Moderator: This time I will discuss the topic of "how parents guide their children to read extracurricular books" in the form of interviews. Our program is divided into four parts: 1. Do you want to read extra-curricular books? Second, the importance of reading extracurricular books. Third, how to read. Fourth, what to read. Ok, first of all, let's look at the first link:

First, should I read it?

The first unit of grade five is "Reading Unit". After learning, I want my classmates to write a composition: my reading story. After reading the students' compositions, I deeply felt: Why are so many students stealing books instead of aboveboard extracurricular books? Many parents worry that reading extracurricular books will affect their study. Is that really the case? Let's look at the children's compositions first:

Story 1:

How can I see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?

I like reading all kinds of books, such as history, stories and novels ... Reading Gu Ran is a good thing, but I was defeated by reading. Why?

Since dealing with books, every time I read a book, I simply forget to eat and sleep.

In the fourth grade, I borrowed a book from my classmates for five thousand years. The thickness alone is eight centimeters. What should I do? It will be returned in three days. Before it's too late, I made a big decision to stay up late. So, I started an upside-down life. I slept in class during the day and my parents fell asleep at night, so I climbed out of the warm bed and read books at night. Once the teacher asked me to answer questions, but I was drooling at my desk. The teacher finally couldn't bear it anymore and complained to my parents.

Oh! Guess what? After returning home, I began to read "Man Jiang Hong". My father flew into a rage, my mother was raining and I was screaming. After the rainstorm, the education they gave me was "Don't wait for leisure, the teenager's head is white and his heart is sad", not as wordy as Tang priest in Journey to the West. I wouldn't listen. They punished me for not eating dinner in a rage. Hum! Don't eat, don't eat. I still go my own way. But after all, people are iron and rice is steel. Before midnight, I was so hungry that I could dance with stars. I sneaked into the kitchen and stole two steamed buns to solve the problem. The song sings well: "The sun walks in the wind and rain, how can we see the rainbow without experiencing the wind and rain?" I finally finished reading the book in three days.

Since that incident, my parents have been extremely disgusted with my reading. No wonder, that incident left me with sequelae. I put extra-curricular books in my textbook, and I read them secretly as soon as my mother left the room. She confiscated the book as soon as she found it. Boy, you take yours, but I'll go one step further and read another one. Once, my mother scolded me: "What a nerd! What you said went in one ear and out the other, telling you to finish your homework before reading. You ... "I quickly stopped and said," Books inspired my wisdom and soul and helped me out of the decadent quagmire. Without them, I would be submerged in it and suffocated by stupid and despicable things. " You don't have to guess, I stole Gorky's lines. Mother suddenly had nothing to say, so she had to come and take a taxi. I'm not afraid, and I've practiced "tin meat".

I haven't changed, not only in the past, but also now.

Story 2:

The story of a celebrity story

"Aha, thank you! Thank you! " I held the borrowed "Celebrity Story" very hard, touched the little bubble in my mouth with my hand, and ran back to the classroom at the speed of Liu Xiang's sprint with great excitement, eagerly reading the book. ...

Since I knew there was a good "Celebrity Story", I took pains to borrow it from that classmate, and every time the answer was: "No." It doesn't matter. My principle is: as long as you live in this world, I will always borrow your books. The book disappeared, and I immediately disappeared from your eyes. Finally, the classmate couldn't stand my nagging and showed it to me.

Here comes the problem. My mother won't let me take extra-curricular books home, saying it would affect my study. It's okay. There is a fire hydrant in the building where we live. Just put the book in and everything will be fine!

Before I step into the building, I will put "celebrity stories" in a book in Chinese or English, so that I can get away with it when I go home. But mom also has a wonderful idea-search! Boy, that's great! But I went one step further, put it in the fire hydrant cabinet first, and then bring it back when mom cooks. What's the matter, smart guy?

However, the good times didn't last long ... just as I was immersed in the story of the anti-smoking hero Lin Zexu with relish, my mother suddenly broke into the house and scared me out of my mind. Mother saw me reading extra-curricular books when I was writing my homework, and her face was livid with anger, except for not giving me a crooked mouth. "You little rabbit, you want to fly before your wings grow hard. How dare you disobey my mother and let you do your homework first ... "Mom's lion roar changed Dad's trick. Oh! The prelude to the storm began: "I told you to finish your homework before reading." Why don't you listen? " "The final entrance exam, will you take these?" "If you think you have more time, I'll give you more papers." "Spend more time reciting English and be more silent." "You see ..." After the thunder, it was raining. "See if you dare to look at it in the future!" "Bang, bang" "I'll show you-""Bang, bang" "What will you do if you can't get into junior high school?" "Bang, bang" again. ...

In the dead of night, mom and dad fell asleep. My parents rubbed my swollen arm and read books at night. Although it hurts, I am very happy. I'm not angry at all, because celebrity stories enrich my knowledge.

The host asked: After listening to these two stories, what do students and parents feel respectively?

Moderator's point of view:

Extracurricular books are the best way to enrich children's spiritual world and cultivate their interest. Children who don't read extracurricular books are bound to have narrow horizons. So parents should not stop their children from reading extracurricular books. For primary and secondary school students, because they are still immature and lack discrimination ability, they have not yet formed a mature reading concept. This requires parents to guide their children to read extracurricular books on the basis of respecting their children.

Second, reading is very important

1, the government advocates reading.

Overseas media once published a reading report, "Americans read 2 1 book per year, Japanese read 17 books per year, while China has less than 3 books per person per year. The nation that reads the most books per capita in the world every year is Jews, with 64 books; Followed by Russia, 55 books. " Premier Wen advocated reading. Governments at all levels are also carrying out various reading activities.

2. Three realms of reading.

Three realms of reading: "There is a golden house in the book" and living a rich and peaceful life is the purpose of reading and belongs to the first realm of reading; "How can the canal be so clear that there is flowing water from the source?" Reading can give people fresh nutrients, study hard and absorb the essence of the book, which belongs to the second realm. "Reading for the rise of China" is the highest interpretation of reading, the best way to realize the value of life and the highest realm of reading.

Step 3 read the story

Jews read very sweetly.

There is a tradition in the history of Jewish schools. Freshmen who have just entered primary school should put on new clothes for the first time and be led into the classroom by priests or learned people. There is a clean slate with several lines of Hebrew letters and simple Bible sentences written in honey. Then let the children lick off the honey on the slate while reading the letters, and eat honey cakes, apples and walnuts-all in order to let them taste the sweetness at the beginning of learning. There is no doubt that there is a Jewish concept behind this ceremony, that is, knowledge is sweet and children should start learning with joy and pleasure.

Jewish cultural tradition has always attached importance to education, books, knowledge and wisdom. In the Talmud era, scholars stood out and became the elite of Jewish society. In social organization system and public activities, scholars and teachers are often more authoritative than princes and warriors. Most young women from upper-class families prefer to marry scholars rather than businessmen or financiers. If both the father and the teacher are in prison, the child will decide to save the teacher first.

Jews never burn books, even books that attack Jews. According to the Jewish canon, work and activities are stopped every week on the Sabbath (from sunset on Friday to sunset on Saturday), but all kinds of bookstores can continue to operate, and bookstores are often crowded with people. According to a survey conducted by UNESCO 1988, in Israel, where Jews predominate, people over 14 read a book every month on average, ranking first in the world in per capita reading. Most villages and towns in Israel have libraries or reading rooms with elegant environment, reasonable layout and rich books. There are more than 900 kinds of magazines in this country with a population of just over 5 million. Jews attach great importance to the cultivation of practical talents as well as learning knowledge. They compare a man with knowledge but no talent to a donkey with many books on his back. Almost all children in Jewish families have been asked such a question: "If there is a fire at home one day, what will you take to escape?" If the child can't answer, the parents will tell him: "What you want to take away is not money or property, but wisdom! Because no one can take wisdom away, as long as you are alive, wisdom will always follow you. " And how can the cultivation of wisdom be separated from education and reading?

Because Jews have always attached importance to education, outstanding thinkers, scientists, artists and first-class operators have emerged in the long-term displacement of this nation. Marx, Einstein and Mendelssohn are outstanding representatives. Over the years, the proportion of Jews among Nobel Prize winners is staggering.

The host asked: After listening to this story, what do students and parents feel respectively?

4. Reading famous sayings

(1) Chinese learning, three points in class and seven points after class. "(Ye Shengtao, a famous contemporary educator)

(2) If you ask many students with good Chinese skills about their experiences, they will all say that they benefited from extracurricular activities. (China education expert Lv Shuxiang)

(3) The way to make students smarter is not to make up lessons or increase homework, but to read, read and reread. (Soviet educator Suhomlinski)

(4) A person's spiritual development history is his reading history. The spiritual realm of a nation depends largely on its reading level. (Zhu Yongxin, a famous education expert)

(5) Students who don't pay attention to reading are students who lack the ability to acquire new knowledge and development potential.

(6) A family that does not pay attention to reading is a family with shallow and mediocre cultural connotation.

(7) A school that doesn't pay attention to reading is dull and suffocating.

(8) A nation that does not attach importance to reading is doomed to be a hopeless nation.

(9) Life without books is like life without sunshine; Wisdom without books is like a bird without wings. (Shakespeare, British dramatist)

(10) Reading cannot change the length of life, but it can change the thickness of life; Reading can't change the starting point of life, but it can change the end point of life.

Moderator's point of view:

In short, the cultivation of good extracurricular reading habits is the golden key to open students' wisdom. If you persist for a long time, you will benefit for life.

Third, how to read

(1) What should children do if they don't like reading extracurricular books and just want to watch TV and play online games? Some people want to see it, but they lack guidance and the effect is not good? What good reading experience do you have to introduce to everyone?

The host asked: What good reading experiences did the students' guests and parents' guests introduce to the audience present?

The following is the host's supplement to the above guests' answers. Invited parents and students can refer to the following. If parents and students say what I want to say next, I will say less, which is ok. I can't wait for you to say everything below. I only play the role of threading the needle, so I will preside over the success.

1, you can start by encouraging children to express themselves orally and tell stories.

2. Parents and children study together, so that he can have a reading environment first.

Tell her an interesting story after reading it, but don't tell it all. Let her see it when she is interested.

4. If parents have the habit of reading, children will easily love reading before 10, thus forming the habit of reading. Therefore, parents should set an example and study tirelessly in their spare time to provide a good example for their children. Some parents complain that they are too busy to study, especially with their children.

(2) Create a good reading atmosphere at home.

Parents should cultivate their children's good reading habits. They should set an example first and learn. If you never study, it will be difficult to convince and impress children to love reading. Also, if a family always has the sound of TV at noon and night, how can we cultivate children to like reading? When Lenin recalled his parents' childhood education in an article, he wrote: There was a "quiet moment" in my family. At this time, everyone is working or reading at the same time, adults and children alike. It is not allowed to break this quiet moment. He said: "I can't help thinking of my childhood home at night, and there is a working atmosphere everywhere." My father is working in the study, my brother and sister are reading books or doing homework, my mother is sitting at a big table doing needlework, and the two of us are sitting next to my mother reading picture books. "This kind of' silent moment' not only makes children develop the habit of consciously observing discipline and self-control, but also makes them develop the habit of consciously reading and learning. Makarenko, an educator, said, "Don't think that you can only educate children by talking to them and ordering them. "In fact, I feel more subtle and deeply rooted. Therefore, a good reading atmosphere in a family is very important for children, far greater than our preaching.

Specific suggestions:

1. Create a good reading atmosphere

2. Let children read their favorite books.

3. Read a book with your child.

4. Read to children

5. Take the lead in reading to children.

6. Take your children around the book city often.

7. Always give clever encouragement to children.

(3) Help children develop good reading habits.

1. Stick to the habit of reading every night. Now the teacher is required to leave an appropriate amount of homework, and secondly.

Children can finish their homework in time after school, and have 15-30 minutes to read extracurricular books quietly every night, forming the habit of reading books every night.

2. Cultivate the habit of reading and writing. Help children develop the good habit of "no pen and ink, no reading". When reading, they can circle, tick and annotate the reading materials. After reading, they can extract good words and sentences, record reading cards, write reading notes or feel after reading, and strengthen the nutrition absorbed from reading materials by putting them on paper.

(D) Xiao Fuxing's "two commandments of reading"

1. Stop writing guidance books. There may be some such good books, but they are generally the most harmful to children. They are the most wild, casual and irresponsible. They tore one article from the east and another from the west, trying their best to divide the composition into eight pieces like a pig, turning the living life into mechanical mass production, aiming at the wallets of children and parents. A large number of such counseling books will make children feel at a loss. If a child writes a composition according to its pattern for a long time, it is most likely to have the same, formulaic, patterned and standard student accent, which will wear away the child's original naive nature and shrink the child's imagination.

Two commandments comic book. This kind of book has its own meaning of entertainment and games, but it is not popular in the end. It doesn't matter if children flip through it occasionally. If they are really infatuated, it's not a good thing. For children, reading cannot be all about learning that kind of utility. Games are children's nature, and it is appropriate to add color to games in reading. However, this comic book imported from abroad is really a product of commercial society and a variant of film and television culture. Reading for a long time, dissolving words and stripping reading will only make children more and more lazy and less understand reading. Let children gradually understand that the pain and happiness of reading are complementary. In essence, the fun of reading lies in the hardships of reading. Reading is not just as pleasant as eating ice cream in summer, sometimes reading is a bitter thing. As a child, reading is a responsibility, an obligation, not playing. Only at this price can reading become one's own knowledge, blood and life.

Fourth, what to read?