A summary of Yu Qiuyu’s famous aphorisms is as follows

1. In the struggle for reputation, people are most likely to lower their life status to an unbelievable level.

2. I have seen that the first to reach the deathbed is always the villain.

3. People have many ways of living, and the levels of civilization they live in are also different. People who live on the fifth floor do not need to criticize the inferiority of the third floor, let alone whether you are still living on the fifth floor. Lack of scientific proof.

4. In culture, ineffectiveness will inevitably lead to boredom, and boredom will inevitably lead to shamelessness. However, even if you reach the low point of this "three nothings", there is no need to be too depressed. Because only troughs can form the yearning for new peaks.

5. Confucianism does not establish a personal god, but it does establish a personal ideal, which is the gentleman.

6. I see that the barren valley is always shrouded in the most beautiful moonlight.

7. Loving someone means growing up with them over a long period of time and dying together in the last years of life.

8. The expression of personal dignity is not just toughness. Toughness is just the outer guard of personality. At the inner level, the world of personality is the breeze and the bright moon, the ripples of soft branches, the delicate steps, and the continuous smiles.

9. When faced with false accusations, do not refute or appeal. Don’t try to engage in dialogue with the accuser, don’t try to elicit pity from the onlookers. A tall building without shadow must not have been built yet; a big tree without vines must have not yet reached its peak.

10. People torment others, manipulate others, and retaliate against others. This skill has been honed to perfection by humans for thousands of years.

11. If you want something, let it go. If it can come back to you, it will belong to you forever; if it does not come back, it is not yours at all.

12. As long as history is not blocked and time does not go backwards, everything will age. Let's be old when we are old, and peacefully hand over to the world a kind and beautiful look. Pretending to be innocent is the cruelest form of self-sabotage.

13. All wounds maintain temperature, all temperatures involve pain, all pain calls for healing, and all healing retains reluctance.

14. The starting point of jealousy is people’s hidden worries about their own vulnerability.

15. Give history back its truth and life its process. This is the great wisdom of mankind.