In other words, no matter what you do, you must learn to be a man first. Learn to be a man and you will have friends. With friends, you will walk out of your success!

Two: Back against the big tree to enjoy the cool. Power is very important, you have the right to stop anything;

What is the currency in China's economy and society? What's the matter, capital? Power is capital! With power, you can make ends meet, and there will be countless opportunities in front of you! On the contrary, even if you have Gates' brain, you can only tinker with it! Of course, none of us can be born under such family conditions, but people are dead or alive. You have to dig around you and develop! Think about it, maybe you lost this opportunity before!

Three: no one is perfect, everyone has defects and fatal weaknesses, once caught, it will be vulnerable;

Chairman Mao once said, "It's fun to fight with people." . * * * The producers' party pulled up a group of peasants and defeated the 8 million regular army of the national army, which is to find the fatal weakness of the national army: the replacement of dynasties needs the support of the broad masses of the people! Speaking of people, each of us has a fatal weakness and a dead hole! It depends on whether you really want to think about it!

The fourth is: hello, you accept it. The world is not just yours.

Doing business, being a man, gambling and picking up girls should be enough! "Greed is not enough."

Five: don't stand on top, there are days outside, and there are people outside;

Whether it is success or starting a business, everyone should not be self-righteous. Maybe the beggars around you can be your opponents! Whenever you want to calm your mind, you must "look on coldly".

Six: it is indispensable to harm people's hearts, and it is indispensable to prevent people's hearts. The person who hurts you is often the person you trust most;

What a cliche! Who is the most reliable in this world except yourself is your parents who gave birth to you and raised you!

Seven: women are the biggest disaster, and she can make men lose confidence;

If a person wants to achieve great things, he must really learn:-put aside being affectionate! Can't be greedy! You can't put women first in your life! One day, you men will know that as long as there is money, there will be love! Love without financial backing is the most unreliable!

Eight: look at a person, look at big things from small things, and people who don't honor their parents can't afford it;

A person who does not honor his parents, even beats and scolds them, will not be much better to his friends! No matter where people go, there is no affection, friendship and love around them, then you are an animal! ! !

Nine: Never regret what you have done. Believe in yourself, the key is whether it is worthwhile and worthy of yourself;

As long as you look for something, as long as it is worthy of your relatives and friends, you will do it! ! ! There is also confidence!

What is worthy of yourself? To be worthy of yourself is to be worthy of your respect in doing things! ! !

Ten: Human nature is selfish, so is anyone.

People in this world and society will eat people! You should know your own nature and recognize the people and things around you. Everyone is doing things for himself. He listens to you because he has no capital, no ability and no appetite for you!

A classic saying of pupa-bring you the wisdom of life

1. Don't let emotions affect your description of the world (including yourself).

No matter what you think of the speaker and what kind of emotions you have at that time, you should calmly and carefully think about the other person's words before reacting.

3. When others' goodwill is expressed in a hot form, you should learn to tolerate and enjoy it-the other party will not be sad; When other people's malice is expressed in a beautiful form, you should be able to see it calmly and be wary.

Don't forget to check whether you are ridiculed or accused before mocking and accusing others.

The way others draw conclusions may be illogical, the arguments may be insufficient, but the conclusions may be valuable.

6. When Zhang San speaks ill of Li Si in front of you, there are two ideas for you to choose from: (1) What he said to me shows that he trusts me; (2) He can speak ill of Li Si in front of me, and he can also speak ill of me in front of Li Si.

7. Before making a choice, you can think about what kind of choice you will expect ten years from now.

8. Facing sincere help, accepting it and getting happiness from it is the most important compliment to the helper.

9. If someone hurts or annoys you unintentionally, you should remember his way to prevent yourself from hurting or irritating others unintentionally in this way.

10. You can prove that a person has strength, but you can never prove that a person has no strength; So don't look down on anyone, everyone has something to learn.

1 1. To evaluate a thing (or person), the most important thing is to look at it (him or her), not at things that often-but not always-reflect their own attributes. A person without a diploma is not necessarily a genius, a postdoctoral fellow may be a waste, and something (or service) sold to you by the most reputable company in the world may also be possible. This is the most important thing in itself.

12. You have seen its glory. Don't call it a gem right away. Take another look and you will find that it is just a beautiful soap bubble.

13. If you really don't care, you don't have to tell me "I don't care."

14. Humility can only become a virtue when it is moderate. The so-called moderate modesty refers to having a sincere learning attitude on the basis of respecting facts.

15. If someone asks you a question, and you think how to answer it is an excuse, then you can choose silence.

16. If the sky falls on you, you may be anxious, but if it falls on everyone, you don't have to worry, but you won't be too late because of the ditch, will you? Tube burning? Play? Union? So buried welding is not good. # 13;

17. The last thing you should be stingy with in this world is sincere praise and encouragement, which can really change a person.

18. If you don't do something, don't complain why nobody does it, because everyone thinks so.

19. If you think someone around you is cunning, it means that he is still not cunning enough.

20. It's hard to make up for hurting the wrong person.

2 1. Even the closest people can get hurt.

22. If the truth will eventually bring bad results, then you can choose to lie.

23. If you regret doing something, think about all the details that prompted you to do it at that time-will you do it again? -Maybe I won't regret it.

24. If you are sincere, let the other person feel your sincerity.

For those who don't want to be pitied, pitying him is the greatest harm to him.

26. The best way to endure is to enjoy, but in fact, patience is also a kind of enjoyment.

27. People often can't see what is under their noses.

28. Without hope, you will not be disappointed.

It is foolish to draw any conclusions until all the facts are known.