Hemingway said, "It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us sixty years to learn to shut up." It is a great wisdom to see through people's affairs. It's good to know a lot of things yourself, and you don't have to expose them if you see through them. Leave a little room for people in everything, and also leave a little room for yourself, which is the embodiment of your own pattern. Pay attention to the discretion, don't speak too fast, don't do things that harm others and don't benefit yourself, and keep silent in time, which can resolve contradictions and embarrassment without leaving a trace, ease the atmosphere and make people feel like a spring breeze. Less resentment, less slander, more understanding and tolerance, so as to appreciate each other and last forever.
Sit still and think about yourself all the time. Gossip is not personal. A person should always be able to calm down and sleep, reflect on his own shortcomings, not discuss right and wrong, and keep a compassionate and peaceful heart, accept others and tolerate himself after recognizing the essence of things. Don't expect everyone to understand you, there is no need to understand everyone, don't force others to understand, and don't have to learn with them. Everyone has different ideas and heights. As long as you know what you are doing, you can have a clear conscience. Go your own way and don't care about gossip.
In the face of other people's misunderstandings and comments, verbal refutation is powerless, and action is the most powerful proof. Use silence instead of excuses, try to move forward, and time will make a correct judgment. Don't argue, don't hide it in your heart, don't be sad and don't like it, be calm and don't be surprised by yourself. A truly mature person will not be too ostentatious, impatient and emotional. Sharpen your mind in front of glitz and absorb the essence silently, which will eventually become the most valuable experience and wisdom in your life.
Zhu Ziqing said: "Silence is a philosophy of life, and using it well is an art."
The mountain does not mean high, and it does not affect the towering clouds. The sea does not explain its depth, nor does it affect its ability to hold hundreds of rivers. The earth does not explain its thickness, nor does it affect its broad mind. Be a silent wise man, enjoy the silent time, read the inner feelings, feel the beauty of the years, and watch the noise of the world in a quiet corner.