Value equivalence is the basis of interpersonal communication!
Value is divided into spiritual value, economic value and happy value (which can be divided into spiritual value).
Spiritual value: that is, a person's knowledge and understanding of things and your value output to others.
Economic value: the wealth you have and the wealth you can create for others.
The value of happiness: that is, you are an optimistic person and can export your optimism to the people around you.
The above three values are the three elements of getting along with friends.
People with high spiritual value like to communicate with two kinds of people: 1, who are slightly lower than him but listen with an open mind; A person whose spiritual value level is much higher than his should learn some nutrition. These two kinds of people and he are often friends in stages, and in the process of advancing at the same time, this friendship of spiritual value is long-term and stable. If one party is not diligent, even seriously backward, and doesn't want to make progress, the friendship of spiritual value will be subtracted until the difference is 0, or even negative (negative value means inverted values).
Economic value, which is easy to understand, is your own wealth and the ability to create wealth. The circle culture that is often talked about means that people with the same wealth (except the nouveau riche) have a common language, jointly promote their careers, and can work together to accomplish things that individuals cannot accomplish. Why is it easier to make friends in business? It is in the process of doing business that you create and export economic value for each other, and it is often easier to accumulate friends in the process of doing business. The longer the business, the longer the friends, and the closer the relationship. Have you found that project-oriented friends have obvious characteristics? In fact, during the project, we were good friends and called each other brothers. After the project, many people gradually forget the rivers and lakes, but once there are new opportunities for cooperation, everyone will hang out closely every day. The core is economic value, let us come together. Do you think this is a friend?
The value of happiness, based on spiritual value and economic value, can bring pleasure and comfort to others in language and behavior, and make others willing to listen to you. This value of happiness is fully reflected. If you let others communicate with you, or feel particularly uncomfortable and disgusted together, then this friend will basically not last long.
Whether the spiritual value, economic value and happiness value are on the same level, the fundamental of being a man cannot be changed, that is, respect for people! When your economic value is high, help more people in financial need!
When your spiritual value is high, popularize and spread it to ordinary people;
When your happiness is of high value, bring more happiness to your friends and family!
People should learn to squat down and listen to the world!