Lifeline is in your own hands, make your own decisions. Don't change yourself because of others. Make your own decisions.

In the eyes of parents, disobedient children are rebellious; In the eyes of teachers, students with poor grades are ignorant; In everyone's eyes, mediocre people are incompetent.

Sometimes, I get angry because of my parents' blame; Sometimes, I will be complacent because of the teacher's praise; Sometimes, it will be hostile because of someone else's disdain. Maybe this is what most people think. Because of other people's behavior, language, expression, etc. They triggered their own complex emotions. Why change yourself for others and let others control you?

I am a quiet person, sometimes I can be said to be taciturn. In my childhood, other people's memories are full of joking laughter, but my memory is a little melancholy; Stepping into teenagers, young people just sit quietly, occasionally looking up at the blue sky and white clouds, occasionally looking at the scenery outside the window, and occasionally listening to the rain. My heart has been very quiet.

Quiet makes me afraid to open my heart and communicate with others; Silence silences me; Quiet, so that I dare not take the initiative to answer the teacher's questions in class ... perhaps, these are all unfavorable factors for my future growth! My parents have taught me many times to communicate more and not just live in my inner world. My classmates also said that I was too honest, so let me be lively. However, I like this silence. It can calm my anger, it can calm my broken heart, and it will make me forget all my unhappiness. When I make achievements, it will alert me and make me reflect; When I feel tired outside, he will let me relax properly. In short, I often immerse myself in it, let me blend in and forget everything. Indeed, he caused me a little trouble. But I won't abandon it, because it is my inseparable friend. At the same time, I also want to improve myself, not change.

I won't change myself for others. I am an ordinary person, maybe I can't help but be influenced by the outside world, but I will move in this direction and absorb beneficial factors at the same time.

Who is in charge of my destiny? Myself, of course. Don't look into other people's eyes, and don't listen to other people's gossip.

Go your own way and let others talk!