A friend told her that the reason why you are so busy recently, even running around, is because you still have desires. She wants to say, that's not desire, that's responsibility. However, I think this statement is incredible and empty, so I said that I always have to do things when I am alive, just for the basic life. But who says that the needs of basic life are not desires? Except in primitive society, people take desire for granted. In addition to eating and sleeping, people have some primitive impulses and sexual needs at most. But since the emergence of civilization and sects, desire has become a controversial word. For example, Buddhist teachings mentioned: "People are born bitter. The root of suffering lies in people's desires. " James 1 section 15 of the Bible says: "As soon as lust is conceived, it gives birth to sin. When sin grows up, it gives birth to death. " It seems that people's birth, death, illness and sorrow are all related to desire. However, modern psychology also believes that if a person has no desire, he will lack the motivation to live, will be depressed, will lack the motivation to struggle, and human beings will not be able to make better progress. Who is right and who is wrong?

She thinks that everything has two sides, even many sides. Desire can be bad or good. Or it doesn't matter whether it is good or bad. The key is to grasp the degree. Moderate desire can give infinite passion and vitality to human life, and eventually become a mysterious force for the growth and continuation of human life. And the over-inflated endless desire can destroy people. Proper desire will make life more colorful, healthier and longer. An ascetic monk without any desire is unlovable. A person who is happy with all good things is alive. If such joy is also a desire, then such desire is admirable.

Some people say that the ultimate goal of all activities in human society is to constantly satisfy their own desires. She thinks this is one-sided. There are many things besides human desires, such as love, such as mission, such as the pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty. Just like two men and women fall in love, it is not ruled out that there will be an impulse of desire between them, but more must be out of love. Any emotion established by desire is fragile and short-lived, and only the emotion established through love is firm and long-lasting. Desire is like a bubble in a rainy day, one comes up, breaks, and the other comes out again. Also like waves on the sea, wave after wave, never stop.

Hungry, want to eat, is this a desire? Like a person, want to kiss her, is this desire? Is it a desire to stay indoors for a long time and want to breathe fresh air outdoors? Is it a desire to bask in the warm afternoon sunshine in the cold winter?

After lunch, I walked alone by the long river, thinking about what desire is and what the meaning of desire is. There is no one on the path. I don't know if it is only her desire to be close to nature in the afternoon, or if people are immersed in other desires and ignore the desire to contact with nature. Ah, desire is like a restless monkey stirring in the body. If she doesn't go to nature in the afternoon, she will get up and go to the window from time to time. Always want to go outside from the house. There seems to be a call outside, calling her to nature, calling her to the sun, calling her to the river, calling her to dance in the wind. ...

Occasionally, a plane rumbles through the blue sky. Other than that, everything is calm. It's sunny at noon, but I still feel a little cold. It is said that it will snow tomorrow. The sky doesn't feel like it's going to snow at this time. The sun fell on her without any cover. She doesn't wear much when she goes out. Wearing a thin gray wool trench coat. Arms wrapped in a layer of fine cashmere are exposed to the wind. She couldn't help rubbing her hands to keep warm. Take a walk in the sun as much as possible. I'm not afraid of tanning. I always feel that the warmth of the sun can penetrate every cell and reach every nerve.

I should revise the manuscript this morning. There are many chores these days. Revising the manuscript can bring back your thoughts and calm your heart. At the same time, I also need to rearrange my thinking. However, a phone call passed for half a morning, and many philosophical issues were discussed on the phone. Among them, I talked about "desire". I thought I was a person who had almost nothing to want. As a result, a word from her friend woke her up. I still live in this secular world after all. How is it possible without desire? A person without desire can't even live. If human instinct is also a desire, how long can people live without this desire? For example, when it's cold, people naturally need to put on more clothes. Is this desire? If desire also includes the most basic needs of human life, what can we do without desire? Only when the basic desires are satisfied can we have lofty spirit and thoughts.

A friend said to her, "people like you shouldn't be trapped by money." All you have to do is take responsibility for your own thoughts. " Of course it's easy. But without experiencing many things, how can we empathize and give birth to deeper thinking? Isn't the process of thinking also the process of acceptance? To experience, to think, to explore. Think about what happened to you these days, don't you?

Normal desires can guarantee a better life. Basic desires should not be criticized as long as they are not extravagant desires. Just like a person, no matter how noble his heart is, he has to do things to survive, right? It's just that the way of doing things may be different from people.

It is also said that a person's success and ambition are very important. I once heard a story: a young Frenchman made a living by selling decorative portraits. In less than ten years, he quickly became a rich man and a young media tycoon. Unfortunately, however, I have cancer. After his death, a French newspaper published one of his wills. In this will, he said: I used to be a poor man. Before I entered the threshold of heaven as a rich man, I left the secret of becoming a rich man. I congratulate anyone who can guess the secret of my becoming rich by answering "What the poor lack most". The 1 million francs I left in the private safe in the bank will be used as a bonus to reward those who uncover the mystery of poverty, and it will also be my cheers and applause in heaven.

After the will was published, more than 40,000 people sent their answers. These answers are varied and varied. Most people think that what the poor lack most is of course money. With money, they will no longer be poor. Others think that the poor are poor because of lack of opportunities, and the poor are poor because of bad luck. There are also some people who think that what the poor lack most is skills, which is why they are poor. Only when they have skills can they get rich quickly. Others say that what the poor lack most is help and care, beautiful appearance, brand-name clothes and senior positions.

On the anniversary of the rich man's death, his lawyers and agents, under the supervision of the notary department, opened the private safe in the bank and uncovered the secret of his wealth. He thinks that what the poor lack most is the ambition to get rich.

Of all the answers, a nine-year-old girl guessed right. Why does only this nine-year-old girl think that what the poor lack most is ambition? On the day when she accepted the/kloc-0.00 million francs prize, she said, "My sister always warned me not to be ambitious every time she brought her 11-year-old boyfriend home! Don't be ambitious! So I thought, maybe ambition can make people get what they want. "

So what is ambition? Is it a greater desire beyond a basic desire? If ambition is the magic weapon to make people achieve great success, is this desire worthy of admiration? But she thinks that a person's success depends only on ambition. Success achieved by ambition may not bring happiness to oneself in the end. Unless ambition here refers to a strong heart. As for how strong it is, different people have different opinions.

If kazuo inamori had to choose between altruism and ambition, she would still choose altruism. Doing things with altruism and ensuring what you deserve is the perfect combination of a perfect career and a perfect life. No matter what you do, acting in this world is a kind of practice.