What "efficient learning methods" can be mastered to completely get rid of children's procrastination and become a master of learning? To shape a child who doesn't dawdle, you need to know the "efficient memory method". After discovering that children love to dawdle, I have to communicate with the child's class teacher and learn more about the child. The teacher told me seriously: "Students who study well are generally not the most diligent children. A child with a correct learning attitude may not brush the questions. Children who have done a lot of exercises may not get their grades. Moreover, being slow is not necessarily without initiative. "

The teacher's famous words made me understand. Many times, parents know that their children are smart. Often the results can't keep up, and muddling along has become a habit. It is likely that children have not mastered efficient learning methods. Then as parents, we really shouldn't put too much pressure on our children in such a state.

After that, the teacher strongly recommended a book among parents, and I was really impressed after reading it. From this book, I found a good way to help children change their lives and improve their grades.

1 Find the main reason why children love to fool around in their studies. "Being the master of learning" emphasizes that children don't know where their learning is lacking and where their energy and money should be spent in order to ensure their achievements and abilities. This is one of the reasons why children love to dawdle on their studies. Children can't feel the supply of positive energy, and feel that it is easy to give up learning and training and develop the bad habit of dawdling.

These reasons are very obvious from my children. Children don't know that Chinese subjects are poor, just because there are few composition materials and less daily training. However, children try to remember. As soon as they write their composition, they procrastinate, and their resistance is obvious. They usually don't want to write for training. It is inevitable that their procrastination will increase and their grades will decline steadily.

At the same time, the child also had a second wrong idea. It is that children seem to be diligent, but it is actually a very inefficient learning method, which is actually "pseudo-learning training".

The child takes notes very hard and knocks on the blackboard with the water-based pen in the book. It looks very hard. In fact, it is useless to improve some defects of children. This belongs to "inefficient learning method". When children do their homework, it is still easier to stop writing for a long time because the composition is difficult to write.

2 Build a "learning pyramid" so that children can learn independently without dawdling. When children see Chinese composition, they are prone to anxiety and impetuousness. Children will resist writing Chinese homework and then write other homework first. Finally, when it comes to writing Chinese, children love to use it while doing homework, and gradually develop the bad habit of muddling along and not listening to their parents' advice.