"One" short story about trust
1. The establishment of Yan Shu's reputation
Yan Shu, a poet in the Northern Song Dynasty, was known for his honesty. When he was fourteen, he was recommended to the emperor as a child prodigy. The emperor summoned him and asked him to take the exam at the same time with more than 1 Jinshi. As a result, Yan Shu found that he had just practiced the exam ten days ago, so he reported it to Zhenzong truthfully and asked to change other topics. Song Zhenzong highly appreciated Yan Shu's honesty and gave him the title of "fellow Jinshi". When Yan Shu took office, the world was at peace.
As a result, officials of all sizes in Beijing often visit the suburbs or hold various banquets in restaurants and teahouses in the city. Yan Shu was poor and had no money to go out to eat, drink and be merry, so he had to read and write articles with his brothers at home. One day, Zhenzong promoted Yan Shu to be the East Palace official who assisted the Prince in his studies. Ministers were surprised and didn't understand why Zhenzong made such a decision.
Zhenzong said: "Recently, the ministers often play and dine, and only Yan Shu, who is so self-respecting and cautious, is the right person for the East Palace official." Yan Shu thanked him and said, "I am actually a person who likes to play and eat, but my family is poor. If I had money, I would have participated in the banquet tour. " These two things made Yan Shu establish credibility in front of his ministers, and Song Zhenzong trusted him more.
2. Comparison between Washington and Nixon and Clinton
Washington cut down a cherry tree of his father with a small axe. Father was very angry when he saw that his beloved tree was cut down, and threatened to teach that tree-chopping a lesson. And Washington admitted his mistake in front of his angry father. Father was moved, saying that Washington's honesty is much more precious than all cherry trees.
It was also American President Nixon who was forced to take the blame and resign because he lied in Watergate. Clinton was also impeached for lying in the disgraceful scandal. One is loved and respected for his honesty, and the other two have left a stain on political history for lying.
3. Yu Ion recorded a story of his death because of his bad faith.
A businessman in Jiyang sank when crossing the river. He grabbed a hemp pole and shouted for help. A fisherman heard the sound. The businessman quickly shouted, "I am the richest man in Jiyang. If you can save me, I will give you 1 taels of gold.". After being rescued ashore, the businessman turned against him and refused to admit it. He only gave the fisherman 1 taels of gold.
The fisherman accused him of breaking his word and going back on his word. The rich man said, "You are a fisherman. You can't earn much money all your life. Aren't you satisfied with suddenly getting twelve taels of gold?" My husband had to be disgruntled. Unexpectedly, the rich man capsized in the same place again. Someone tried to save him, and the man who had been cheated by him said, "He is the man who keeps his word!" " So the merchant drowned.
It is accidental for a businessman to capsize twice and meet the same husband, but it is expected that the businessman will not be rewarded well. Because if a person doesn't keep his word, he will lose the trust of others. Therefore, once he is in trouble, no one is willing to rescue him. Those who break their word to others, once in trouble, have to sit back and wait.
4. Zongxi's word is Yuangan, a native of Nieyang, Nanyang. His uncle is Zong Bing, who has a good knowledge but refuses to be an official. When Zong was young, Zong Bing asked him what his ambition was when he grew up. He replied: "I hope to drive the strong wind to disperse the huge waves that stretch across Wan Li." Zong Bing said: "Even if you can't be rich and expensive, you will certainly honor your ancestors."
Zong Bi, the elder brother of Zong Yi, got married once, and robbers came to rob him on the night of the wedding. At that time, Zongxi was only 14 years old, but he stood up and fought with the robbers, beating a dozen robbers to pieces, and he could not enter the main house at all.
At that time, the world was at peace, and people with a little fame thought it was a proper job to study writing and gain fame. Because of Zong Bing's high knowledge, everyone likes reading Confucian classics with him. Zong Yi was unknown because of his willfulness and love of martial arts.
5, Jiyang businessman
A businessman in Jiyang sank when crossing the river. He grabbed a hemp pole and shouted for help. A fisherman heard the sound. The businessman quickly shouted, "I am the richest man in Jiyang. If you can save me, I will give you 1 taels of gold.". After being rescued ashore, the businessman turned against him and refused to admit it. He only gave the fisherman 1 taels of gold. The fisherman accused him of breaking his word and going back on his word.
The rich man said, "You are a fisherman. You can't earn much money all your life. Aren't you satisfied with suddenly getting twelve taels of gold?" My husband had to be disgruntled. Unexpectedly, the rich man capsized in the same place again. Someone tried to save him, and the man who had been cheated by him said, "He is the man who keeps his word!" " So the merchant drowned.
It is accidental for a businessman to capsize twice and meet the same husband, but it is expected that the businessman will not be rewarded well. Because if a person doesn't keep his word, he will lose the trust of others. Therefore, once he is in trouble, no one is willing to rescue him. Those who break their word to others, once in trouble, have to sit back and wait.
2. Examples of trust in life
1. Comparison between Washington and Nixon and Clinton Washington cut down a cherry tree of his father with a small axe. Father was very angry when he saw that his beloved tree was cut down, and threatened to teach that tree-chopping a lesson. And Washington admitted his mistake in front of his angry father.
Father was moved, saying that honesty in Washington is much more precious than all cherry trees. It was also American President Nixon who was forced to take the blame and resign because he lied in the Watergate Incident. Clinton was also impeached for lying in the disgraceful scandal. One is loved and respected for his honesty, and the other two have left a stain on political history for lying.
2. During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, Shang Yang of Qin presided over the political reform with the support of Qin Xiaogong. In order to establish prestige and promote reform, Shang Yang ordered a 3-foot-long wood to be erected outside the south gate of the capital, and made a promise in public: whoever can move this wood to the north gate will be rewarded with twelve taels. Onlookers don't believe that such an easy thing can get such a high reward, so no one is willing to give it a try.
So Shang Yang raised the reward to 5 gold. Shang Yang immediately rewarded him with fifty gold. Shang Yang's move established prestige in the hearts of the people, and Shang Yang's next reform was soon popularized in Qin State. The new law made the State of Qin gradually strong and eventually unified China.
In the same place where Shang Yang's "building a tree as a letter", 4 years ago, there was a ridiculous farce of "playing a vassal in a bonfire".
Zhou Youwang has a favorite princess named Bao Si. In order to win her smile, Zhou Youwang ordered more than 2 beacon towers near the capital to light bonfires-bonfires are the signal of border warning, which can only be lit when foreign enemies invade and need to call governors to rescue them. When the vassals saw the bonfire, they led the soldiers to arrive in a hurry, understood it and left angrily.
I finally smiled happily when I saw that the princes with great prestige were at a loss. Five years later, you Yi Tai Rong attacked Zhou on a large scale, and the king's bonfire was rekindled, but the princes did not arrive-no one wanted to be fooled again. As a result, you Wang was forced to commit suicide and praised and captured.
a "standing on a tree to win the trust" promises a thousand dollars; An emperor didn't believe it, playing the game of "wolf coming". As a result, the former succeeded in political reform and the country was strong; The latter, bring disgrace to oneself, died. It can be seen that "trust" plays a very important role in the rise and fall of a country.
3. One morning, my wife opened the window of the canteen. Just after putting the public telephone on the counter, a lady used the telephone. When she put down the receiver, his wife looked at the timer and told her to charge 3 yuan money. The lady took out a hundred-dollar bill from her exquisite pocket and handed it to her. Her wife couldn't get it back, and she didn't have so much change in her hand.
Small businesses are subordinate to micro-businesses, and sometimes they can't sell so much money in one day, let alone just start business. The wife said, when do you have change? The lady looked surprised and asked her wife, "Do you know me?" The wife looked at her carefully and said, "I don't know you, but I trust you." The lady said nothing more and turned away.
ten minutes later, the lady appeared in the canteen again and gave her 3 yuan's money and telephone bill. She said, in order to change this 1 yuan, I went to the farmer's market 1 meters away and came back to give this 3 yuan's money and telephone bill.
The wife took the phone bill and said, "It doesn't matter if you don't send it." The lady said, "I'm going to this small town on business, and I'll make a long-distance call in the morning. If I hadn't paid the phone bill, you wouldn't have been able to find me. But I must come back. It is not easy for a person to be trusted. I want to cherish it. "
4. When a reform-through-labour prisoner was out repairing roads, he found 1 yuan money and gave it to the police without thinking. However, the police said contemptuously to him: "Don't come to this set, bribe me with your own money in a different way, and want to exchange capital for commutation. People like you are dishonest!" The prisoner was desperate, thinking that no one in the world would believe him again.
in the evening, he escaped from prison. On the way to escape, he robbed money wantonly and prepared to flee. After grabbing enough money, he boarded the train bound for the border. The train was so crowded that he had to stand by the toilet.
At this moment, a very beautiful girl walked into the toilet, only to find that the door button was broken when she closed it. She came out and whispered to him, "Sir, can you hold the door for me?" He stared at the girl's innocent eyes and nodded. The girl blushed and went into the toilet. And like a loyal guard, he guarded the door strictly. At this moment, he suddenly changed his mind. At the next stop, he got off the bus and turned himself in to the station police station.
5. Establishment of Yan Shu's reputation
Yan Shu, a poet in the Northern Song Dynasty, was known for his honesty. When he was fourteen, he was recommended to the emperor as a child prodigy. The emperor summoned him and asked him to take the exam at the same time with more than 1 Jinshi.
As a result, Yan Shu found that he had just practiced the exam ten days ago, so he reported it to Zhenzong truthfully and asked to change other topics. Song Zhenzong highly appreciated Yan Shu's honesty and gave him the title of "fellow Jinshi". When Yan Shu took office, the world was at peace. As a result, officials of all sizes in Beijing often visit the suburbs or hold various banquets in restaurants and teahouses in the city.
Yan Shu's family is poor and has no money to go out to eat, drink and have fun, so he has to read and write articles with his brothers at home. One day, Zhenzong promoted Yan Shu to be the East Palace official who assisted the Prince in his studies. Ministers were surprised and didn't understand why Zhenzong made such a decision.
Zhenzong said: "Recently, the ministers often play and dine, and only Yan Shu, who is so self-respecting and cautious, is the right person for the East Palace official." Yan Shu thanked him and said, "I am actually a person who likes to play and eat, but my family is poor. If I had money, I would have participated in the banquet tour. " These two things made Yan Shu establish credibility in front of his ministers, and Song Zhenzong trusted him more.
< 3 > A celebrity story about trust
A story about trust
When I read the newspaper the day before yesterday, I saw this story:
A father and his son were playing outdoors. The son climbed up the wall and wanted to jump down, so that his father could catch him below. Before he was ready to jump, his father told him a story, in which there was also a father and son. The father in the story is a rich man in America. The rich man's son climbed a wall and jumped down one day. The rich man waited to catch his son with open arms. But when his son jumped, the rich man dodged.
The rich man's son fell to the ground and looked at his father in confusion while crying, wondering why his father did it. At this time, the rich man said to his son, "I let you fall because I want you to learn a lesson: even the father may not be trusted sometimes in this world, let alone other strangers!" "
After telling the story of the rich man and his son, the storytelling father also stretched out his arms and said to his son, "Come on, jump down and I will catch you." At this time, his son's heart was already uneasy, and this story made him doubt and fear human nature.
However, under the urging of his father, the son gritted his teeth, closed his eyes and jumped. He thought he would fall heavily on the ground, but when he opened his eyes, he found himself lying in his father's arms. His father said to him, "I also want you to learn a lesson-sometimes you can trust strangers, let alone your father!" "
We all have a suspicion, even for those who are close to us, it is inevitable that we will not be wary. Past survival experience tells us; "There is no need to harm others, and there is no need to guard against others." Out of the instinct of self-protection, not trusting others, especially strangers, should be said to be a reasonable precaution, which is understandable. But if this suspicion develops into a kind of psychology that is too sensitive and almost neurotic, it will become a heart disease that is difficult to treat. For example, when you see others talking on the side, you quickly go to ask what others are saying, and when you turn around, you doubt that others are talking about your own mistakes. This is a common problem that many of us have.
For example, when you meet a colleague in a company on the road, when they approach, you quickly raise your hand to say hello to each other, but he (she) ignores you at all and walks straight in front of you. When you encounter this embarrassing situation, you will immediately get upset and feel that the other party is deliberately belittling you. Further associate this colleague's various performances in the unit, and you may even feel that he (she) is actually deliberately embarrassing himself/herself everywhere. Actually? Maybe when you meet someone on the road, you happen to catch up with their loved ones and die. The other person is bent down and thinking about the funeral, and doesn't even notice that you are greeting them across the street.
such an overly sensitive psychological quality often makes people unable to perceive the truth, fall into hopeless self-righteousness and loneliness, and make their interpersonal relationship a mess. It is difficult for people with this psychological trait to learn Buddhism and practice Buddhism, because they don't trust anyone but their own suspicions.
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A short story about trust in life
A customer walked into an auto repair shop and claimed to be the driver of a transportation company. "Write more parts on my bill. After I go back to the company for reimbursement, you will have a benefit." He said to the shopkeeper. But the owner refused such a request. The customer pestered and said, "My business is not small. I will come here often. You can definitely make a lot of money!" " The shopkeeper told him that it would never be done. The customer shouted angrily, "Anyone can do this. I think you are too stupid." The shopkeeper was angry. He asked the customer to leave immediately and talk about this business elsewhere. At this time, the customer smiled and held the owner's hand with admiration: "I am the owner of that transportation company. I have been looking for a fixed and reliable repair shop. Where else can you let me talk about this business?" In the face of temptation, I don't feel heartbroken and confused by it. Although it is as plain as a cloud and as simple as running water, it makes people appreciate a kind of high mountains and deep seas. This is a shining character-honesty. Being believed is a kind of happiness. A cargo ship is sailing in the smoky Atlantic Ocean. A black boy who was doing chores at the stern accidentally fell into the billowing Atlantic Ocean. The child shouted for help, but the wind and waves were urgent, and no one on board heard him. He watched helplessly as the freighter held the waves.