Most of the troubles in life are directly related to money. As a symbol of wealth, money is only useful in people's exchanges and is just an accessory in emotional life. People who are extremely wealthy and have no worries about food and clothing may suffer from mental crisis and commit suicide; but beggars who are penniless and have no food and clothing rarely commit suicide.
Happiness is a psychological state and a state of existence. If you are full of dissatisfaction with the world! Then even if you have the whole world, you will still feel sad. Optimists mostly come from the lower classes of society, which are full of hardships.
Happiness cannot be captured. Some people pursue happiness all their lives, but they are not happy. Instead, they feel pain all day long. Happiness is like a colorful butterfly flying among flowers. It is difficult to catch it if you try your best to chase it. Hill has a famous saying: "Money is always just money, not happiness, let alone happiness!"
Happiness is actually hidden deep in people's hearts. If you feel that you are the happiest person, you that is. How much encouragement this sentence gives us many times! I am not the richest or the most successful, but I am the happiest.
The protagonist Xiangzi in "The Look of a Camel" is a typical example of the lower-class working people who were exploited in the old society. He was destitute and had to pull a rickshaw under the scorching sun and heavy rain in order to survive. Because he was poor, he often had to live a life of hunger and cold. It seems that even without money it is impossible. Money is a good thing. It restores people's self-confidence and makes them forget their sorrows. It can be seen that having no money will make life very difficult.
Polyushkin in "Dead Souls" is a wealthy landowner who owns a woolen factory, a weaving factory, a spinning wheel factory, and also has a huge amount of money. But he is greedy, stingy, and eccentric. He only knows how to guard the piles of rotting belongings at home, and lives in suspicion and shabbiness all day long. No one at home talked to him. He became quite a ghost - a dead soul rather than a human being. It seems that just having money is not happiness.
In "Timon of Athens", Shakespeare said through the mouth of the protagonist Timon: Gold! Yellow, shiny, precious gold! ... This thing, just a little bit, can turn black into white, ugly into beautiful, wrong into right, humble into noble, old into young, coward into brave. It seems that money can sometimes turn things upside down. But in fact, it depends on how the owner of the money uses it. Money can buy medicine, but not health; money can buy beds, but not sleep. There are many things that cannot be bought with money.
Many scholars have reached conclusions through extensive and large-scale sample surveys. The conclusion shows that the relationship between money and happiness is not as directly proportional as people imagine. It is neither that richer people are happier, nor that poorer people are happier. The relationship between them is negligible. In the jargon of scholars, the relationship between them is only a "slight positive correlation."
Mr. Liang, who is now the CEO of a large company, said: "In the past few years, I worked very hard and tired. I suffered a lot of setbacks and blows, but I survived them all. After a big blow, , I thought that nothing could hit me in the future. But now that my career has grown, I feel so miserable that I even tremble as soon as I enter the company and don’t dare to face my employees.”
Zhang Ya, who worked as a supervisor engineer in a large domestic IT group, was so poor that she didn’t even have shoes when she was a child. Once, it was snowing heavily in winter when she went to school to get her report card. She was afraid that her only pair of cloth shoes would get wet, so she walked back and forth barefoot. traveled a long way. Two brothers and two sisters also dropped out of school early because of poverty. Only he managed to read it with the help of relatives and friends. Later, Zhang Ya graduated with a master's degree, came to the capital Beijing, and lived a white-collar life, but he did not feel happy. He said: "Poverty used to be a kind of misfortune, but now I find that having money does not necessarily mean happiness. Although I was poor when I was a child, my family had fun together. Although I have more income now, the cost of living is also high and the work pressure is also high. I am older. So, I am still the happiest when I was a child.
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Suddenly surrounded by several bodyguards, a middle-aged man wearing sunglasses, well-dressed, and with a majestic face walked into the psychological consultation room of the hospital. Seeing the psychological consultation expert, he suddenly Putting down all pretense, he cried like a child: "I have everything now, why do I still feel so painful? "This is quite like a scene in the movie "Infernal Affairs", which once happened in front of Qu Ying, director of the clinical psychology department of Beijing Huilongguan Hospital and a famous psychological counseling expert. Qu Ying said: "In recent years, among the people who come for psychological counseling, the rich More and more. It’s like people say, the richer you are, the less happy you are. ”
I also know some people who hold important positions or are wealthy. However, they are either busy dealing with the intrigues in the officialdom or running around in the shopping malls. In their free time, they are not doing business. Can you say that people like this live a happy life in a place full of entertainment and entertainment?
I also know a young couple who make a living by repairing shoes, no matter whether they are in spring, summer, autumn or winter, or in the heat. In the cold weather, they sit on the side of the road all day long, holding various pairs of shoes with their hands. However, no matter what time, their faces are full of smiles, you can say that they live a happy life. Aren’t you happy?
Why do so many of China’s richest people die unexpectedly? This is a special group of people—those billionaires who have died are not considered dead in the true sense of the word. After combing through the death cases of 72 billionaires that could be found, the data showed that 15 died of homicide, 17 died of suicide, 7 died of accidents, 14 were executed, and 19 rich people died of premature illness. , the number is sobering.
17 of the 72 people left this world voluntarily. Although the methods were different, their determination was the same.
Jingdezhen. Seven people including Shao Hehe, chairman of Xinyi Real Estate Development Group, chose to hang themselves; Zhao Qingbin, general manager of Chenneng Harbin Institute of Technology High-tech Venture Capital Co., Ltd., and five others chose to jump off the building; Lu Liqiang, chairman of Zhejiang Steel Structure Co., Ltd. of Zhuguang Group, and two others chose to hang themselves. Throwing water; Hou Yefu, chairman of Hefei Senmiao Group, and two other people chose to take poison.
The 44-year-old Jin Libin, chairman of Baotou Huilong Trading Co., Ltd., took the most drastic method of self-immolation. According to media reports, Jin Libin was found in a burned-out car on April 13 this year, and his body was severely charred. After investigation, the police ruled out the possibility of homicide or accident.
17 suicides. Among the rich, a few people, including Xu Kai, vice president of Shaanxi Jinhua Group and vice chairman of *ST Jinhua, and Ma Hao, general manager of Guangzhou Huagang Real Estate Development Company, suffered from mental depression. Controller Wei Dong and others, according to media reports, are because possible "criminal facts" will be exposed.
More wealthy people are overwhelmed because of major problems in their operations, resulting in the break of the capital chain. . Zhao Enlong, chairman of Shanxi Xinlong Rare Earth Magnets (Group) Co., Ltd., and Pang Guixiong, chairman of Zhonggu Sugar Industry Group, both jumped off the building in despair because of business problems caused by blind expansion.
Vice president of Foshan Lida Toys Co., Ltd. Chairman Zhang Shuhong and General Manager Qiu Zuyi of Anhui Huayuan Biopharmaceutical Co., Ltd. The former was "disgraced" in the Mattel toy recall incident that shocked the world; the latter suffered huge losses in the "Xinfu" drug fatal incident that shocked the country. Stress.
“In fact, some wealthy people’s reverse quotient (the ability to resist setbacks and pressure) is often beyond ordinary people. But their inner world is very lonely, which leads to the fact that in the face of pressure and setbacks, they will not seek psychological help like ordinary people, but will bear it alone. Once the limit is exceeded, they will go to extremes. "Zhang Zhenhuan, director of Changchun Intelligent Psychological Counseling Center and senior psychological counseling expert, said that this is exactly the so-called higher you stand, the harder you fall.
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