ill patient was told by the doctor that it was only a minor illness, which would not get in the way. But the disease will come eventually. At this time, the patient will resent and regret. I resent him for not knowing that he doesn't have much time left, so that he can't fulfill his wish for the rest of his life. Isn't the result even more tragic?
if it's not enough, I can add it.