When you want to talk, what you say must be more valuable than your silence. As the saying goes, two skins speak easily. The most common mistake we all make is to be a good teacher and express our views on people and things, regardless of major or not. Many times, people actually seek survival in the cracks. If you want to make a name for yourself in an involution society, you must know how to "keep your mouth shut", do things with your heart, and speak with real achievements, instead of fighting, boasting and exaggerating to win. Some people say that it takes us a year to learn to speak, but it takes us a lifetime to learn not to talk nonsense. If you talk about it, you can't get back the spilled water. If you keep your word, you will win people's trust and establish a good personal image. Bad faith, often write bad checks and laugh at other people's IQ. In the long run, you will lose trust in others and ruin your social reputation. If you say something in the future, others will never believe you again. Therefore, when you speak, you must weigh it.

He who talks too much will lose. Language is the coat of thought. When we don't do in-depth investigation and study on a matter and a problem, and don't think carefully and repeatedly, we will express our opinions at will and easily, which is likely to lead to a kind of ridicule and ridicule. It is better to stay in the middle than to talk too much and calculate too little. When we talk a lot, we often inadvertently expose our own thinking deficiencies, let others seize the shortcomings and loopholes that we have not considered, and may be attacked or even become a secret weapon for people with ulterior motives to rectify you. Therefore, people with rich life experience often don't talk nonsense when they are not familiar with the situation, and they don't talk nonsense in public. When we are in a new environment and facing strangers, we must be careful of our words and deeds, control our mouth and restrain our impulse to speak.

At the meeting, when we want to speak on a certain issue, we will definitely weigh whether what we say is more valuable than keeping silent. If we are unfamiliar with this topic and have no profound insights, we can't speak easily. It is better to remain silent and be the silent majority. When we have just studied a problem and have our own unique views and profound insights, which can inspire and benefit the solution of the problem, then we should do our part, boldly state our views and simply express our opinions and suggestions directly. Also, when we confirm that what others say is false, we should also choose to say the correct view that we firmly know, and refute the wrong statement mercilessly, so as not to mislead other people's children, let the truth spread widely and try to avoid fallacies. At this time, as a famous saying goes, "I said, I saved my soul."