-"Zhuangzi Generation Master"
After the spring dried up, the two fish didn't leave in time, and finally they were trapped in a small depression on land. Two fish live together day and night, unable to move, wetting each other with foam, enduring each other's blowing and the pain of rubbing their bodies when turning around. At this time, the two fish can't help but miss the free and happy life in the rivers and lakes.
This story is just people's fantasy. The truth is that the sea will always overflow, and two fish will eventually return to their own world. Finally, they will forget each other in the rivers and lakes. Yes, the beauty is old and instantly young. She was reluctant to part with her homesickness and was forgotten in the Jianghu.
Holding your hand and growing old with your son, in the eyes of the ancients, caring for each other is the highest realm of feelings. Today, it seems that forgetting rivers and lakes is also associated with romance. It is a romantic feeling to forget each other. In the Jianghu, there must be unforgettable love, bitter past, and a kind of melancholy.
Comparing rivers and lakes to society now, forgetting rivers and lakes means forgetting the sinister nature of rivers and lakes and the bad feelings between adults. Natural Jianghu people's Jianghu. Although the rivers and lakes are dangerous, they are big and can swim, which is the happiness of fish. Of course, thanks to the scum case, Mei Qi is respected as a guest.
That is to say, it is better for people to be completely heartless and not help each other in a stable life (there is no need to help each other, because there is no need), and it is better to have no smoke without fire ... As for those who make trouble, they are still restless, but they are even more dwarfed.
"Caring for each other" may be very touching; And "forgetting the rivers and lakes" is another realm, choosing to give up strong feelings in exchange for a stable life. This may require greater generosity and indifference.
1, "The Forgotten Jianghu", and "The Master of Zhuangzi". The original text is: "Spring is dry, fish are on land. It is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes. " After the spring dried up, the two fish didn't leave in time, and finally they were trapped in a small depression on land. Two fish get along day and night, unable to move, moisten each other with foam, endure each other's blowing and the pain of rubbing their bodies when turning around. At this time, the two fish can't help but miss the free and happy life in the rivers and lakes. Zhuangzi is really amazing. He coined several new words in one sentence, among which Jianghu and mutual care are well known. Driven by martial arts, Jianghu has become a mysterious word. And caring for each other has evolved into a special metaphor, which is used to describe couples who live together and help each other in difficulties.
But Zhuangzi doesn't like to care about each other, which is a turning point of inferiority. What he prefers is that two fish can forget each other. Because caring for each other is not a normal state of life, but an extraordinary act at an extraordinary moment. If life needs to take care of each other all the time, that kind of life will lack fun. It is better to forget the Jianghu and relax.
2. The original is from Zhuangzi. "Spring drought, fish in the land. It is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes. "
The spring water dried up, and both fish were exposed to the dry mud at the bottom of the lake to wait for death. They could only spit out a little blisters to moisten each other and prolong their lives. Although this is touching and noble, the best situation for fish is not to express their loyalty and friendship with death. What fish want to do most is to swim in the rivers and lakes, even if they don't know anyone. "
At this point, Zhuangzi is a very practical and philosophical person, and he does not hypocritically pursue noble heroism.
Now, this sentence generally refers to their respective lives, and they can't hear each other's voices.