It is said that hard work is very important. Only after that did I find that choice is actually more important than hard work. There are too many choices in people's life, and they have been choosing. Today's status quo is frozen by yesterday's choices, and tomorrow's happiness is frozen by today's choices. Choice can determine the width and narrowness of your journey, far and near; Choice can determine whether your life is expensive or cheap, rich or poor.
4, walking on the road, setbacks are inevitable, low tide is inevitable, loneliness and loneliness are inseparable; There are always times when people misunderstand, when people rely on them, and when people slander and plot against them. At these times, you have to understand the ebb and flow of the tide. As long as you can wait patiently, endure torture and keep the bottom line, everything will prove that life will not abandon you and fate will not abandon you!
5. If you want to be loved, you must love first; If you expect to be cared for, you must care for others first; If you want others to be nice to you, you must be nice to others first. This is a secret recipe, which is guaranteed to be effective and applicable to any situation. If you want to make sincere friends, you should be sincere to your friends first, and then you will find that your friends will begin to be sincere to you. If you want to be happy, bring happiness to others, and soon you will find yourself happier and happier. The best thing we can do for ourselves is to do more good things for others.
6. A person's greatest happiness is that someone can rely on him, and a person's greatest misfortune is that he relies too much on one person.
7. Don't tease people endlessly. Don't laugh the loudest and make the most noise, because you are afraid of silence. Don't be so eager to get close that you forget to be reserved and reduce your pride. Don't prepare a laundry list of jokes because you feel inexplicably inferior in front of the person you really love. Make TA happy at any time to save herself. People you like will be together when you are good enough. There is nothing wrong with teasing, but: because you give too much laughter, no one appreciates your seriousness anymore.
8. The cruelest thing in the world is not that you didn't meet the person you love, but that you met and finally missed it. The saddest thing in the world is not that the person you love doesn't love you, but that he doesn't love you after he loves you.
9. How much a person can achieve depends on how he treats his time. Your relationship with time forms you. You make time more valuable and time will make your life more valuable.
10, if you are a lion and others call you a dog, you won't really become a dog, so don't be angry about it; If you are a dog and others praise you as a lion, you won't really become a lion. There is no need to be happy about it. Therefore, the admiration of others will not make you better; Other people's accusations won't make you worse, and there's nothing to stick to. We should treat others' evaluation of ourselves with such a mentality.
1 1, the more you think, the more trouble you will encounter; Nothing, but no trouble at all. The more you are afraid, the more others will bully you; I'm not afraid of anything, but nobody dares to bully you. This is the world. If you have a good character, others will take advantage of you. If you cross the line a little, everyone will come to please you. Don't give in blindly, but be brave to say no when you are wronged! Wishing people happiness is the stupidest thing in the world.
12, someone gave you their heart, but you pretended not to see it because you didn't like it; Some people have torn your heart, but you still pretend that it doesn't hurt because you love it!
13. Never lie to those who trust you, and never trust those who lie to you. Sometimes, we always see things clearly, and some people always see things clearly. We always think that we can treat others sincerely if we are sincere, and we will try our best not to make people around us sad, but later we find that it is ourselves who are injured. Never expect others to be like you, we just need to be honest with each other and have a clear conscience.
14. Emotion is sometimes a bet. Losing is the saddest thing, and actions that lose value cannot be redeemed. Please don't be too cruel to yourself. You should face it bravely. If you are strong, someone will hold your hand until you are old. Low tide is inevitable, loneliness and loneliness are inseparable; There are always times when people misunderstand, when people rely on them, and when people slander and plot against them.
15. If you become more and more indifferent, you think you have grown up, but you haven't. Be gentle when you grow up and be gentle with the whole world. Maturity means that you can let go of many things, be compassionate and look at the world with a good eye.
16, when an enemy becomes a friend, it is more reliable than a friend, and when a friend becomes an enemy, it is more dangerous than the enemy. It's good to know something, needless to say. It's good that some people know each other. There's no need to be intimate.
17, if a person has to finish something he doesn't like, the best way is to do it as soon as possible and then finish it.
18, life experience is like a pencil. It is sharp at first, but it becomes smooth with more experience. If you can't bear it, it will break.
19, don't be the one who has been entangled in breaking up, which will only make you cheaper. You must be decisive and let him go! I think: when he wakes up in Uncle Leng's dream, he will remember your kindness, feel a dull pain in his heart, and find that he still has your place in his heart. Isn't this the best way to get rid of it or a good way of revenge?
20, the best love, there is no lack of days, no hoary head, just want to be together, that's all.
Good morning: it is more important to look at yourself than others.
If you miss something, you will meet something new. Fate is, neither early nor late, just right.
You always have to experience some betrayal and sadness to understand people's hearts.
Not everything is destined to succeed, but everything is worth a try.
Life is like a stage. You didn't know how great you were until the curtain call.
There are not so many ifs in this world. Sometimes, what we lose in an instant is eternity.
Only when things have changed can people know how to miss.
Life must be colorful, but it must not be messy.
The best time is that you like me and I like you, but we haven't confessed yet.
Life is a person's journey, and no one can replace it. Someone always leaves, and someone always comes.
Sometimes, when you are wronged, you don't want to cry, but as long as others ask you what's wrong, you can't help crying.
It is more important to see yourself than to read others. Good morning: companionship and understanding are more important than love.
Good morning: companionship and understanding are more important than love.
Introduction: From now on, I will do myself a favor: unload the burden, forget the pain and heal the wounds. Life is not perfect, but I am still happy. Although what I have will be lost, the friendship I get will leave, and the feelings I want to pursue are still so far away, I know that I know everything around me and I will cherish it.
1, home, big or small, just warm.
Remember, a woman is a monster if she doesn't cry, and a waste if she always cries.
3. Meet the person you like, do what you want to do, and regard these as the last willfulness in youth.
Tell yourself every day: No matter how hard you are, you should persist, no matter how good you are, you should be indifferent, no matter how bad you are, you should be confident, you should save more, and you should be enthusiastic when it is cold.
5, tired, is often hovering between persistence and giving up, indecisive. The trouble is that you have a good memory. What should be remembered and what should not be remembered will remain in memory.
6. When you go to any stage of your life, you should like that period of time, complete the duties of that stage, let nature take its course, don't indulge in the past, and don't look forward to the future enthusiastically. Life is like this. No matter what kind of struggle and challenge we are experiencing, maybe we have only one choice: be happy despite the pain; And believe in the future.
7. Aesthetics, money and faith are combined into one, which is called the foundation of women. A rootless woman will always live in a dark abyss, and there will never be peace.
8. Go your own way, look at your own scenery, think about your own problems, don't always stare at others, always envy others' brilliance, envy others' brilliance, what is dark is your own heart, what is lost is your own time, and what is worn away is your own personality.
9. Don't squeeze into a world you can't get into. It's hard to humiliate yourself for others. Why bother?
10, don't confess when no one knows what he has done; You can't show off when no one understands your own value; Don't be confused when no one understands your interest. Live high's persistence, live high's simplicity, live high's infatuation and live high's beautiful dream.
1 1. Love is like a street lamp, which can light up the street in the dark and light up our hearts.
12, a person's beauty is not his appearance, but all his past experiences, leaving scars in his heart and gradually fading away, making people strong and quiet. Therefore, elegance is not trained, but an experience. Indifference is not camouflage, but precipitation. In a sense, people will never get old, only appearance will get old, and time will make a soul more and more moving.
13. Do you know the difference between the first love and the last love? The first love is that you think it is the last love, and the last love is that you think it is the first love.
14, it is easy to fall in love with someone, but it is not easy to stick to that promise after it is flat. Love is never pandering. No quarrel, no scolding, is true love. In fact, if you really love someone, you will fall into an uncontrollable whirlpool. He made you cry and let you down. Even so, when he stood there, you would walk over and hold his hand, involuntarily.
15, on the issue of love, there is often no right or wrong, love is just a fate. Fate gathers and ends.
16, a woman must have at least one thing that can stand in front of your man, and such things are better than other women, such as education, habits, personality, personality, heart, hobbies, vision, knowledge, skills or beauty. Otherwise, how can you hold your hand and grow old with your son? This world is not without everlasting love, but without happiness that comes out of thin air.
17, it seems that we will always grow up explosively in a certain year, understand explosively, and know a certain truth explosively, so that the originally meaningless time scale becomes a dividing line.
18, in the journey of life, the worst situation is often not poverty, not bad luck, but a state of ignorance and exhaustion.
19, if possible, please leave me in my childhood, in my youth and in the best time.
Companionship and understanding are more important than love.
2 1, you will be lonely if you think too much; There is nothing to think about, and it will be lonely.
22. Life tells you that you have to grow; Dreams tell you to have a childlike innocence.
23. Pick up what should be picked up and throw it away. Let the end of the end, the beginning.
24. People have two paths to take, one is the one they have to take, and the other is the one they want to take. You must take the beautiful road you want to take before you can take the road you want to take.
25. I wish you become such a woman: don't show off, don't quarrel, and be a knowledgeable woman; Not empty, not impetuous, be a rich woman; Even if life is exhausted, it will grow old in elegance.
A woman's mistake is to marry a man she doesn't love, just as a man's mistake is to marry a woman she doesn't love. Marriage can not be sustained by unilateral love, but by deep love and mutual understanding between two people.
27, the most beautiful you are not born like summer flowers, but in the long river of time, leisurely.
28. Parents will be kind to you, but they will get old; Husband will be good to you, but only at the beginning; Children will be kind to you, but they will grow up; Best friends will be nice to you, but they have their own families. So the only person who can be nice to you from beginning to end is yourself. I am in favor of women's skin care and makeup, eating well and traveling independently. Because only when you are young will you become a quiet and indifferent old lady when you are old.
29. The road ahead is still far. You can cry, but you must persist and never stop.
30. People always ask you, are you seeing someone? Hehe, no. No way! ! ! ! In fact, it is true, not that no one is chasing it, but there is no suitable one; It's not tall, it just doesn't feel. Maybe sometimes I want to fall in love and don't want to be lonely, but that person doesn't and doesn't want to love casually. Because there is a single, there is a single just to wait for someone.
3 1, youth is dandelion, which seems comfortable, but it is actually involuntary.
32, angry, is to punish yourself with the mistakes of others; Worry is torturing yourself with your own mistakes; Regret is destroying yourself with helpless past events; Worry is to scare yourself with virtual risks; Loneliness is to imprison yourself in a self-made prison; Inferiority is to destroy yourself with the strengths of others. Get rid of these, and you will be much more relaxed.
33. Smile and silence are two effective weapons: a smile can solve many problems and silence can avoid many problems.
34. If there is love in the heart, the eyes that look at the world will be pure and the world will be warm; With hatred in your heart, there will be impurities in your eyes to see the world, and the world will become ugly. The mentality has changed, and so has the world. Good or bad life, good or bad life and good or bad environment all depend on your mentality. Face life with a good attitude, and your life will be beautiful.
35. A flower cannot wither and waste the whole spring, and a setback cannot waste a lifetime.
When we want to do something but don't do it, it is often not the thing itself that hinders our action, but our inner psychological obstacles. For example, refusing to take action for fear of failure, or keeping action in the plan forever because of excessive planning. In fact, as long as you act boldly, you will gain something, and even if you fail, you can learn from it. And those long waits, let us harvest in addition to the old.
If you want something, don't just expect it. Life is too short to wait.
38. I didn't know how difficult it was until I walked some roads. Climb some mountains to know the difficulty. I didn't know how to trudge until I crossed some rivers. Only by crossing some hurdles can we know how to go beyond it. You have to go through something to know. I saw some people and learned the experience. You don't know what wealth is until you have read some books. Knowing that happiness takes a lifetime.
Don't leave me, I won't go home by myself. I will remember your kindness to me all my life. What's bad for me will be forgotten the next second. In this way, will you love me forever, just as I love you?
40. Over-sensitive people are always thinking, and the result is that they are trapped in a mess of thoughts and can't move. Sometimes, it is better to care less than to care more.
Editor's Note: Feelings that have no ending will always end; People who can't get it will always forget it. There is no eternal pain in life. No matter how deep the pain, the wound will always heal. Even if you loved deeply in the past, you will become strange when you are separated. The most boring feeling is not to become strange, but to become strange gradually.
Good morning: it is more important to look at yourself than others.
1, white rabbit, look east and west. Clothes are not as good as new ones, and people are not as good as old ones.
2, you should know that a new love is an old love that you hate yourself and love others.
I imagine walking five miles through two seats without any luggage, kissing my lover's cheek and looking at his gentle smile.
4. Life is like this. If you lose it here, you will often get something there. Just like love, you get hurt here, but you get the love of that person.
I am not a person who will cry to keep others, and I am not good at decorating interpersonal relationships with gorgeous words. I will only clumsily bury my thoughts in my hair, let the wind roar and the thunderstorm infiltrate, and watch it spread out until I can't bear it, cut off my mind, and then watch it entangle again in the increasingly barren years.
6. There will always be a period of time. Only after the past, will you find it deeply in your memory. One night many years later, under a lamp, I suddenly found myself smiling quietly. Those people have gone by boat in the river of time and disappeared. In my heart, there is a warm current that has crossed the river of time and will never die.
7. It is more important to see yourself than to read others.
I still dream of my youth. I am still thinking that you will hold my hand through time, through thorns, through my sadness and sorrow, and through Qian Shan. But you didn't come at last. I've been waiting. I'm not afraid of time and years. What I am afraid of is that among the millions of people in Qian Qian in this world, in this moon and moon, I will never touch your fingertips again.
9. I may not have been a good person before. I am proud, selfish and sometimes even arrogant to you. But I am sure that my heart, when it loves you, is beautiful and transparent. It's friendlier than ever.
10 I've always wanted to be with you, watching the idle flowers in spring, the clear sky in summer, the autumn wind blowing through the noisy streets, and the snow in winter kissing everyone's skin. We spent four seasons together. However, when we parted slowly, I finally understood that everything was ashes. I can't walk with you on any road in the world.
1 1, perhaps, when all is silent, you can really hear that sentence: I like you. No matter how the previous noise crawled over our wounds, the rest of the days will be every day I like you.
Love is an absolute luxury. Busy with work, busy with life, busy with courage, busy with escape, busy with pain, busy with no time. The cost of love is high, because "communication" requires great courage, skill and time. Have the honor to be a lover, try to listen and understand his feelings, try to understand what he has done for you behind the phenomenon, and cherish it. After all, liking or being liked is such a luxury.
13, women are born screenwriters. Only when she has suffered injustice and pain in love can she be considered to have paid and loved vigorously. This is the poison of popular love songs, sad novels and movies, but women subconsciously copy the same story, ignoring ugliness and looking for their own wounds.
14, our generation came into this world with disabilities. In different battlefields, we picked up our own pieces, but no one can remember what it was like. So in the debris of others, we look for our own smile; My own fragments reflect other people's tears.
15, at first, I couldn't wait to love others, but after I really got together, I forgot to love carefully. It turns out that it is easy to like someone, but it is difficult to cherish it in the deepest part of your heart.
16, do you kiss many times? I just want to share the rest with you. Is there a frequency of stomachache? If I'm going to make it to the end, Have I missed you many times since I got up in a strange morning? That must be running out. How many times have you left? I'll be happy after that.
17, I have a philosophy of being a man all my life, which can be distilled into two words: disappointing. In the face of ridicule and humiliation around me, I will stick to my beliefs and face the frustration pressure of fate, and I will calmly deal with it. I am convinced that as long as you live up to expectations, a loser will become a giant, and people who look down on you and don't trust you will eventually feel sorry. Albert Yeung
18, I'm not exaggerating or insincere. I think the world is good to me. I've never thought of it that way before. Until I met you in the crowd. When I meet a light, I have no regrets and no fear in my life.
19, year, very strange. I always thought I would grow into a big tree in time, but I turned into a mountain without paying attention. The trees I loved in those years, later, all disappeared.
20, there will be light, there will be faith, who will love you through the crowd, you have to wait.