.A kind heart is the sun. ——Hugo
2. A good heart is worth gold. ——Shakespeare
3. When people are good, there are many good things but not enough. —— Yang Wanli
4. I think the virtue of benefiting others is kindness. —— Bacon
5. A kind heart is gold. ——Shakespeare
6. Remove one evil and cultivate ten good things. —— "History of the Song Dynasty. Biography of Bi Shi'an"
7. The most beautiful music of the soul is kindness! ——Romain Rolland
8. People like good things. Although blessings have not yet arrived, disasters are far away. ——Zeng Zi
9. Kind-hearted behavior makes the human soul noble. ——Rousseau
10. Don’t do evil because it’s small, don’t do good because it’s small! ——Liu Bei
11. Be a kind person and seek happiness for mankind. —— Gorky
12. Kindness is not a kind of knowledge, but a kind of behavior. ——Romain Rolland
13. People who do good things should feel happy. ——Romain Rolland
14. Charitable behavior can relieve the pain of others more than money. ——Rousseau
15. It is unsafe and unwise to do things based on conscience. ——Martin Luther
16. What is money compared to a pure conscience? —— Hardy
17. Simplicity touches my heart more than clever words. —— Shakespeare
18. The kinder a person is, the less aware they are of other people’s bad intentions. ——Mile
19. Come out, my heart, and meet it with your love. —— Rabindranath Tagore
20. A person must either be a good person or imitate a good person. ——Democritus
21. Without simplicity, kindness and truth, there would be no greatness. ——Leo Tolstoy
22. People who are always thinking about how to do good things have no time to do good things. ——Tagore
23. If beauty is a letter of recommendation, then kindness is a credit card. —— Bulwer Yili Shun
24. When a person's words and deeds are inconsistent, it is completely bad, which will lead to hypocrisy. ——Lenin
25. Rather than doing good things to love others, it is better to say that it is to respect yourself. ——Flaubert
26. Doing good things to good people will make them better, and doing good things to evil people will make them more evil. ——Romain Rolland
27. The difference between good and evil lies in the behavior itself, not in the status. ——Shakespeare
28. Among all moral qualities, good nature is the most needed in the world. —— Russell
29. Human nature is a mixture of good and evil. If you practice good, you will be a good person, and if you practice evil, you will be a bad person. —— Yang Xiong
30. The source of kindness is in the heart. If you dig it, it will gush out. ——Aurelius
31. The touching warmth of human kindness can heal the wounds of the soul and body. —— Rozov
32. I love you because you have a kind heart, not because of your knowledge. —— Davis
33. If black and white and good and evil are put together, they will be clearly visible in comparison. ——Chaucer
34. Even if a kind person is confused in his pursuit, he will eventually realize that there is a right path. —— "Faust"
35. If you sing about beauty, there will be an audience even if you are in the center of the desert. ——Kahlil Gibran
36. Kindness is a rare pearl in history, and kind people are almost better than great people. ——Hugo
37. People with talent are always kind, frank, straightforward, and never reserved. ——Balzac
38. Truly talented people are always kind, frank, straightforward and never reserved.
——Balzac
39. I would like to prove that anyone who behaves kindly and noblely will be able to endure hardships. ——Beethoven
40. Kind, loyal, and loving people continue to bring happiness to the world. —— Mark Twain
41. But only good character, whether for God or man, will never become too much. —— Bacon
42. Kindness and moral character are both like gems and metals. The two set off each other and add brilliance. —— Bernard Shaw
43. Doing good to a good person will make him better; doing good to an evil person will make him worse. ——Michelangelo
44. Melancholy belongs to kindness; people who have no melancholy may be very extraordinary, but they are not kind after all. ——Liu Xinwu
45. No matter where a noble person goes, there is always a strong defender beside him-that is, conscience. —— Scott
46. The more goodness there is in life, the more interesting life itself will be. The two are in harmony with each other and complement each other. —— Leo Tolstoy
47. For me, the meaning of life is to put yourself in others’ shoes, worry about other people’s worries, and enjoy other people’s happiness. —— Einstein
48. The most ferocious human beings are more ferocious than the most ferocious animals. The kindest among men are kinder than the kindest animals. ——Zheng Yuanjie
49. The goal of knowledge desire is truth; the goal of moral desire is goodness; the goal of beauty desire is beauty, truth, goodness and beauty, that is, the ideal in the world. ——Hoshinobu Kuroda
50. Kind actions have the benefit of ennobling the human soul and enabling it to perform better actions. ——Rousseau
51. A large number of good deeds may be due to severity, and even more out of love, but most of them are due to clear understanding and unbiased impartiality. ——Goethe
52. Kindness - the inherent kindness of people. These things evoke in us an indestructible hope that a bright and humane life will eventually be resurrected. ——Gorky
53. Beauty without virtue is fleeting; but because there is a beautiful soul in your beauty, your beauty is eternal. ——Shakespeare
54. The roots and roots of kindness lie in construction, creation, and the establishment of life and beauty. Good character and beauty are inextricably linked. ——Suhomlinsky
55. Compassion is not forced, it falls from the sky to the earth like manna; it not only brings happiness to the recipient, but also brings happiness to the giver. people. —— Shakespeare
56. Only reason can teach us to know good and evil, and make us like good and hate evil. Although conscience does not depend on reason, without reason, conscience cannot develop. ——Rousseau
57. Truth, goodness, and beauty are very similar qualities. Add some rare and outstanding situations to the first two qualities, and truth will appear beautiful, and goodness will also appear beautiful. —— Diderot
58. Man, you must have a kind heart, a rich soul, and a noble soul. Only then will you be worthy of the title of human being, and you will be a real human being in the world. Life. —— Zhou Guoping
59. If "good" has a reason, it is no longer good. If "goodness" has its consequences, it cannot be called "goodness". "Goodness" is something beyond cause and effect. - Lev Tor
60. To a kind-hearted person, the very idea that a price must be paid is an insult. Virtue is not a decoration, but the expression of a beautiful heart. —— Gide
61. Conscience is the sentinel of each of our hearts. It is there on duty to monitor us not to do anything illegal. It is an agent embedded in the central stronghold of the self. —— Somerset Maugham
62. Every time evil “defeats” kindness, it compresses itself once, because it declares its own ugliness. Every time kindness is defeated by evil, it promotes itself once, because it promotes its own light.
——Wang Meng
63. Generally kind-hearted people always like to think the best of others, always think of people better than they actually are, and always like to exaggerate their benefits. For such people, later disillusionment is difficult, especially when they feel responsible. —— Dostoyevky
Give some examples! ! !
What is a white lie:
A white lie is beautiful. When we tell moderate lies for the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect and tolerance, and have magical power.
Lies born out of good wishes are the nourishment of life and the source of belief. It ignites the fire of hope in people's hearts and makes them convinced that there is love, trust and touching in the world.
White lies can help people find more reasons to smile at life. White lies are the spirituality given to human nature, embodying the delicacy of emotion and the maturity of thought, prompting people to be strong and persistent, to strive hard involuntarily, and finally to overcome vulnerability and survive in desperate situations.
A lie from a parent can make the face of a child who is not experienced in the world as bright as a flower; a lie from a teacher can help hesitant students no longer be confused and grow better; a lie from a doctor can make the fearful students no longer confused. The patient goes from destruction to rebirth... White lies will not tarnish civilization, let alone distort human nature.
White lies have the magical power to encourage you to keep working hard again and again and never give up for your dreams. Because the road ahead is completely illuminated by a happy mood, and life becomes better because of it.
This kind of lie is not deception, nor does it have ulterior motives. This kind of lie is understanding, respect and tolerance. It has magical power and is not impure in any way.
Although there are certain disadvantages in lying, it is better than nothing if the flaws are not covered up. A lie from a parent can make the face of a child who is not familiar with the world as bright as a flower; a lie from a teacher can help hesitant students no longer be confused and grow better; a lie from a doctor can make a frightened patient move from destruction to rebirth...
About white lies:
1. Who can say that white lies are deception? The disabled young man in "Don't Starve That Horse" told "me" to continue reading , lied about having a horse at home, can you say he was deceiving?
2. When a poor mother leaves her only food to her children while hiding the fact that she is still hungry, do you still accuse the kind and noble maternal love of being "dishonest"? In fact, we can see the shadow of white lies everywhere in life, from the tearful comfort before the sickbed to the politeness when rejecting politely, from the decay of the lover's world to the beautiful exaggeration in the poet's writing, but they are not that terrible, let the other party talk about it. "Lie" and color change.
3. In the first argument of the other party, it was pointed out that when a person faces two obligations, and when they conflict with each other, the obligation of the other party should be alleviated. However, the first defense of the affirmative did not discuss that white lies and honesty are contradictory. How can we directly conclude that white lies will definitely relieve the duty of good faith? Please note that our opponent's defense team has clearly stated in the first defense that lies themselves should have the function of deceiving, and only malicious lies are based on deception. Please do not narrow the concept of "lie".
4.
White lies and honesty are moral norms in different categories and will not conflict, just like a car will not hit a plane. Integrity: Trust. In Chinese culture, "faith" and "righteousness" constitute "faithfulness", which is a humanistic spirit and a criterion for life. "Faith" and "sincerity" are connected to form the moral code of "honesty", which is a rare product. The sages of modern Western jurisprudence proposed the concept of "contract society". All relationships between people are contractual relationships. In such a In society, integrity is the bottom line of social morality. After my country establishes a market economy, it is necessary to establish a standardized and orderly market, and integrity has become the most important criterion. Therefore, "integrity" in the modern sense is the moral principle for market operation.
White lies, all kinds of white lies from the starting point and the result, are all to protect the other person's emotions and maintain the other person's mental health and happiness, which is a kind of humanistic spirit.
Because of the existence of white lies, the world becomes better, warmer, and more harmonious. The world will be full of love and sunshine, children will grow up healthily, the elderly will enjoy their old age, and the patients will be full of hope.
So, these are two moral principles in different fields, which will not conflict or contradict each other, and white lies will not hinder integrity. A white lie is not a "lie" (a malicious lie), just like a whale in the sea is not a fish, and a mouse is not a mouse.
5.
People always give lies a derogatory connotation. This is because there is a crisis of integrity in today's society, and lies are actually neutral. Even if today's society proposes the ethics of integrity, it does not require that the truth be told in all circumstances, and lies are not allowed to exist. White lies are not "lies" (malicious lies), and they do not conflict with integrity and have their existence. Spatially, if you don't like the word "lie", we can mind linguists creating another word, such as "false words" and "euphemism" to express the semantic meaning of white lies.
White lies leave behind the ugliness and come to the beautiful world!
White lies abandon selfishness and come to the world of integrity!
Ask your opponent to give examples. Who has been harmed by white lies? Causes loss of integrity?
6. White lies are beautiful, and they are neither deception nor ulterior motives. When we tell some moderate lies for the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect and tolerance, and have magical power without any impurity. White lies are lies born out of good intentions. They are the nourishment of life and the source of faith. It ignites the fire of hope in people's hearts, and also makes people convinced that there is love, trust and touching in the world! ! ! White lies can help people find more reasons to smile at life. White lies endow human beings with spirituality, reflect the delicacy of emotion and maturity of thought, and encourage people to be strong and persistent, to strive hard involuntarily, and finally overcome vulnerability and survive in desperate situations. A white lie can help a terminally ill patient survive and give others a glimmer of hope.
7. White lies are motivated by good intentions and have the purpose and starting point of safeguarding the interests of others. As we all know, contradictions can be divided into universality and particularity. Particularity is included in particularity and is different from universality. The nature of a white lie itself determines that it is not a bad thing, but is based on inner sincerity and kindness, while a malicious lie seeks benefits for the liar, using strong desire and weak rationality to Behavior that is only used by others as a means to harm others. Lies that kind-hearted people are "forced" to tell under certain circumstances are kind. Such lies are a kind of kindness and concern for the subject. And people with evil intentions, no matter how they disguise themselves, how they use rhetoric, or how they rack their brains to put a good-natured hat on their malicious lies, the lies they tell all have malicious purposes. Obviously, white lies do not compromise integrity.
Second: White lies are a way of dealing with the world and a manifestation of the quality of thinking about others.
The relatives and friends of a terminally ill patient always use white lies to make his illness appear to be minor and encourage him to cooperate with the doctor’s treatment. I believe that none of you here will accuse them of dishonesty because of this, right? ! On the contrary, it is the truth of malicious intent. A prisoner revealed his own troop deployment under the inducement of the enemy. Does anyone think he is honest? Sincerity to the enemy is betrayal to the country!
The director of the Judicial Appraisal Department of Guangzhou Brain Hospital said: "Lying is a human instinct. As for whether you are honest or not, the key lies in what kind of lie you are telling."
8. I oppose the affirmative. point of view. It is right to be honest, but many times we need white lies more. Although it is a lie, it gives others a lifetime of help and protection. For example, a patient has been diagnosed with a terminal illness. If the doctor tells the truth, the patient will be heartbroken and lose confidence; but if the truth is concealed, the patient can safely follow the doctor's instructions for treatment, thus prolonging the patient's life. life. Isn’t this the benefit of white lies? So, I think we need white lies in life.
9. Although white lies are a type of lies, if you cannot tell lies, it will definitely hinder your integrity. Specific issues must be analyzed in detail.
The reason why integrity is respected by everyone is because it is good faith and does not deceive. On the surface, white lies seem to hinder the principle of integrity, but in essence, the reason why it exists is Because telling the truth goes against the principles of kindness.
White lies and honesty are actually in a relationship of unity of opposites, and the so-called violation just provides a useful supplement to honesty, not a hindrance. For example: stipulate the same direction on the road. Pedestrians can only occupy half of the road, so it doesn’t hinder everyone’s passage!
The reason why "lie" is called "lie" is because it is false, untrue, and deceptive words. But today, the "lie" we are talking about also has an attributive word - good faith , after adding this qualifier, the nature of the lie will fundamentally change. Even if the person who hears the white lie knows that it is a lie, he will still try to believe it and will not feel the liar's hypocrisy. Sometimes he will still believe it. I am grateful.
There is an example of an American transport plane in the last century that was hit by a sandstorm in the desert and forced to land nine passengers and a driver. They were in despair; their survival instinct made them They fought for limited dry food and water. At the critical moment, a temporary passenger on the plane stood up and said: "Don't panic, everyone. I am an aircraft designer. As long as everyone works together and listens to my instructions, the aircraft can be repaired." This was like a shot in the arm, stabilizing everyone's mood. They consciously saved water and dry food; everything was in order, and everyone united to fight against the sandstorm. More than ten days passed, and the plane was not repaired; but there was a group of businessmen traveling to and from the desert. The camel caravan rescued them when they passed by. A few days later, people discovered that the temporary passenger was not an airplane designer at all, but an elementary school teacher who knew nothing about airplanes.
White lies Lies that are "forced" by kind people under certain circumstances are kind-hearted and are kind to the subject. Obviously, white lies do not harm integrity, so we think white lies are beneficial.
When a soldier’s mother is dying and dying, she hopes to see her son for the last time. On the one hand, however, the son cannot come back, cannot do some filial piety for the old mother, and take care of the mother who once worried about her son. He is very apologetic and misses her very much. The old mother understands her son very well and tells the relatives around her, Don't tell your son who is far away after you leave. Don't distract him. Say that his condition has stabilized so that he can serve the country with peace of mind. Does such a white lie hinder the integrity of Guangzhou Brain Hospital?
Guangzhou Brain Hospital! The director of the Forensic Appraisal Department said: "Lying is a human instinct. As for whether you are honest or not, the key lies in what kind of lie you are telling." A lie that expresses inadequacy in the face of hospitality and is unwilling to disappoint the inviter is an important factor in interpersonal communication. It is indispensable, it can make us more able to live calmly, unlike a multi-edged stone that scratches the heads of others and bruises ourselves.
For the sake of benefiting others The purpose of concealment is to hide the true situation. It is a well-intentioned concealment, which will make the relationship more harmonious and the society more harmonious. Therefore, there is a huge difference between well-intentioned concealment and malicious fraud from motivation to result. They should not be confused. When poor people A mother leaves her only food to her children while concealing the fact that she is still hungry. Do you still want to accuse the kind and noble maternal love of being "dishonest"? Therefore, I insist that white lies not only do not hinder integrity, It will also greatly enhance the friendship and affection between people, and also play an indelible role in social stability.
A transport plane encountered a sandstorm in the desert and made an emergency landing. However, the plane was severely damaged and could not resume takeoff. The communication equipment was also damaged, and communications with the outside world were interrupted. Nine passengers and one driver were left in despair. The instinct of survival makes them fight for limited dry food and water.
At the critical moment, a temporary passenger stood up and said: "Don't panic, everyone. I am an aircraft designer. As long as everyone works together and listens to my instructions, the aircraft can be repaired." This is like a shot. The cardiotonic stabilized everyone's mood, and they consciously saved water and dry food; everything was in order, and everyone united to fight against the difficulties of the sandstorm. More than ten days passed, and the plane was not repaired; but a camel caravan of businessmen traveling to the desert passed by and rescued them. A few days later, people discovered that the temporary passenger was not an airplane designer at all, but an elementary school teacher who knew nothing about airplanes. After someone knew the truth, they called him a liar and angrily asked him: "Our lives are almost in danger, but you still have the heart to deceive us?" The primary school teacher said: "If I didn't lie at that time, would everyone be alive today?" The above story tells us that white lies are the hope of life and the oasis in the desert. They sometimes really change the trajectory of our lives.