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Haruki Murakami: You have to be a calm adult.

Haruki Murakami: A famous modern Japanese novelist. The style of his works is deeply influenced by European and American writers. The tone is light and lacks the gloomy and heavy writing atmosphere of post-war Japan. He is called the first pure " "Writer of the post-World War II period" and is known as Japan's literary standard-bearer in the 1980s. His works are widely known around the world.

You have to be a calm adult. Don't be emotional, don't miss me secretly, and don't look back. Live your own other life. You have to be obedient, not all fish will live in the same sea. --"dance! dance! dance! ”

When we were young, we pursued passion, but when we matured, we were obsessed with mediocrity. After we have searched, been hurt, and betrayed, we can still believe in love as always. This is a kind of courage. Everyone has his own forest. Those who are lost are lost, and those who meet will meet again. ——"Norwegian Wood"

Maybe I am defeated, maybe I am lost, maybe I can't reach anywhere, maybe I have lost everything, no matter how hard I struggle, I can only do nothing, maybe I am just struggling in vain. Turning the ruins into ashes, I am the only one left in the dark. Perhaps no one here has placed a bet on me. It doesn't matter, one thing is clear: at least I have something worth waiting for and worth seeking. —"The Journey of Strange Birds"

"I like you the most, Midoriko."

"To what extent?"

"Like a bear who loves spring "

"A bear in spring?" Midoriko raised his face again, "What a bear in spring?"

"You are walking alone in the spring field. A cute little bear came over, with fur like velvet and round eyes. It said to you: "Hello, miss, would you like to roll with me?" Then you hugged the little bear. I spent a whole day rolling down the clover-covered hillside. ”

“That’s great.”

“That’s it for me. I like you." - "Norwegian Wood"

If you fall into the darkness, all you can do is wait quietly until your eyes adapt to the darkness. ——"Norwegian Wood"

Every day is almost the same repetition. Yesterday and the day before yesterday were reversed and there was no inconvenience. I often think, what kind of life is this? But I didn’t feel that my time was wasted. I was just surprised. I was surprised that there was no difference between yesterday and the day before yesterday. I was surprised that I was programmed into such a life. I was surprised that the footprints I left behind were blown away by the wind in an instant before I could even recognize them. Without a trace. ——"Sleep"

I am tired of the life of hating others, the life of being unable to love anyone. I don't have even one friend, not even one. Most importantly, I couldn’t even love myself. Why can't I love myself? It's because you can't love others. One needs to love someone and be loved by someone in order to learn how to love oneself. Do you get me? People who do not love others cannot love themselves correctly. ——"1Q84"

I am the kind of person who likes to be alone, or the kind of person who doesn't suffer from being alone. I don't talk to anyone for an hour or two every day, whether I'm running alone or writing articles, I don't feel bored. Rather than doing things with others, I prefer reading alone in silence or listening to music with all my concentration. I can think of many things that only one person can do. ——"What do I talk about when I talk about running"

After a certain age, the so-called life is nothing more than a process of constant loss. Things that are precious to your life will slip out of your hands one after another, like a comb with broken teeth. What falls into your hands instead are all inferior and inferior products that are not worth mentioning. Physical strength, hope, dreams and ideals, faith and meaning, or the people you love - one by one, one by one, they slip away from you. And once it disappears, you can never find it again, or even find a replacement. This is really tough. Sometimes it's like cutting my body with a knife, which is unspeakably painful. ——"1Q84"

Where there is light, there must be shadows, and where there are shadows, there must be light. There is no light without shadow, and there is no shadow without light.

Carl Jung said this in a book: 'The shadow is an evil being, just as we humans are positive beings. The more we strive to be good, good, and perfect people, the more clearly the shadow manifests its dark, evil, and destructive will. When man tries to become perfect beyond his own capacity, the shadow goes to hell and becomes a devil. Because in this nature, it is as sinful for a person to try to become higher than oneself as it is to try to become lower than oneself. ——"1Q84"

"I hope you remember me." Saeki said, "As long as you remember me, it doesn't matter if everyone else forgets me." ——"Kafka on the Shore" < /p>

Everyone has become adults and each has a different life circle, so this is helpless to a certain extent. We are no longer naive high school students. But even so, it is still sad to see things that were once important fade away and disappear. After all, they are people who have spent the vibrant times together and grown up together. ——"Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Pilgrimage Years"

Mediocrity is like a stain on a white shirt. Once stained, it can never be washed away and is irreversible. --"dance! dance! dance! 》

The mountains and rivers are lonely, the streets are in order, and the residents are peaceful. It's a pity that people have no figure, no memory, and no heart. Men and women can date each other but cannot fall in love. Love must have a heart, and the heart has been embedded in countless unicorn skulls and turned into an ancient dream. ——"The End of the World and Cold Wonderland"

Don't hold hands casually because of loneliness, and then rely on you. It's great to be free. Even if you are wandering, that experience is better than a prison-like life, so I deliberately don't let it I am too dependent on the Internet, and I keep an indifferent attitude towards the people I have lost. Among the thousands of people who pass by me, whoever you give a chance will be destined to you. Even if there is no A, there will be B. ——"Norwegian Forest"

Hearts and hearts can not only be united through harmony, but can blend more deeply through pain. Pain and pain, fragility and fragility connect each other's hearts. In every tranquility, there is always a cry of grief hidden; behind every forgiveness, there is always blood spilled on the ground; in every acceptance, there is always a painful loss. This is what lies deep within true harmony. ——"Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage" Haruki Murakami

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Everyone has his own forest, those who are lost are lost, and those who meet again Will meet again.

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The fish said, you can’t see the tears in my eyes because I am in the water. Water said, I can feel your tears because you are in my heart.

Quotations by Haruki Murakami

In a certain situation, the very existence of a person is to hurt another person.

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The fish said, you can’t see the tears in my eyes because I am in the water. Water said, I can feel your tears because you are in my heart.

Once you die, you will never lose anything. This is the starting point of death. "Dance, Dance, Dance"

Is there anything in the world that cannot be lost? I believe there is, and you better believe it too. "The Lost Marble Toy"

If you can get by without knowing anything about it, that's fine. "The Lost Marble Toy"

If it's art or literature you want to pursue, just read what the Greeks wrote. "Song of the Wind"

The so-called perfect article does not exist, just like perfect despair does not exist. "Song of the Wind"

There was a time in the past when everyone wanted to live calmly. "The Song of the Wind"

Death is not the opposite of life, but is hidden in our life. "Norwegian Wood"

I like these sentences very much, and I also like to look for some beautiful sentences everywhere, thinking they can make me feel better.

If I can't catch him or keep him, I will let him fly. Because he has his own wings and the right to choose his own sky.

I hope you don’t change your name in your next life, so that it will be easier for me to find you. Sometimes loss is not sadness, but a kind of beauty.

When we learn to treat "giving up" with a positive attitude, we will have the huge wealth of "growth".

For people who love each other, the other person’s heart is the best house.

Between great sorrow and great joy, after laughter and tears, I experienced unprecedented pain and happiness.

Life lures me deeper into it with unprecedented happiness and beauty.

He was my first love in my youth.

Every time, when he hurt me, I would use the good memories of the past to forgive him. However, no matter how good the memories are, they will be used up one day. In the end, only the remains of memories will be left. It all turned into torture. Maybe I really never knew him.

I gradually realized that being profound does not mean being close to the truth. ——"Norwegian Wood"

In some circumstances, the very existence of one person will hurt another person. ——"South of the Border and West of the Sun"

The mountains and rivers are lonely, the streets are in order, and the residents are peaceful. It's a pity that people have no figure, no memory, and no heart. Men and women can date each other but cannot fall in love. Love must have a heart, and the heart has been embedded in countless unicorn skulls and turned into an "ancient dream" - "The End of the World and Cold Wonderland"

Death is no longer the opposite of life. Death has already existed in my body. No matter how hard you try, you still can't forget it. ——"Norwegian Forest"

He wanted to tell the other party his gratitude: Our hearts are not stones. Sooner or later, the stone will be shattered into pieces and changed beyond recognition. But the heart will not break. We can communicate with each other about the intangible—good or evil. ——"All the Children of God Dance"

Perfect articles do not exist, just as perfect despair does not exist. ——"Listen to the Song of the Wind"

The candlelight of their memories was too weak, and their words were not as clear as they were fourteen years ago. As a result, he passed by without saying a word and disappeared into the crowd forever and ever. ——"On a sunny morning in April, I met a 100% perfect girl"

I always thought that people grow old slowly, but that is not true. People grow old in an instant. --"dance! dance! dance! 》

As for why I abandoned the original world and had to come to the end of this world, I have no way of remembering it, nor the process, meaning, and purpose. Something, some force—some unreasonably powerful force sent me here! As a result, I lost my figure and memory, and was about to lose my heart. ——"The End of the World and Cold Wonderland"

People and life are essentially lonely and helpless. So we need to interact with people in order to understand each other. But is mutual understanding really possible? No, impossible, fatalistically impossible, the search for understanding is futile. So, why bother trying so hard? Why can't you change your attitude? Since it's all in vain to strive for understanding, then just stop trying. You can live a good life this way! In other words, instead of trying to eliminate loneliness and resolve helplessness through interaction, it is better to step back and play with loneliness and helplessness!

Every time, when he hurt me, I would use the good memories of the past to forgive him. However, no matter how good the memories are, they will be used up one day. In the end, only the remains of memories will be left. It all turned into torture. Maybe I really never knew him.

If I can't catch him or keep him, I will let him fly. Because he has his own wings and the right to choose his own sky.

I hope you don’t change your name in your next life, so that I can find you easier. Sometimes loss is not sadness, but a kind of beauty.

When we learn to treat "giving up" with a positive attitude, we will have the huge wealth of "growth".

For people who love each other, the other person’s heart is the best house.

The fish said, you can't see me crying because I am in the water; the water said, I can feel you crying because you are in my heart.

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He wanted to tell the other party the gratitude in his heart: Our hearts are not stones. Sooner or later, the stone will be shattered into pieces and changed beyond recognition. But the heart will not break. We can communicate with each other about the intangible—good or evil.

— "All the Children of God Dance" Haruki Murakami

The pursuit of gain is the day it ends, and the process of searching is also the process of loss

- "South of the Border and West of the Sun" Haruki Murakami

Nets are everywhere, there is a net outside the net, and there is no way out. If you throw a stone, it will inevitably turn and fall back on your head... Times are like quicksand, and they are constantly flowing, and the place we stand is not the place we stand

— "Dance Dance" Haruki Murakami< /p>

In some cases, the very existence of one person is harmful to another person.

— "South of the Border, West of the Sun" Haruki Murakami

The mountains and rivers are lonely, the streets are orderly, and the residents are peaceful. It's a pity that people have no figure, no memory, and no heart. Men and women can date each other but cannot fall in love. Love must have a heart, and the heart has been embedded in countless unicorn skulls and turned into an "ancient dream"

— "The End of the World and Cold Wonderland" Haruki Murakami

There is potential in the world The redeemable and the irredeemable, and the passage of time is an irreversible thing.

— "South of the Border, West of the Sun" Haruki Murakami

Don't pity yourself, pity yourself is the work of a despicable coward. ——"Norwegian Wood"

Death is not the opposite of life, but remains as a part of life forever. ——"Norwegian Wood"

If you don't give up anything, you can't get anything.

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Everything there is as blurry as clouds and fog. But I can feel that there is something important to me hidden in that scenery, and I know clearly: she is also looking at the same scenery

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When we When I look back at the road I have walked, all I see still seems to be a vague “maybe”. All we can clearly recognize is the present moment, and this only passes us by.

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Even if you let nature take its course, the long river of life will still flow in the direction it should flow, and no matter how hard you try, the people who should be harmed will not be spared. .

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Things that must be lost sooner or later do not have much meaning

The glory of something that must be lost is not the real glory

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It’s just right, I see your happy look, so I am happy with your happiness.

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Although there is such a vast space in the world

And there is room to accommodate you

——Although it is only Need a little

—But nowhere to be found

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Because no one can understand

Because no one Can be tolerated

Because there is no one to comfort...

That's why people feel like they have nowhere to go. That is to say, the body can find a place to settle, but there is no place to go. I can truly accommodate your complete and pure soul! ! !

Haruki Murakami is sharp

When I first started writing, I felt that I could write beautiful things. The writing was full of vitality, the prospect was as it is now, and the plot naturally spewed out, but as the story progressed, that This momentum and light began to lose little by little, and I watched it disappear before my eyes. The water flow became thinner and thinner, and soon it slowed down and stopped like a steam locomotive, and finally disappeared completely. —— Haruki Murakami, "Tokyo Tales"

After the plane engine died, there was silence everywhere except for the faint sound of wind. It was a sunny autumn afternoon, cloudless, and the whole world could be seen at a glance. The thick curves of mountains, pine trees, and dotted white houses stretch out right in front of you. The Aegean Sea shone brightly in the distance. I was floating and hesitating above it.

Everything presents a virtual beauty, quiet and far away from the ends of the earth. It was as if the straps that held everything together had untied for some reason. ——Haruki Murakami, "Murakami Broadcasting"

And now in this numbness, I don't even have the strength to end my life on my own. There is nothing left. Some are just insensitive. I'm not even myself anymore. ——Haruki Murakami, "The Journey of Strange Birds"

Yes, in the past four years, I have been trying my best to get rid of that cold, dark shadow. ——Haruki Murakami "Dance! Dance! Dance!"

The reason why I don't like my face in the photo is because the moment I face the camera, my face becomes hard almost by reflex. "Okay, relax and smile!" But I was so nervous that I pushed my shoulders harder, and my smile became a stiff rehearsal expression. ——Haruki Murakami "Murakami Broadcasting"

I turned. So someone in front of me was turning the next corner. Who couldn't see the figure, only the white skirt flashed. But the white color of this skirt is burned into my eyes and will never leave. —— Haruki Murakami, "The Adventures of Sheep Hunting"

There was a time when everyone tried to live calmly. ——Haruki Murakami, "Listen to the Sing of the Wind"

"Everyone has to die sooner or later. But before death, there are years to live, and you have to think about this and that while living. To put it bluntly, there is nothing better than anything else. It’s much harder to live for a thousand years without wanting to, right?” It’s true. —— Haruki Murakami "Listen to the Sing of the Wind"

History books tell us that we are basically the same in the past as we are today. Although there are differences in clothing and lifestyle, our thoughts and behaviors have not changed much. In the final analysis, humans are nothing more than carriers of genetic factors and their channels. They are like discarding tired horses one after another, replacing us generation after generation. And genetic factors never think about what is good and what is evil. They don't care whether we are happy or unhappy. ——Haruki Murakami's "Q"

Dreams and reality are intertwined. This is a funeral song in memory of the mother. The darkness is deep and endless, just like being trapped in the huge darkness on a new moon night, and the inner struggle is Suffering - "Meeting the 100% Girl" by Haruki Murakami

It seems to be floating in mid-air. Moreover, the outlines of the stones on the seabed are very clear, and it seems that you can pick them up with just one hand. ——Haruki Murakami "Attack on the Bakery Again"

There is absolutely nothing here. There are no pre-visits from the dentist, no problems waiting to be solved in the drawer, no irredeemably complicated relationships, no good intentions forced by a sense of trust. —— Haruki Murakami, "Sheep Hunting Adventures"

Poor hotel! As pitiful as a three-legged black dog soaked by the cold rain of the moon - Haruki Murakami, "Dance! Dance!" Dance!》

Whenever I want to do something, I can't always find the difference between the possible consequences of this behavior and the possible consequences of avoiding this behavior. I often feel that things around me are losing their inherent balance. This may be my illusion - Haruki Murakami "Attack on the Bakery Again"

It may be strange to say this - I don't think that now is now. , I always feel like I am not me, this place seems not to be here. This happens all the time. It took a long, long time before this finally came together. ——Haruki Murakami, "Sheep Hunting Adventures"

No one likes to be alone, just don't force yourself to make friends, because even if you do, you will only be disappointed. ——Haruki Murakami "Norwegian Wood"

Even if the memory can be hidden, history cannot be changed. ——Haruki Murakami "The Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage"

A life without concentration is like having your eyes wide open but seeing nothing. —— Haruki Murakami, "Sleep"

It was a clear and sunny afternoon in early autumn - exactly the same as when I went to Kyoto to visit Naoko exactly a year ago. The clouds are like dry bones, thin and white, and the sky is sparse, seemingly without any obstruction. It’s autumn again, I thought. The breath of wind, the color of light, the small flowers dotted in the grass, and the echo left by a syllable all tell me the arrival of autumn. As the seasons change, the distance between me and the deceased gradually widens. Kizuki is still seventeen, and Naoko is still twenty-one, forever.

——Haruki Murakami, "Norwegian Wood"

As a person, no matter what I say, I must put it into words, otherwise I won't be able to get to the bottom of it. ——Haruki Murakami "Norwegian Wood"

Defining goals can make life simpler. ——Haruki Murakami, "The Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage"

Why do people have to be so lonely? I thought, why do they have to be so lonely? In this world All living beings are looking for something from others, yet we are so isolated and helpless. Why is this? Could it be that this planet relies on people's loneliness as nourishment to maintain its operation? ——Haruki Murakami, "Sput" Nick Lovers"

When we look back at the path we have taken, what we see still seems to be only a vague 'maybe'. All we can clearly recognize is the present moment, and this only passes us by. ——Haruki Murakami

Perhaps my pericardium has a hard shell, and the things that can break through the shell are extremely limited. That’s why I can’t be passionately in love with people - "Norwegian Wood" by Haruki Murakami

"The mountains and rivers are lonely, the streets are orderly, and the residents live in peace and harmony. It's a pity that people have no figure, no memory, and no heart. Men and women can be in love but You cannot love each other. Love must have a heart, and the heart has been embedded in countless unicorn skulls and turned into ancient dreams. ——Haruki Murakami, "The End of the World and Cold Wonderland"

There must be an order to everything. It's too early to look at it. If you look too far ahead, you will inevitably neglect your feet, and people will often fall. But on the other hand, just looking at the feet is not enough. If you don't look ahead, you might bump into something. Therefore, we should deal with the current things step by step while looking forward to a certain extent. This is crucial, no matter what you do. ——Haruki Murakami, "Kafka on the Shore"

What does it mean for a person to be free? Is it just a clever escape from a cage, but actually just being in another, bigger cage? ?In fact, we are just caged birds. No matter how we fly, we can never fly out of the society and environment we are enveloped in. ? Freedom is just an illusionary rhetoric, and we will never find it in the end. And without society, we have no freedom. ——Haruki Murakami "Q"

If you can't understand something without explanation, it means you can't understand it no matter how you explain it. ——Haruki Murakami "Q"

I hope you don't change your name in your next life, so that I can find you easier. ——Haruki Murakami

It’s time to be a calm adult. Don't be emotional, don't miss me secretly, and don't look back. I always thought that people grow old slowly, but this is not true. People grow old in an instant. —— Haruki Murakami

In short, the years are long, but it is worth the wait —— Haruki Murakami "If Our Language is Whiskey"

And I can only stand in that unknown place , kept calling A Lu’s name. ——Haruki Murakami "Norwegian Wood"

When you are young, you will still enjoy life even if you are penniless and penniless. When there were no trains, she, I, and the cat would lie on the railroad tracks, as quietly as if we were sitting at the bottom of a lake. We were young, newly married, and the sunshine was free. ——Haruki Murakami "Meeting the 100% Girl"

The so-called effort is an active and purposeful activity. ——Haruki Murakami

If I can’t catch him or keep him, I will let him fly. Because he has his own wings and the right to choose his own sky - Haruki Murakami

Good and evil are not static things, but constantly changing places and positions... Balance itself is good. ——Haruki Murakami "Q"

I hope you can remember me and remember that I once existed like this. ——Haruki Murakami "Norwegian Wood"

Everyone has his own forest in his heart. Those who are lost are lost, and those who meet will meet again. ——Haruki Murakami, "Norwegian Wood"

The beautiful fantasies held by people who have lost their minds are completely illusory in the real world. ——Haruki Murakami "What do I talk about when I talk about running"

I am an empty shell. "It's really an empty shell, completely empty."

” - Haruki Murakami (Flashpoint Love Talk Network) "All the Children of God Dance"

I just want to build a comfortable room where I can feel relieved - to save myself. At the same time, I thought that I hope it can also become a comfortable place for others to live in. Haruki Murakami's "Listen to the Singing of the Wind"

I gradually realized that being profound does not mean being close to the truth. ——Haruki Murakami, "Norwegian Wood"

When we are young, we pursue passion, but when we mature, we are obsessed with mediocrity. After we are looking for, hurt, and betrayed, we can still believe in love as always. This is a kind of love. Courage. Everyone has his own forest. Those who are lost are lost, and those who meet will meet again. —— Haruki Murakami, "Norwegian Forest"

"I love you most, Midoriko." . "To what extent?" "Like a bear who loves spring." "A bear in spring?" Midoriko raised her face again, "What bear in spring?" "In the spring wilderness, you are walking alone, and a cute little bear walks across from you. The fur on its body is like velvet, and its eyes are like velvet. Round and round. It said to you: "Hello, miss, would you like to roll with me?" Then you hugged the little bear and rolled down the hillside covered with clover, playing for a whole day. . Would you say it's great?" "Awesome. "I just like you so much." ——Haruki Murakami

I am no longer a teenager, and I already feel the responsibility on my shoulders. Hey, Kizuki, I am no longer the same person I was when I was with you. Already twenty years old! I must pay the price of responsiveness for my continued survival! ——Haruki Murakami, "Norwegian Wood"

Hearts and hearts are not only united through harmony, but also through harmony. Pain and pain, fragility and fragility connect each other's hearts. There is always a cry of grief hidden in every moment of forgiveness; behind every moment of forgiveness, there is always blood spilled on the ground. Acceptance will always lead to painful loss. This is what exists in the depths of true harmony - Haruki Murakami's "Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage"

Don't sympathize. To pity oneself is the work of a despicable coward. —— Haruki Murakami, "Norwegian Wood"

Where there is hope, there will be trials. —— Haruki Murakami, "Q"

< p> "What you can't forget will never be forgotten, and there's no use keeping what you can forget! - Haruki Murakami, "Norwegian Wood""

There is no such thing as a perfect article, just as there is no such thing as a complete article. Despair. - "Listen to the Sing of the Wind" by Haruki Murakami

When it's time to go up, aim for the tallest tower and go to the top; when it's time to go down, find the deepest well and go down to the bottom - Murakami. "The Journey of Strange Birds" by Haruki

The so-called jealousy is the most despairing prison in the world, because it is a prison where prisoners imprison themselves. They are not imprisoned by others through violence, but walk in by themselves. He locked the prison door and threw the key outside the iron bars with his own hands. And no one in the world knew that he was imprisoned there. Of course, he could get out as long as he made up his mind to get out, because the prison was in his heart. But he couldn't make up his mind. His heart became as hard as a stone wall. That is the nature of jealousy - Haruki Murakami's "Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Pilgrimage Years"

Life is Born. You are destined to lose everything, disappear, completely disappear into nothingness, come in through the entrance, and go out through the exit. If this process is long, who doesn't want to spend it warmly? —— Haruki Murakami's "Dance Dance" Murakami. Haruki's Quotations

1. Life is like this: you can stick to things you like, but you can't last long if you don't like them. "Marathon of Life"

2. Just be confident! Be fearless. Pleasant memories, memories of loved ones, scenes of crying, childhood, future plans, beloved music - anything is okay, as long as it keeps flowing through your mind, there is nothing to fear. . "The End of the World and Cold Wonderland" 3. Be a calm adult. Don't be emotional, don't miss it secretly, and don't look back. I always thought that people change slowly. Old, actually not, people grow old in an instant.

4. Because no matter how hard we try, we can’t get anywhere, so at this point, we have to wake up to each other. "1Q84"

5. Lack of imagination, narrow, harsh, self-righteous propositions, empty terminology, usurped ideals, rigid ideological systems - for me, these are the things that are truly terrifying . "Kafka on the Shore"

6. Under certain circumstances, the very existence of one person will hurt another person. "South of the Border and West of the Sun"

7. Never lose the one you love because of cowardice and boring self-esteem. "The Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage"

8. The mountains and rivers are lonely, the streets are orderly, and the residents live in peace. It's a pity that people have no figure, no memory, and no heart. Men and women can date each other but cannot fall in love. Love must have a heart, and the heart has been embedded in countless unicorn skulls and turned into an ancient dream. "The End of the World and Grim Wonderland"

9. I hope you can remember me and remember that I once existed like this. ——Haruki Murakami "Norwegian Wood"