As we all know, the Chinese nation, an ancient nation with a development history of more than 5,000 years, has a long history and a profound culture. Over the past thousands of years, the Chinese nation has condensed the wisdom of many ancestors and ancient people. Ancient people also faced many choices and difficulties, and ancient wise men usually summed up some experiences and opinions, leaving many famous sayings that are rarely known today. However, with the passage of time and the development of society, People usually only pay attention to the first half of this sentence, thus ignoring the second half. But what we are going to talk about today is this eternal famous sentence: "Life and death are destiny, wealth is in heaven." The second sentence is even more classic, but few people Know.
Life and death are determined by destiny, wealth and honor are in heaven. In fact, this sentence is easy to understand. It means that from the moment we are born, everything we have, no matter how big our deeds are in our lives, is from God. What is determined is not under our control. Wealth and poverty are all determined by God. Because ancient people in feudal society believed in ghosts and gods, people in ancient times often used fate to measure some things. But it is undeniable that things like birth, aging, illness, death, facial decline or poor health are beyond our control and cannot be avoided. These are normal and natural phenomena that everyone will experience.
Life and death are determined by destiny, wealth is in the sky, and the next sentence is the essence of this ancient saying, but few people know it nowadays. The second half of the sentence is "A gentleman is respectful and courteous, and he is respectful and courteous to others. We are all brothers in the world." The meaning of this sentence is that while people comply with their destiny, they should also treat the people and things around them with a peaceful attitude, and actively integrate into this world through their own efforts. In today's fast-paced society, we more or less always maintain an avoidance attitude towards some things and are unwilling to face them. Most people are somewhat repelled by interpersonal relationships and even social situations. They are unwilling and do not want to integrate into them. They just want to It is wrong to think that you should live within your comfort zone.
Whether it is daily life or work, you must be careful to avoid making mistakes. When interacting with others, you must also respect each other and be polite, so that interpersonal relationships will not be in a mess. The second half of this ancient saying is more like conveying another kind of life value to us, teaching us to correctly understand and accept the ups and downs of life. After all, life will inevitably encounter some injustices or unsatisfactory things. For example, when you first enter society and experience difficulties at work, these experiences are unavoidable for everyone, so they can be regarded as destined. When facing these difficulties and difficulties, we must not only overcome them to the greatest extent, but also You must learn to look at it with a normal mind, there is no need to dwell on it, and you must also learn to accept regrets.
When we interact with people in society, we should not be pretentious and hypocritical. We must be consistent on the outside and inside, so that we can truly achieve the meaning of "respect without losing anything, and be respectful and polite to others." When interacting with others, it is enough to show your truest side. Never do one thing in front of your face and do another behind your back. Everyone knows the story of the boy who cried wolf, right? Only by respecting others in your heart can others truly accept you from their hearts.
It is basic etiquette to be respectful to people's hearts. It is better to have one more friend in this world than one more enemy. If you have more friends, you will naturally have brothers. This is why we are all brothers in the world. We must learn to maintain a calm and unhurried mentality in the impetuous life, treat it with a peaceful mind, and truly never forget our original intention.