Speaking of the morning in my heart, I should have planted the seeds at the beginning of the year, or earlier.

Alina Zhang said: "Real life begins from the moment you want to work hard."

Although this day came a little late, I am glad to have such a day.

The older you get, the more you regret countless wasted youth, and the more you feel that even the best enterprise is not an iron rice bowl for life.

In this rapidly changing era, lifelong growth is an unchanging theme.

If I used to listen to my parents and go with the flow, now I want to live my life according to my own wishes.

So I asked myself, what do I really want? How can I make myself feel valuable and full of joy?

Return to the most natural state, close to the true self. I set three growth keywords for 2022: "reading, writing and sharing".

I have been sprinting in stages these months, and I have slowed down. In the process of moving forward and looking back, I stick to my original intention, build my third space with books and words, and become my spiritual habitat eight hours away.

In the process of text collision again and again, I feel the power that writing brings me more and more. It not only brought me many changes in my thoughts, attitudes and actions. It also made my once unchangeable life suddenly add a color, making me live more and more real and blooming.

Socrates said, "An unexamined life is not worth living." The road we have walked and the pit we have stepped on are repeated day after day without looking back.

Once experienced, pain can only rise to wisdom through reflection and become a sword in our hands.

In the past six months, I visited a circle of friends, wrote daily and monthly replies, and summed up 50 experiences. Although it is not a great achievement, it has witnessed my efforts and persistence in the past six months.

This is undoubtedly a small breakthrough for me who has been lying flat for many years.

1. I read 33 books and made reading notes for 13 books.

2. Read the theme of the evernote system.

3. Establish a "reading and growing" reading action camp to lead everyone to read Dr. Yoshida's Harvard Research.

4. Join the book dismantling gang and pass the national joint training.

5. In the first half of the year, * * * produced 230,000 words and finished writing 40 articles.

6. Output a set of 4-lesson MVP courses.

7. Public sharing 10 times.

8. Three drafts of two official WeChat account platforms.

9. Insist on writing weekly and monthly replies (three months)

10. The official account of WeChat was updated in early February (after the Chinese New Year), with fans ranging from 0 to 250+.

1 1. Re-operate the headline number, 1 month with a 500+ increase.

65438+starts the day shift in February and June, and outputs 1000+ every day.

13. Finish an article every day for 6 consecutive days and output about 3000 words every day.

14. Learned to write phonetically, output and share content, and repeat it every day.

15. Write many articles and micro headlines displayed by 10+, with a maximum of 690,000.

16. Zero-based training camp got 4 excellent assignments, 1 was the best.

17. Join the excellent author group of Teacher Tina.

18. 10 The article was praised by friends.

19. Join Teacher Tina's 2 1 day explosive writing community to master the underlying logic of hot topics.

20. Participate in the national joint training of the Open Book Gang and start the journey of upgrading the Open Book Family.

2 1. Become a writing partner of Hongdan and take a self-confidence class.

22. Attend 44 sessions of zero-based training and demand yourself with result thinking.

23. As an outstanding student of Yang Yang Intellectual Property Community, I shared it twice.

24. I was invited to share it twice in the developing community.

25. Teacher Hong Dan's knowledge realization group sharing 1 time.

26. Operate multiple platform accounts at the same time.

27. Being a paid community for the first time, I will always publicize, plan and operate myself.

28. Review the advanced soft test. Finally, due to the cancellation of epidemic detection, the war will be fought again in the second half of the year.

29. Talk to Sister Zall one-on-one about the direction of writing.

30. Have a one-on-one interview with Mr. Hong Dan, who passed the interview and officially became a partner.

In the activity of 3 1.6 18, I joined a teacher, Hong Dan, and broke through the live broadcast.

32. Two live lectures on "Meeting Unknown Oneself" and "How to Build a Writing Material Library with Impression Notes"

33. Participate in the design and operation of Zero Foundation Camp, and learn poster making skills.

34. Tencent Conference shared the typesetting knowledge of WeChat official account.

35. The community watched The Bottom Logic and shared their feelings twice.

36. Linking multiple small partners with the same frequency, the number of WeChat trumpet has increased from 20 friends to nearly 500.

37. Get up early 120 days, and use the official account of WeChat with its own punching program.

38. Resume before going to bed 143 days+,transfer from my diary to Moji APP.

39. The handwritten account number is 180 days. As a tool of self-management, it is gorgeous and connotative.

40. Take a walk or other exercise for half an hour every day.

4 1. Use 1000 to start the day shift, and stick to it for 30 days+

42. Make 28 golden sentence cards.

43. Take a family photo with my husband and two children.

44. Reorganize your desk, be simple, simple and more focused.

45. Bring two children without a husband.

46. Take my dad to Jinan to help me with my children.

47. In early June, Linlin began a 34-day visual rehabilitation.

48. Accompany Gege to do ancient poetry and Chinese character enlightenment every day.

49. Go outdoors every weekend and go out for a walk and play with your children every night.

50. Receive friends to play at home twice and go out twice.

Self-discipline not only brought me gains in reading and writing, but also made me more active in my work, focused on my work and reduced procrastination. In addition, I persisted in studying and set an example for my children. Without my intervention, the boss won the first place in the class in the final exam.

Generally speaking, I am very satisfied with the status quo and have basically achieved a balance in eight major areas.

Laozi said, "The knower doesn't know, and the knower doesn't know."

The essence of learning and growth is never the accumulation of knowledge, but the change of thinking. Your cognitive level determines what choices you will make and what actions you will take.

The reason why I made a breakthrough in the first half of the year and lived a different self depends on my cognitive changes.

In the past, I only cared about diligence and persistence, never thought about what kind of person I wanted to be, and lacked planning and direction. I want to learn when I see a good course, I want to chase when I see the wind, and I dig wells everywhere with limited time and energy, but I don't dig deep into the end.

Until I saw a sentence: "The purpose of our study is not to be a better self, but to know ourselves first."

All success is due to advantages. If doing something is just suffering and painful feedback, it is difficult to achieve anything.

You have to see yourself clearly, know yourself and believe in yourself first, then you will have brave actions and eventually become your unique self.

Just like the famous saying in "Meeting the Unknown Self", "There is no one but you." How to make yourself happy, learn to introspect. Think about what kind of person you want to be, what advantages you have and where you will eventually go.

Think about it, it takes courage to make a change.

Because we are bound by old habits for a long time, it is difficult to escape from the original "gravity", but if we don't have the courage to take the first step, all possible doors will be closed. As Yu said in his speech, "Only by overcoming fear and other people's eyes can you grow".

The first step of growth is self-knowledge, and the second step is to have the courage to change.

"People without me and people without me are natural ecology." We should correctly understand and treat the advantages and disadvantages of others.

I used to see people who were better than me, but I just waited silently, didn't dare to make any noise, and didn't take any action. In the end, I went away.

After joining Hongdan as a partner, my mentality has changed a lot. Teacher Hong Dan told us that the more you follow others, the higher your chances of success.

Because while praising and encouraging others, you will also emit the same energy, and good things attract each other.

If you still like diving as before, you must change this cognition.

First of all, we should not only see the Excellence of others, but also enjoy the joy and feel the flow of energy.

Secondly, we should see the diversity of the world. If others are excellent, I can be excellent. The resources of the universe are infinite. As long as you work hard, you will be rewarded.

Third, affirm others and accept your temporarily imperfect self. Only by sincerely blessing others, seeing others' Excellence, and accepting their own imperfections, will we calm down and try to catch up.

Seeing and being seen are both abilities. If you want to make faster progress, you must start by accepting yourself and affirming others.

Emerson said, "Compared with what we have inside, everything outside is so insignificant."

Everyone is born enough. Usually, the ability we show is just the tip of the iceberg, and the untapped potential accounts for 80%-90%. Each of us is a huge treasure with unlimited potential.

As long as you spend enough time to know yourself, explore yourself and give yourself some time and patience, you can stimulate more and more potential.

In the past six months, I have tried paid community, live broadcast and contribution, which are all areas I have never set foot in before. The first time I tried, I got a lot of positive feedback and let me see my greater potential.

I used to hope that others could drive me. I was eager to get strength from teachers or other excellent people. But now I can be my own sun, develop my heart and rebuild my confidence.

It's not that you don't need to learn from others, but that you should turn the energy gained from others into your own light and light up the road under your feet.

You will see what you believe.

Enter the game and move on. In repeated actions, more and more self-confidence will be accumulated. At the same time, the establishment of self-confidence will also help us achieve more achievements. Driven by a virtuous circle, my growth flywheel will turn slowly.

The harder you work, the luckier you are, the more you believe and the more you have.

Huashan said: "success is nothing more than diligence, but diligence cannot be anxious." When you are in a hurry, you become blind. You can't think calmly, but cover up your laziness with busyness. "

Success is nothing more than persistence day after day, but persistence day after day may not bring success. The difference between the two lies in whether they can have the spirit of "stability".

When growing up, we are all prone to anxiety. Seeing that others are doing well, we quickly catch up, often changing soil, unable to take root deeply and flourish. Or grow crazy for a certain period of time, and soon return to the original life.

This is not what success should look like.

Huashan said: "Success is not that complicated. On the contrary, it is a very simple thing. Towards a goal, the water droplets will be worn away. "

Just like teacher Hong Dan published three books in the early morning, it took nine years to make himself the head IP in the field of writing, which can not be done by temporary efforts, but by daily persistence and compound interest accumulation.

As the saying goes, impatience can't eat hot tofu, and persistence and persistence day after day is the embodiment of growing thinking.

There is a saying in University: "Zhi Zhi will decide later, then he can be quiet, then he can be quiet, then he can be safe, then he can think, and then he can get it." Let's not just go straight ahead, but also calm down and think hard.

Return your attention from the outside to the inside, talk to yourself, arrange time alone with yourself every day, or take a walk or write a notebook. Learn to get along with yourself calmly, and your heart will become more peaceful.

Although my output decreased in the next two months, my thinking did not stop. It is these two months that I want to understand many problems and save more energy for myself.

I paid more attention to physical care because I had been interrupted by excessive force for two years before.

I also know better that true self-discipline is not trying to do one's best, but self-control. Not a period of barbaric growth, but a long-term routine, so that your growth is moderate, calm and sustainable.

While working hard, don't forget to rest, and be a person with strong body and elegant soul.

It can be said that the first half of the year made a good start for my 2022. Compared with the original lying flat, I have the initial mobility.

At the beginning of June, I joined Hongdan as a partner and got to know a group of people who are dozens of times and hundreds of times better than me. Here I found my new mission: to be my own CEO and live like I like; Be a role model for children and realize the growth of two generations; Affect more mothers to fall in love with reading and writing and witness the life force brought by writing.

In the second half of the year, I will focus on writing first and achieve the goal of the last draft 10 as soon as possible.

Next, I will write a note system column, and the system will output knowledge.

Daily habits, keep getting up early, resume daily work and watch the day shift.

The splendor of life lies not in clinging to past achievements, but in the next struggle and vigorous hope for the future. I hope we can all move towards our ideal self, and live up to the times and ourselves in our persistence day after day.