You overestimate your position in others' hearts and their concern for you, so you often exchange enthusiasm for indifference. Your heart dies again and again, which makes you gradually envy those friends who are loved and cared for by others. Your real life could have been like this. The only thing you lack is to recognize the level of people's hearts. In other words, you are sincere and simple, so that you automatically ignore the small details that others slack off. You think the thing in the world is that people change their minds. But I don't know that people who have nothing to do with you can't be forced or please.
Never condescend to ask for trouble when you get along with others. It's easy to see whether a person cares about you. As long as you observe carefully, you will always know each other's integrity in the process of coexistence. Others care, you also cherish; If you don't care, just let it go.
0 1 If you care, when you live together, you will really care about some people, and when you face that person, you will grow a kind of great compassion. You have been wronged and suffered, others may not see it, but people who care about you can deeply understand it and will try to give you some relief. This relief is not only a continuous concern, but also a concrete investment in most cases. For example, one day you say that I am depressed, and as long as the other party can spare time, I will definitely come to accompany you; In a certain link of economic distress, as long as the other party has it in his pocket, he will definitely give it to you.
You should know that what you call nursing has no cost. Time, time, energy and money are the assets for a person to settle down. I am willing to let you, not because of generosity, but because I can't bear to watch you suffer and want to make you feel better. This precious contribution is a preference, the only one, and it is the relevant evidence that that person values you from the bones.
If you care, you will really miss it when you are apart, and people have a sense of dependence. Being together for a long time will form a habit with each other. It's also a good day to meet. With people in front of you, it won't be so difficult to say or do anything. But in their respective places, no one cares about themselves and always feels empty. When I am free, there will be a yearning that suddenly rises from Ran Ran's heart. I want to know what the person I miss is doing. Therefore, it will talk to you, call you, tell you what it thinks and take care of your life.
Between two people, due to the long separation, a kind of concern arises spontaneously. Miss those thick days, he will be even gentler than before. The message he sent contained affectionate words of love and meticulous care. I miss you because I care; I have been bothering you because I miss you. This kind of active interruption is actually a kind of sweetness for you. This means that he can think of you without you.
If you care, you will understand the symbol of tolerance and care, which is called cherishing. If you are judged, you will not give up easily. When two people are together for a long time, there will always be defects, contradictions and quarrels. If you want to keep your people, you must always suppress your anger when your mentality is coming to an end. After all, if you care too much about a person, you will have a good impression and will be restrained. The love he gave you made it impossible for him to say these harmful words, let alone be blatant in your face.
He often contradicts you, and he always tells himself: Forget it, don't care, just allow you to be arrogant. Its understanding is tolerance, because it is afraid of losing. He was not born to suffer indignities, but to accommodate you. He learned to give in and tolerate. You can't rely on yourself. He likes you so much that you can't be so arrogant that you have no bottom line. Like him, you'd better try to control your temper and get along well, so that the relationship between you can come down.
In this life, people are looking for someone who really cares about themselves. When you meet that person, you don't have to pretend to be strong, you don't have to be wronged or condescending. The feeling of being cared for by others is like finding a shelter from the wind and rain in the heavy rain. It makes you feel that the world will no longer be cold.
Writer Joey said: People praise you for being obedient, gentle and good-tempered. Only those who care about you can care about whether you are wronged or not. People who really care about you pay, miss, understand and tolerate you. For the rest of my life, I hope to meet such people and cherish such people. In this case, I will be much happier in my later years.