Young Miao is going to attend a wedding, which is her ex-boyfriend's wedding.
She and Hou Xu have been in love for two years, and there are few disputes. Such a perfect love model should have a happy ending, but at that time, the young crops had no plans to get married.
Hou Xu proposes to Miao Qing once every six months. Miao Qing always climbs to Hou Xu's neck and says, "When I'm 29, we'll get married. Now let's enjoy the feeling of being in love for a few more years. "
When I fell in love with Hou Xu, Qingmiao was 23 years old and Hou Xu was 3 1 year old. At that time, the little plants felt that they still had a lot of youth to consume. She is beautiful, young and selfish. She always thinks about her feelings first, and never thinks about Hou Xu. He has passed the romantic age, and all she wants is the stability and warmth of a home.
Two years later, 33-year-old Hou Xu's proposal was rejected again. He sighed, "Xin Wei, let's break up."
The proud young generation never thought that Hou Xu would be divided. She hasn't learned how to lower herself to retain a man, and she can't understand. Is Hou Xu, who has lived together, different from marriage? It has always been a woman who wants an innate right. Why do men have such childish ideas? Young crops don't know what to do. All she could think of was straightening up and turning away.
A year later, Hou Xu, who is in love again, is getting married. I really called Miao Miao and invited her to the wedding. Young crops feel ridiculous. Is Hou Xu demonstrating and showing off?
Young crops decided not to flinch and went to the mall to pick out some expensive and beautiful clothes. She regarded Hou Xu's wedding as a battlefield, and she had to win it to save face.
Marriage is not finding the person you love the most, but finding the most suitable person.
Hou Xu is still the same. Even though he is wearing a suit, he is not like Prince Charming. When the young crops saw Hou Xu, they had the idea of running away. She thought it ridiculous for her to come to such an occasion.
Hou Xu was very busy this day, but he still found seedlings in the crowd. He pushed his way through the crowd and greeted the young crops. Then ask Miao Miao if she has a boyfriend now? Young crops shook his head, Hou Xu expression disappointed. He said to the young crops: "If you have a good man, you must grasp it, don't be willful, and think more about each other."
In the noisy crowd, young crops looked at Hou Xu's open mouth and suddenly felt unreal. The ex-boyfriend who is about to get married has learned from a painful experience and advised himself to get married quickly. Isn't this kind of thing only possible in movies? But Hou Xu looks sincere. Young crops know him, and he is really worried about her.
There are two explanations for Hou Xu's concern. One is that he has not put down the young crops, and the other is that he has completely put down the young crops.
Judging from the situation of the wedding, Hou Xu's situation belongs to the latter, and he has completely put down the young crops. I found happiness myself, touched my conscience, and felt that I should see that young crops are also happy, so I risked my life to remonstrate.
Hou Xu has always been such a person, happy to see world peace and kind-hearted.
However, his kindness stung Miao's heart. The man who ruined the young crops wholeheartedly for two years now marries another woman and looks satisfied. The bride around Hou Xu, even if she wears makeup, can't hide her mediocre beauty, but the bride has a smiling eyebrow and a serene and gentle face. Standing with Hou Xu, she has a sense of harmony.
The young crops were frustrated. It is often said that marriage is not about finding the person you love the most, but finding the person who suits you best. Hou Xu finally found the right person for him. From then on, it was probably a warm life accompanied by fireworks. After many years, will he feel nostalgic or absurd when he thinks of young crops that want freedom and romance?
I can't get rid of the shadow of my ex-boyfriend
Young crops have a long window. After two years of marriage, Hou Xu is still single. A 27-year-old woman is not so confident when she is single. Young crops have designed one new house after another. She watched those loving men and women go to check the progress of the decoration together. There should be bookshelves here and cribs there. As boring as honey, young crops can't help feeling a little disappointed and lonely. She missed Hou Xu a little, and she was kind to her heart and soul during those years. Looking back now, the reason why there has never been a dispute between them is not because of their deep feelings, but because Hou Xu has always let her go, tolerating her willfulness, her bossiness and her free and romantic heart.
Two years later, the regret and pain of losing Hou Xu still firmly surround the young crops.
In order to get rid of this frustration, young crops began to date each other.
On the second blind date, she met the silent man Fu Sheng.
Fu Sheng is the kind of person who can't find fault with his appearance, figure and occupation. His only shortcoming is that he is not very talkative. With the young crops, Fu Sheng won't take the initiative to say anything unless the young crops bring up the topic. He is like a mute.
But many experienced people interpret this plain character as practical and reliable. They told young crops that if men are good at sweet talk, 80% are playboys. Young crops certainly can't agree with this groundless inference. Hou Xu used to say some sweet words to make young crops happy, but Hou Xu ignored them.
At the thought of Hou Xu, Xiao Crops was frightened by herself, because she found that she always unconsciously compared Hou Xu and Fu Sheng, and the more she compared them, the colder she became. Apart from good skin, Fu Sheng can't compare with Hou Xu. Hou Xu's humor, his earnest efforts, and his mouth-watering cooking skills, all of which were not so good to the young plants at that time, became very good after losing them, quietly mocking her and torturing her.
Young crops have also become silent. She put more energy into her work and maintained diplomatic relations with Fu Sheng. She was polite when we met, and she was polite when we parted. They have seen two films. In the whole process, Fu Sheng couldn't take his eyes off them. He was completely immersed in the rhythm of the movie and seemed to forget that there was a young crop around him.
Young crops soon can't accept such a blessed life, and she can't imagine living a lifetime with a man who treats himself as transparent.
Three months later, Miao Qing and Fu Sheng broke up.
4. A woman's enemy is a woman
At one time, Miao Qing thought that all kinds of men would wait in line as long as she wanted, but in fact, it was difficult for her to meet the right man in her life. After Fu Sheng, she hardly met a man worthy of communication, but a man in his forties helped him design a shop. He said that he admired the talents of these young people and hoped to further develop with them. He said he could give young crops pocket money every month, which was almost a naked deal.
Young crops are noncommittal and perfunctory, and when the project is over and the balance is paid off, they escape faster than rabbits.
Young crops can always meet all kinds of men at work, but they are all men of others.
Luo Jian is one of the others. Young Miao is responsible for designing his wedding room. Luo Jian is a polite person. He showed Xiaomiao the house, and after expressing his requirements roughly, he handed over the design right of the wedding room to Xiaomiao completely.
"Don't worry, we don't have time to supervise the work often. You can design your own wedding room." Luo Jian said this to the young crops.
Luo Jian gave these seedlings complete trust, and so did he. He has hardly been here since the renovation of the new house. Miao Miao is the first time to meet such a customer, and she is not suspicious and makes Miao Miao feel very comfortable. In return for Luo Jian's trust, Young Miao really designed this house as her own wedding room. Tiles, floors and wallpaper are all selected according to the taste of young crops, and the overall effect is very good after completion.
On one occasion, Luo Jian visited the house and praised the design of the seedlings. Young Miao expressed her gratitude. This is the best job she has ever had, and she has hardly been questioned or reworked.
But just as Luo Jian was about to make the final payment, Luo Jian, his wife-to-be, who had never met before, suddenly wanted to see the house on a whim. When she saw that the designer of the wedding room was actually a beautiful woman, she flew into a rage and criticized the whole completed wedding room for nothing.
The young crops couldn't hold their breath, so they quarreled with the woman, and the two women quarreled. Luo Jian stopped them. Although he knew that it was his girlfriend who was unreasonable, he stood on his girlfriend's side and said to Miao Miao, "Just change it according to her idea, and I will bear the loss."
Young crops only feel that their brains are blank and they are going to faint. It is more troublesome to change the plan after renovation than to install it at first. She can't imagine how a man can indulge his woman so unreasonably.
But that's how it happened. The woman looked at the young crops haughtily.
5. Reunion of old lovers
Two days later, Luo Jian contacted Miao Qing. He said he couldn't change his plan, but Miao Qing had to apologize to his girlfriend to make him happy. He not only signed for the house inspection, but also gave her the final payment at one time.
Young crops wanted to slam the phone, but after thinking about balance, they finally put up with it.
Young crops contacted Luo Jian's girlfriend, accompanied by a smiling face, coaxed caution, made a review of her disorderly behavior that day, said sorry for 10,000 times, and finally got the woman's triumphant "hum".
Luo Jian kept his promise. A week later, he finally signed the contract and paid the remaining money to the young crops one by one.
"You are really obedient and considerate to your girlfriend." Then, Miao Miao said with some regret.
"Women love to make small temper. If you love her, you have to accept all her personality, good or bad. " Luo Jian explained this.
Young crops were moved by Luo Jian's words, and then thought of Hou Xu. Is it because he is selfish or Hou Xu is not tolerant enough? Such a question is meaningless, and the past cannot be traced. What young crops can do is to drown their sorrows by drinking when they are depressed.
The food stall on Jacky Street is a good place to go at night. Young crops ordered half a dozen beers by themselves, served with a plate of crayfish and mutton kebabs, and prepared to get drunk alone.
Seeing Hou Xu was an accident. The man is a little fat, depressed and drinking alone. Young crops have some accidents. In her imagination, Hou Xu should have children now and enjoy the warmth of her family happily every day.
When two frustrated people are knocked down together, they are bound to talk a lot.
Hou Xu got divorced. Hearing the news, the young crops were very surprised. (Novel title: "How much love can be repeated", written by Tang En. From: read some stories every day and watch more exciting content)