2. Work hard and make progress, not to show others, but to be worthy of yourself and this life.
Shopping alone, eating alone, traveling alone and doing many things alone. A person's life is lonely, but more often it is because of loneliness and happiness. The ultimate happiness lies in the lonely deep sea. In this day-to-day life, I gradually reached a settlement with myself.
You don't know the strength of wine until you are drunk, and you don't know the weight until you have loved it. You can't be my poem any more than I can be your dream.
5. Instead of expecting to meet someone, expect yourself to attract such a person; Instead of expecting positive energy to warm you every time you are lost, expect yourself to be a positive energy person; It is better to work hard now than to worry about the future. Sometimes even more comfort and guidance is useless. Only you can convince and encourage yourself. And all I can do is tell you that we are all the same, don't be afraid.
6. We refuse to explore our own values, and we attach too much importance to others' participation in our own lives. As a result, loneliness is no longer beautiful, and we are lost for losing others.
7. There is not so much luck in life, but others are trying, and you just pretend not to see it.
8. Life is always like this, and people can't be satisfied everywhere. But we still have to live a passionate life. People live all their lives, and there are many things worth loving. Don't be discouraged because of one dissatisfaction.
9. I like to take the train, I like to go south or north slowly one stop at a time, and I like me on the journey. Just because, in the middle of the journey, I don't belong to the starting point or the end point, I don't belong to anywhere or anyone. At this moment, I just need to belong to myself.
10. The shortest distance is from hand to mouth, and the longest distance is from words to actions.
1 1. Some things can only be accepted if they happen. Some people, if they lose it, let go. Some roads, if you choose, there is no turning back. Life is so helpless.
12. Most of the troubles in life are due to your indecision.
13. Sometimes, you won't really realize the value of some precious moments until they become memories.
14. Put on headphones, listen to a shallow love song and watch a leisurely snowfall.
15. What is shallow fate, narrow social circle, introverted and talkative, and obsessed with first love? These are just excuses for not finding a partner. The real reason for staying is two words: people who are stronger than you look down on you, and people who are weaker than you can't handle you. If you live too long, you are most likely to be lonely all your life.
16. Eat his favorite snacks until he is full, and then he has no mood to sleep, no matter how troubled he is, he only cares about the fun in his dreams.
17. Neons in the distance, colorful reflections on the ground, holding umbrellas, trying to see the vague posture of the world.
18. Pick up what should be picked up and discard what should be discarded. Because, only when it's over will the beginning begin.
19. When you see through everything, you will know that losing is more practical than having.
20. Some pains will be overcome, some troubles will be solved, some words will be kept quiet, some love will be kept from loving, and some people will be kept from waiting.
2 1. Your efforts may not be taken seriously by others. If you don't work hard, others will certainly take care of you.
22. Many beautiful things are waiting, not being robbed. Waiting requires patience. When we lose patience, it is also the time when we pass by happiness. Anyone who has patience can always have the last laugh.
23. Enjoy every little thing in life, because one day when you look back, you will find that these things are actually very important.
Sometimes, God doesn't give you what you want, not because you don't deserve it, but because you deserve better.
I would rather keep silent than complain to those who don't care about me at all. People's feelings are like teeth. If you throw them away, they will disappear. If you reinstall them, they will be fake. If you cry, you will be filled with joy; Laugh and do whatever you want; Play and open your mind; Love is incisive; Life, why ground. Life, why be timid. Tired, listening to music; Sadness, Kan Kan's mood; Failure, start all over again; All your life, you need to be casual.
26. If there is fate, time and space are not distances; If there is no chance, we can't get together all day.
27. If you are not good enough, you will be so dependent on others; If you are not sober enough, you will believe all the dazzling coats; If you are not strong enough, you will waste time catering to their fun. Why blame others? It's your own fault.
28. People feel warm when they help each other; Things, work together to know simple; The road is not long until someone accompanies you; Love, you have to remember each other to realize the depth of love.
29. Compared with the so-called loneliness, what is even more frightening is that at this moment when we are young and strong, we are not interested in everything in life, letting time pass and emptiness penetrate our chests.
30. People change for two reasons: either they know a lot and want to change; Either the injury is too deep and must be replaced.
3 1. A person can live a naive and simple life, and someone around him must be guarding him at a higher price.
32. When two people are together, it is very important to be in tune. The so-called matching does not necessarily mean material things, but that two people have similar growth experiences and similar outlook on life and values, and can walk side by side for similar goals. When you speak, you always have to explain for a long time, or you can't say it at all. It's disgusting. It's really important to be able to talk.
33. Your burden will be a gift in the future, and your suffering will light your way forward.
34. A one-dollar lighter can light a thousand-dollar cigarette. A table of tens of thousands of dollars of vegetables is still inseparable from two dollars of salt. People are the same, don't say whether it is suitable or not, just when it is suitable.
35. If possible, marry someone you are willing to talk to. With him, there are endless words. There are trivial things in the world. Whether he is happy or sad, he can say happily, and he can listen patiently with a smile. This is basically love. To love someone is to be willing to talk to him. Life is long and looks old. You are really lucky to find a talking partner to accompany you all your life.
With more experience, you can understand these modal phrases.
1. "When I'm ready" is a useless sentence: "When I'm ready to go to work", "When I'm ready to open a shop" and "When I'm ready to get married" ... Many things don't start and I don't know what to prepare. "Everything is ready" is a state that never exists. No matter how much you wait, there is no way to "get everything ready". Accept this fact, you should have more courage to face life.
2. Enjoy achievements at high tide, enjoy life at low tide, do meaningful work when you are in the mood, and do interesting things when you are not in the mood.
The most powerful people in the world are not those who claim to be the most powerful, but those who can live in peace with their own vulnerability.
4. The less a person knows, the less he sees, and it is easy to inflate himself. On the contrary, people who read more and know more are more modest. Modesty does not mean denying yourself. Modest people don't mean they are not confident, but they know their own abilities and position.
You always have to endure bad days by yourself, just like smelly socks always have to be washed by yourself.
6. Self-mockery is the high-end humor. Exposing other people's shortcomings is ridiculous.
7. Don't tell everyone, it's useless, others are others after all, and few people really regard your injury as their own pain. If there really is such an unfortunate person worth talking to, you have not spoken to him, and you have choked silently. The person who can make you tell your pain without crying is the one who doesn't need to tell it. In this life, everyone around us should be happy, and only one person can cry with us.
In this world, educated people are not respected in a society without the same education. It is a strange phenomenon that a barbarian can build prestige instead.
9. I didn't miss you very deliberately, because I knew I should be grateful when I met you, and I needed to let go when I passed by. I just think of you in many, many small moments. For example, a movie, a song, a lyric, a road and countless moments to close your eyes.
10. I don't have much time and energy in my life to guess what others think and evaluate me; There are too many things to do.
1 1. Being single is no excuse for your untidy life. When you are alone in the world, you should eat, sleep and have fun ... You should take care of yourself before you have the strength to let the right person appear and attract him to stay with your light.
12. Stay away from me. I'm not giving up on you. I just can't stand you treating me in an inappropriate way that I don't want. I don't want to stay in a relationship that is not beautiful at all and doesn't conform to my nature at all.
13. If you don't calm down and settle down, anything about Niu X has nothing to do with you.
14. Deep love is a thunder in the chest, and there is only a faint cloud between the lips and teeth.
15. When no one is distressed, you are distressed.
16. If you are in a bad mood, listen to sad songs less. If you are hungry, help yourself to food. If you are afraid of the dark, turn on the light. Even if life is blocked in every way, there is no need to exaggerate your difficulties with sitcoms. The reality is so cruel that you can pretend to be innocent. Don't care too much about what can't be changed. People who can't stay will try to give up and heal themselves when they are injured. Except for life and death, it is a small matter. Don't embarrass yourself.
17. Everyone is in a bad mood. Emotions can be controlled, but tears don't lie; You can convince others, but you can't comfort yourself. Some words are only suitable to rot in my heart, because others don't understand. Some feelings can only be pretended not to be wanted, because that is importune. Want to find a strong reason, but how to laugh off a lot of pain; I want to have a comfortable harbor, but how many people really understand you?
18. In fact, people often laugh, but they are not really happy. No matter how open-minded, there will be heartache; No matter how indifferent the heart is, sometimes it will turn red. It's not that I'm not depressed, but that I remind myself to face the sunshine. Not without harm, even if my heart hurts again, I will choose to forgive with a smile. Wind and rain years, who is not the left hand, right hand vicissitudes of life. The so-called life is to cry and understand and grow up with a smile.
19. You think it is courage to shoulder the burden of life. In fact, it takes courage to live the life you really want.
20. If a person knows what he is living for, he can endure any life.
2 1. Everyone is inevitably lonely inside. I don't like quiet, but no one can share the inner coldness; Everyone is afraid of loneliness, if someone can understand who wants to be lonely. Persistence does not mean that all injuries can be borne, but pretending not to be sad; Silence on the surface doesn't mean that you don't feel anything in your heart, but you have no choice in reality.
22. Live a good life, for nothing but what you owe yourself these years.
23. People in the world, who have no suffering, who have no bitterness, the only thing that can be carried is their shoulders; Who has no wrong fate, who has no regrets, and finally can only look at their own eyes. In life, it doesn't matter whether you do it or not Emotion, ignoring people who like you, ignoring people who like you, that's not fighting for it.
24. Nothing is eternal, only the accumulation of good feelings: when you are in love, leave some feelings; During the cold war, I learned some gratitude.
25. Everyone has a city in his heart, where an impossible person lives. That man has gone through youth for a while, but he will stay in his memory for a lifetime.
26. It is too easy for girls to think of themselves as the big diamond in each other's lives. Whether we can be together or not is unforgettable. Others are just passing by. In fact, most of us think highly of ourselves, and we are just a stumbling block to their pursuit of true love.
27. You will never know how strong you really are until one day you have no choice but to be strong.
28. Stop fighting and stop wasting your breath. Just practice silently and make the annoying people feel ashamed.
29. Everyone with strength gritted his teeth and spent a period of no help, no support and no care. In the past, this was your bar mitzvah. If you can't get through, beg for mercy. This is your bottomless pit.
30. Sometimes the reason for procrastination is really not "laziness", but "we really don't want to do this kind of shit".
3 1. Go and meet the person you want to see! While the sun is shining, while the breeze Xu Lai, while you are young, while he is not old.
32. You are wasting your time, and many people are desperately trying. Don't choose comfort on the day when you should struggle most.
33. I really hope that when I wake up one night, everything will be fine. In the middle of the night, all the troubles become stars overhead, pointing to every right path.
34. Don't blame him for not being good at words. He just wrote all the unspeakable love on his face, because when love is strong, it is attachment; Love to the depths is silent. ...
35. People will never cherish three kinds of people: one is easy to get; Second, they will never leave; The third one is the one who has always been kind to you. However, often these three kinds of people will never come back once they leave.
After reading these classic quotations, you may be able to live in peace.
1. Spend too much time thinking about the rest of your life, but forget to live well.
Even if two people get along well and are happy together, there may not be a future.
I find someone to share my happiness. The first person is happier than me, the second person looks envious, and the third person tries to pretend to be calm, but his heart is fluctuating. I hope my happiness will not turn into a breeze in an instant. Since then, I have divided these three people into three types: bosom friends, friends and acquaintances.
4. The result of heart-wrenching is either heartbreak or ruthlessness.
Many flavors of life can only be savored at an age, such as this kind of mutual affection and happiness. However, once understood, everything is far away.
6. What we have been looking for is what we already have; We always look around, but we miss what we want, which is why we can't get what we want so far.
7. It is better to manage the betrayal and badness of others than to manage your own dignity and beauty.
8. Farewells are all free and easy. After saying goodbye, I was trying to control my thoughts. I can't hide from the night when I sing to wine, and I can't hide from the deserted streets.
9. I finally understand why you don't like people. You are not hypocritical enough, you don't talk sweet words, you don't lie with your eyes open, and you gradually find that having a good mouth is better than having a good heart, because a good heart is never better than a good mouth. Now society and people like falsehood, but they don't like truth. Doing is better than saying, pretending to say is better. ...
10. I went to check his past, not because I was jealous, but because I was sad and affectionate, and he never gave it to me.
1 1. Years old was ruined by pride and took the road paved by parents. At the age of 25, he refused to change and was ruined by his own ideas. He works with a fixed salary every month. The 30-year-old disappointment was ruined by laziness, and he watched the success and failure of others day after day. At the age of 40, the enemy ruined his face and was jealous of other people's wealth. 50 years old, regret being ruined by troubles! I can only live carefully. It's too late to sit in a rocking chair at the age of 60! In one's life, one should either attach importance to it or settle for it.
12. I don't procrastinate at all, but I am lazy and simple, so lazy that I can only find excuses to procrastinate.
13. I wonder how many people have slandered me behind my back. Maybe I am a shameless bitch in their mouth, but there is no way. Some people are in a morbid state: throwing dirty water on others to make them happy. I was criticized, but I didn't dodge. But I know that if you love me, you must believe me.
14. There are some fun and life experiences that we may never have, but it is between these "not getting" and "getting" that we have established our position in this world.
15. Sometimes I miss a friend I haven't contacted for a long time, turn over and over the phone book, and finally give up. Time has changed, there is no intersection and no reason to contact. Because I'm not sure if the other person is thinking about you, I pretend to be chic and say, "It's better to meet you if I miss you." We are just afraid: in each other's hearts, it is not that important.
16. Don't be too kind, too generous and too capable. After a long time, people will think that everything you do is right. Even if one day you are tired of crying, no one will love you. Because in their eyes, this is what you want. Sometimes don't be too kind. Don't think of others in everything! Others will not consider your feelings and difficulties. They will take everything for granted.
17. There are 20% people in this world. No matter how you behave, they hate you. There are also 60% people who change their attitude towards you according to your actions. Passers-by turn pink for a while, and powder turns black for a while. The remaining 20% people still like you so much, no matter how stupid, careless and wrong you are. This is how the world works.
18. Put down your impetuousness, your laziness, your enthusiasm for three minutes, your mind that you can't help but be tempted, your eyes that you are easily attracted to, your mouth that you want to gossip about everything, and calm down and do what you should do. It's time to work hard!
19. Fighting all the way is not to change the world, but to prevent the world from changing us.
20. Don't be easily influenced, and don't be too rational. People can't live too clearly, just know it in their hearts.
2 1. If you only read books that suit your taste, you will always know only what you already know.
22. I have gradually developed the habit of not explaining. Many emotions can't be shared, so I simply digest them myself. What you know will naturally be understood, and what you don't understand will sometimes be explained. Some stories can only be told to people who understand.
23. You are a very lovely person. You really should meet the best people. I wish I was.
It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us sixty years to learn to shut up. Many times, the more you talk, the more alienated you are, and the more contradictions you have. In communication, most people are always eager to express themselves, but they don't know each other at all. Learn to speak for two years, but shut up for life. Do you understand? Don't say much. Uneasy and calm, speak slowly. If you really have nothing to say, don't say it.
25. Instead of being busy and conspicuous, it is better to be a real and natural person in the crowd, not to make public, not to be artificial, and to leave a way out at any time. I have a fixed mind, just concentrate on my work.
I am eager to see you, but please remember that I won't ask to see you. This is not because of pride, you know I am not proud in front of you, but because it makes sense for us to meet only when you also want to see me.
27. The best preservation in the world is to make continuous progress and make yourself a better and more lovely person.
28. Shopping alone, eating alone, traveling alone and doing many things alone. A person's life is lonely, but more often it is because of loneliness and happiness. The ultimate happiness lies in the lonely deep sea. In this day-to-day life, I gradually reached a settlement with myself.
29. We should do what we want to do as soon as we think of it; Because people's minds will change, there will be as many hesitations and delays as tongues, hands and accidents.
No matter how hard you try to make yourself perfect, there will always be a group of people pointing fingers behind your back. There is no need to scold anyone, and there is no need to slap anyone. They are not necessarily bad people, they just don't understand your lifestyle.
3 1. Sometimes people are like this. When something big happens, they will endure, and they will endure. When they hear a word of comfort from people around them, they will be defeated in an instant. Later, I learned that what I was afraid of was not indifference, but sudden tenderness, not suffering alone, but that people around me felt sorry for you, not loneliness, but disappointment.
32. If you decide to give up, please give up cleanly. Those who decided never to meet again really didn't. Please don't make me betray myself again. If you want to love others, please love yourself first.
We have learned a lot of unnecessary things. It turns out that our world is not so happy, but the pain has become forever. Those beautiful pictures, like a ray of fireworks in the vast night sky, are fleeting.
There are too many forks in the journey of life, and turning around may be a lifetime. Miss the scenery along the way, miss the snow season at this time, miss the flower season at that time.
35. The greatest happiness in life is to meet a fairy-tale fate. In this world, whenever and wherever, there are always two people waiting for each other.
How many things do these classic mood phrases have to go through to get these feelings?
1, you have many enthusiastic friends, but you still have to learn to be brave.
2. Loving someone is not a temporary hand-in-hand, but a lifelong concern.
No one can control your life, but many times we need more courage to strengthen our choices.
4. Don't worry about yourself because of other people's doubts; Don't hurt yourself because of the ignorance of others.
Don't use "tomorrow" as an excuse not to work hard. It is difficult for people who can't grasp the time to plan the future.
6. The pinyin of sleep is sleep, and the pinyin of insomnia is asbestos. I can't sleep at night because I miss you.
7. Happiness means having a grateful heart, a healthy body, a satisfactory job, a lover who loves you deeply and a group of trustworthy friends.
People standing at the top of the mountain and at the foot of the mountain, although in different positions, are equally insignificant in each other's eyes. Words are duplicitous, but hearts are merciful. Good-hearted people dare to speak out, but sweet-talking people hide adultery. It is better to have a group of herdsman than a group of sweet-mouthed thieves. Everyone likes simple people and simple things. They don't like intrigue, calculation and false friendship. One day, you will meet that person and watch every sunrise with you until the end of your life. Before the "day" comes, your "every day" is to try to make yourself better.
9. If you love someone deeply, you will also fall in love with his troubles. Because you have love, you don't think this is trouble at all. You can't wait to be shattered and try your best to help him get rid of his troubles, whether it is a minefield or an abyss.
10. Everyone has a city in his heart. Love can destroy the city as well as the whole city. After all, the city still belongs to others, and the people who have been waiting for the siege all our lives come too early or too late.
There are many things in life that can't be said. Some happiness may not be understood by others; Some sadness may not be felt by others. Some are tired, tired in the body and tired in the heart; Some tears hang on my face and hurt my heart; Some pain, no injury, no trace, pain in my heart. What people fear most: the strangeness after deep friendship; The pain after serious; Use after trust; Indifference after tenderness; Love has providence, whether it will take care of itself; Why is there always nothing to say when the heart is connected? Sound, also tired; Tangible and bitter; The injured person is still injured. The original invisible scar is the most painful, and the tears that can't flow out are the coldest.
12. Love should be a magnetic field, not a rope. It is better to attract him than to bind him. A rope will make men want to break free, but the magnetic field can give men the illusion of freedom and an eternal temptation.
13, even the best things will be lost one day, and even the best things will be forgotten one day. If you can't get it, just let go. If you can't stand it, you will suffer. If you should cherish it, you should give it up. You can walk easily and live happily. Don't ask whose actions hurt you and whose feelings hurt you. Life is like this. Some people get hurt, some laugh, some cry and some scream. If you are hurt, rub it. Suffer the pain. Whoever has a life is hurt, and what kind of life is not bitter. Some are inevitable, and some are hard to hide. Life is not afraid of being hurt or crying. The key is whether you stand up in the face of pain or not.
14, no one, not getting to know each other slowly in the intersection, not a feeling, not gradually agreeing with each other in getting along. Intersection should be more than heart, and getting along should be based on emotion. Emotion begins with communication, and the heart lies in recognition. Whether it is reflected in communication, whether it can be felt in getting along. Pay sincerely, even if you can't get the true feelings, don't be sad. In this world, nothing can be fooled to the end, and whoever is good or bad will understand sooner or later. As long as you have a clear conscience, even if you get nothing, don't take it too seriously. In life, the heart is heavy, and living will be peaceful.
15, leaving is not rude, staying is not taken seriously; It may not be easy to let go, but a broken heart doesn't want to hurt anymore.
16, when we are young, there are always many things that we can't stay, such as the time of going far, such as withered emotions; There are always many things that are hard to give up, such as chasing dreams, such as love in my heart; Facing the unknown factors on the road ahead, when the road is blocked, don't cling to the scenery that has passed away, and don't look back at the trips you have made, because if something fails, there will always be a door open for your dream.
17, whether it is love or friendship: I would rather leave proudly than humble existence; I would rather give up with a smile than have it with a cry.
18, for the person you love most, don't say forever, just say cherish.
19, what makes you stop inexplicably is just for today and tomorrow, even for the long years to come, so that what really belongs to you will eventually belong to you. Sometimes, the destination you think is actually just a transition; The transition you think is actually home.
20. People who run their teeth are often vulnerable. Because a truly powerful person is confident, self-confidence will be gentle and gentleness will be firm.
2 1. Everyone has talent, but if a fish is judged by its ability to climb trees, it will think that it is stupid all its life.
22. You love a tree, a bird and a pet. You take care of it, feed it and take care of it. You still love it even if it doesn't give you anything in return. Can you understand this kind of love? Most people don't love like this, because our love is always limited by anxiety, jealousy and fear, which means that we are dependent on others, and we actually want to be loved.
23, not all people can understand the meaning of time, not all people know how to cherish, there is no fate of separation and aging in this world, only willing to love and unwilling to love.
24. How a person views himself determines his fate and points to his destination. The same is true of our outlook. When better ideas are injected into it, it will light up. No matter how humble life is, face it bravely, don't run away, and don't curse.
25. Learn to dance with the wind on windy days, and learn to hold up an umbrella for yourself when it rains. Life is expected to wear autumn water, and there will be unexpected joy.
26. Only when you can't get it, you tend to think that what you can't get must be the happiest thing, but happiness itself has nothing to do with it. The choice of happiness lies in how satisfied you are with yourself, not how satisfied others are with you.
27. There is no "better way". There is only one way, which is the one you choose. The key is that you should bravely go up and keep going.
28. There is no hard work and no place where people are not complicated. If destiny takes a hand is a part-time job, then do it well. Don't ruin your youth. Cross your legs at home, so does youth. Time will not pass very slowly. Some people don't have to work, but that's not you. They will do it anyway. Why not do it happily?
29. I hope you are so busy every day and do whatever you like. I hope the people you love love you too. I hope the people you hate disappear from your sight. I hope that one day, all your smiles are from the heart.
We fought all the way, not to change the world, but to stop the world from changing us.
3 1, pay attention to those who are good, positive and really care about themselves, not the other way around. Ignore, forget and laugh at the latter.
32. Young people always have many things that we can't keep, such as moving away from home, such as withered feelings; There are always many things that are hard to give up, such as chasing dreams, such as love in my heart; Facing the unknown factors on the road ahead, when the road is impassable, don't cling to the scenery ahead, and don't look back at the journey when you come; Simply be yourself, and there will always be a door open for your dreams.
33. People often experience unhappiness before they know what happiness is. It's like meeting the wrong person before you know who is right.
34. Sometimes, people will misunderstand or even conflict because of different experiences, backgrounds, experiences and cultures. With good intentions, try to resolve it. If you can't resolve it, avoid it. The world is sometimes very big, so it's better to be generous.
35. If we don't meet in the future and don't love in the past, every moment in the present is the only moment in life. Live well in the present, and live well in life.