Author: Ye Rufeng

Feeling: Cultivating Children's Social EQ is a practical book that teaches us how to improve children's social EQ and comprehensive ability in a subtle way.

To put it bluntly, the so-called social emotional intelligence is the synthesis of the ability to deal with people, which belongs to a branch of emotional intelligence. Including self-control, anti-stress, social skills and many other aspects.

In the book "Cultivating Children's Emotional Intelligence", the author uses all kinds of knowledge of psychology and sociology to teach parents how to help their children improve their social emotional intelligence from nine aspects, such as self-confidence, self-control, frustration tolerance, social ability, coping with bullying, life education, sex education, money education, life education and honesty education, through 37 real stories.

This book focuses on the above story and tells four key points.

This book first tells how to cultivate children's self-confidence and frustration tolerance, and tells children that life will be more exciting if they believe in themselves and are not afraid of failure.

Then tell children from four aspects: self-control, outlook on money, outlook on honesty and outlook on life that life is possible only if you manage yourself well.

Then, tell the children that when they get along with their peers, they should learn to put themselves in other's shoes and learn to solve problems with wisdom. At the same time, tell the children that they should try their best to win a wonderful life. Learn to deal with interpersonal relationships, and there will be smiling faces everywhere in life.

Finally, use all kinds of real cases to tell children that they should tell their parents at the first time when facing school bullying; At the same time, we should pay attention to protecting our privacy to stay away from sexual assault. Let children understand and know how to protect themselves, so that life will not panic.

The golden sentence in this book:

1. When you know that you are responsible for your own affairs, and when you know not to rely on others, you can receive real self-control!

2. We found a pebble in our shoes, so we can move on without telling ourselves, "Ah! I can't walk! "

3. Ability is very important in doing anything, but attitude is more important. As long as we have a down-to-earth and serious attitude, many things will get better and better.

4. Many times, what we should consider is how to be ourselves, instead of going with the flow. Only in this way can we win the respect of others and win a wonderful life.

5. Life is the most expensive disposable item in the world.

6. People who don't know how to refuse are bound to suffer endless interpersonal pressure.

7. Honest and trustworthy dolls, the future road is getting wider and wider.