See Han Xin for an example of "forbearance". Note that this action is "whoever believes in it". Han Xin stared at the other person for a long time, which shows that he is not afraid. As the saying goes, "When an ordinary man sees humiliation, he draws his sword and stands up to fight. This is not courageous. There are great brave men in the world who are not surprised when they are killed, and are not angry when they are attacked for no reason. The person they hold hostage is very big, and their ambition is very high. "Far away." Su Shi's "Lun on Liu Hou"

"Historical Records: Biography of Huaiyin Hou": "There was an insult in the Huaiyin Massacre, saying: 'If you grow up, you like to carry a sword, but you are timid. "The people were humiliated and said: 'You can kill me if you stab me, but you can't kill me, if you come out of my crotch', you will see it and pull it out of your crotch. Everyone in the city laughed at it and thought it was cowardly." p>

In the case of "unbearable", there is a famous saying: "What is tolerable and what is unbearable?"

"The Analects of Confucius·Bayi": "Confucius said that Ji's family, the eight yi danced in the court, it is tolerable Yes, what can't be tolerated?

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