As the saying goes: the winner is king, and the loser is kou, so in people's impression, the king is the winner, and kou is of course doomed to be the loser.
In fact, Wang Hekou here is sometimes just the positioning of reference objects. If we change the angle or reference object, Wang Hekou's so-called conclusion will have no special significance.
The course of life is the process of existence and continuation of life. Rationally speaking, life is long and short, and emotionally speaking, life is rich and poor. Whether the definition of life is rational or perceptual, in the final analysis, it is just that the way and state of real life are different.
Life is long, thinking and feeling in constant experience, and constant pursuit and dream in experience. When we are young, or we are eager to get a candy, we call it a dream. When we grow up, we call it pursuing success. Once we are no longer young and have too many dreams, maybe health will naturally become our desire.
Whether it is a king or a coach, it is just an eye-catching halo on the top of the head, and it is good to win or lose. At least life is not determined by one success or failure. As long as life still exists, as long as the spark of dreams has not been extinguished, perhaps the failure at this time was originally the foreshadowing of success tomorrow. If you succeed today, who can be sure that you will continue to be a winner tomorrow?
Flowers bloom and fall, and the tide rises and falls. The changing track of nature in spring and autumn is sometimes very similar to that of life. Learn to be calm and sour when you succeed, don't be pessimistic and sigh when you fail, and embrace the shadow of your dreams with a normal heart. Maybe sometimes the footsteps of your dreams will gradually approach and touch you.
There are countless ups and downs in the world. Why is it easy to lose yourself because of a short storm? The journey is long, why have to keep moving your legs because of the gains and losses of a place? As long as the road of pursuit and yearning has not come to an end, every time you step on a new intersection, you will inevitably gain another kind of scenery.
We often say: earthly troubles and sorrows, all tears, laughter and pain, once treated with a free and easy heart, the so-called gains and losses, originally like smoke, are finally blown away in the wind of years, leaving no trace. Be brave to get up when you fall. Why do you have to comfort yourself with cowardly tears? Tears are funny. Can we deny that the so-called autumn no longer exists? Instead of lying in the same place and sighing and being sad because of falling, it is better to use a smile to resolve that pain.
The heroic life does not necessarily mean the so-called merits and fame in the eyes of the secular, but lies in the detached and indifferent state of mind in the face of setbacks and gains in the course of life. This mentality is sometimes not so-called depravity, nor so-called pessimism, nor so-called lack of progress. On the contrary, it is too much to gain maturity and wisdom after a free and easy life.
People living in emotions sometimes make sense. Sometimes a good mood is not given by others or imposed by reality. When you think about it, it is actually imposed on yourself. When you can't change the weather, why not learn to change your mood?
The winner's mood is of course joy, and the loser's mood is of course pain. On the other hand, if you fail, can't you just laugh it off? Can your painful mood change the failure that has happened? Sometimes failure seems to be a loss to people. Why don't we always regard it as an experience, a post and a test that must be experienced in the process of growth?
We often say that the so-called "no regrets"! Whether it is success or failure, it is an experience and orientation in a specific environment in the course of life. As long as you grasp, experience and treat with your heart, is winning or losing really that important? After all, life is like this. Not all efforts are rewarded, and not all dreams can come true. As long as you feel, pursue and cherish with your heart, your success or failure will be like a wisp of smoke passing through your field of vision, far less than the footprints left by your down-to-earth and sincere walking.
The journey of life, the road is long, Xiu Yuan Xi, Xiu Yuan also! Only by persisting in the wind and rain, maybe life can be more exciting, and only by treating life calmly, maybe you can reap different scenery.
Success or failure is at stake, life is heroic, and it is a big deal to start all over again. ...