Without contrast, there is no harm. Without comparison, there would be no distinction between superior and inferior. Without comparison, there would be no arrogance, inferiority or sadness.

Without comparison, you will find that life is wonderful; without comparison, you will live with ease; without contrast, you will become the happiest person in the world!

If you follow your own path in life, why bother yourself just to compare with others? There is a famous saying: Go your own way and let others tell you!

1. The paths of growth are different.

Everyone’s growth path is different, and it is difficult to imitate and plagiarize. Otherwise, with so many biographies of famous people, not everyone who has read them can become a character, and not all of them are coincidental. As a mortal, it is likely that you will not be able to understand the cause and effect. For example, you think that a person is great because his father is very strict, and you imitate the strict father. However, no matter how strict the father is, the child still does not become very powerful, but just average, because your perception is only about being strict or not. In fact, there are many factors. .

2. It’s just right.

The environment in which everyone is born is indeed different, but one is like a bear's paw and another is like arsenic. When his nature met that environment, it happened to be the right fit, and he became what he is now. He and I are not the same, and in the same environment, we may not have the same results.

3. Everyone pursues different goals.

Everyone has different preferences, needs, and pursuits. Of course, the paths of growth are different. Different paths are not comparable.

4. They are all big gift packages.

Everything is a coincidence and cannot be calculated. The education my parents gave me made me what I am today. The life I have experienced has made me who I am today. The people I met made me who I am today. Everything was just right. What doesn't break me will make me stronger.

5. Comparison is false.

Everything has advantages and disadvantages. If it is not good in one aspect, it may be good in another aspect. Real comparison is limited to a single factor, such as height, speed, conversion rate, etc. As for things with multiple factors, coupled with the positive and negative effects, there is no way to simply compare, and the comparison is often an illusion.