Dou Wei and Faye Wong, there are so many celebrity couples in China, but they are the ones that gossip people find “unforgettable” the most. Although their marriage only lasted three years, it has been 20 years since their divorce in 1999.

On March 20, it was revealed online that Dou Wei had been married three times and married a female fan who admired him. The other party’s name is Chen Ran, born in the 1980s. As early as three years ago, she was given to Dou Wei to give birth to a daughter. Although it is not new for Chinese rock stars to marry admirers who are more than ten or twenty years younger than themselves, such as Zheng Jun and Wang Feng, Dou Wei's three marriage experiences are comparable to Zhang Wuji in the rock circle.

△In 2009, Dou Wei hired Chen Ran. Let’s first take a look at what this breaking news started with “I have a friend”: In 2006, Dou Wei went to the door of the Beijing News, burned his car and entered the police station. Chen Ran pulled a banner at the door of the police station to support Dou Wei. , so "they fell in love at first sight."

At that time, Dou Wei was at a low point in his life and wanted to go to the newspaper to find a theory, but the newspaper ignored him. I tried to burn Zhuo Wei's car, but I burned someone else's by mistake. The Hong Kong media's description of Dou Wei at that time was quite vivid, "Calm down and wait for the police to come." But the "love at first sight" mentioned in this report seems to be questionable, because judging from the previous lovers and ex-wives of Dou Wei and Chen Ran, it does not seem to belong to Dou Wei.

Jiang Xin, Faye Wong, Gao Yuan, one ex-girlfriend, two ex-wives, all have the same appearance, temperament, and figure: tall and slender, comely and energetic, and the personality is also the most popular among the six gentlemen, Xu Qing." Big salsa”. Dou Wei burned his car in 2006, and Chen Ran's appearance was photographed by the media as early as 2009. At that time, they went shopping in a cheap clothing store together, no different from ordinary couples.

Another time, Chen Ran sat with Dou Wei. It is almost unimaginable that this middle-aged man who has gained a little weight while riding a bicycle is actually a rock star reported by Hong Kong media at the end of the last century.

Chen Ran also appeared with Dou Weiyi in the 2009 documentary "Goodbye Utopia". In this documentary, 20 years have passed since the golden age of Chinese rock music, Dou Wei. In 2016, some media reported that Dou Wei had another woman that year.

Gao Yuan also confirmed that year: "He remarried." It is said that Dou Wei Laofen knew that Dou Wei had settled down for a long time, but how did Chen Ran win the "Dou Xian'er" in the hearts of fans? There is another version of this story.

In this version, Chen Ran did not "fall in love at first sight" to impress Dou Wei, but instead evolved from a stalking fan to a snail girl. In the end, the snail girl successfully married a scholar with her perseverance and good cooking skills.

No matter which version of the story is closer to the truth, because Dou Wei will probably never be told about it in his lifetime. But if the story of the snail girl is more convincing, in a sense, Dou Wei has brought the story written by Mr. Jin Yong to life, which can be called the rock version of "Zhang Wuji". The first marriage (1996-1999) was to Faye Wong (who liked Zhao Min), a talented, beautiful, individual and wealthy music queen. The two were a perfect match. △ Dou Wei and Faye Wong.

The second marriage (2002-2004), to a maverick and thoughtful soul mate, an independent photographer Gao Yuan (like Zhou Zhiruo), in his lonely and cold first time. A marriage gave him enough tenderness and comfort.

△From Gao Yuan’s eyes, it was true love at that time. The third marriage (now), according to legend, he finally married Xiaozhao-style Chen Ran and served him personally without any complaints or regrets, even though he was no longer a male god 30 years ago and was over half-year-old. Hundred, half bald. But under the aura of the male god, the eldest Zhang Wuji always wears a filter in Xiao Zhao's eyes.

If you review the reports on Dou Wei's two divorces, you will find that Dou Wei's views on mate selection in "Everything Is Well" are no different from Su Daqiang's love for the nanny.

When Su Daqiang wrote poetry, everyone thought it was nonsense. Only the little nanny took pity on him and read his four limericks, which were long and heavy, just like Li Bai. Being appreciated, understood, respected, and treated as equals hit the softest part of Su Daqiang's selfish and cowardly heart for 60 years. Dou Wei, married Faye Wong in 1996.

Although Feng Zi is married, it is rumored that Dou Wei and Faye Wong got cold feet when they proposed, and were let go by the staff of Faye Wong's studio. But after Dou Jingtong was born, the couple wrote "Child" together, which really made onlookers feel that this relationship could be compared with Jin Jian.

I still remember the concert where she sang and he played the drums. They are considered the first pair of immortal lovers in the history of music. But in 1999, Dou Wei and Gao Yuan held a press conference to announce that he had an extramarital affair and wanted to divorce Faye Wong. He said, "She has always been on top, and I hope to fight for equality." He complained that Faye Wong "always plays cards, always sings karaoke, always We can't live if we can't find someone.

When you love someone, you always want to talk to her day and night. Dou Wei complained that it sounded like you were interested in Faye Wong. But in fact, he returned to Beijing in 1999. Later, Gao Yuan revealed to reporters that she and Dou Wei had been dating for more than five years, which meant that Faye Wong had always been a "threesome" in her marriage.

When Dou Wei announced that she wanted to divorce Faye Wong, she told Faye Wong. Reporter "Marrying Faye Wong is a conspiracy", he said this again after the divorce plateau.

If the marriage of Faye Wong and Dou Wei is evenly matched, then the strong and twisted melon will not be sweet after all. Then, the marriage between Gao Yuan and Dou Wei is a piece of cake that SOULMATE cannot compete with in real life.

In fact, plateaus appeared very early. In 1994, Gao Yuan and Dou Wei met through filming the album cover of "Dark Dream". Later she said that she fell in love with Dou Wei at that time. But Dou Wei was emotionally indecisive, wavering between Gao Yuan and Faye Wong, and he hesitated for five years. During the filming for Dou Wei on the plateau, many photos were left behind.

"You can tell whether I like this person or not by looking at the photos," Gao Yuan said, so when they were in love, Dou Wei left an image of love in every frame of her eyes. Gao Yuan's shots certainly recorded the moments when Faye Wong and Dou Wei were together. This classic photo of Faye Wong and Dou Wei was also taken by Gao Yuan.

When Dou Wei and Faye Wong divorced, they made up their minds and made huge financial cuts without hesitation to realize their desire for a quick resolution. However, after the divorce, Faye Wong sat in Houhai for three years: "It is said that it takes three years to memorize vocabulary after getting married, so I sat in Houhai for three years inexplicably. Every day when I get up, I go to Houhai and sit down. I think it is a blessing to me. A kind of punishment."

After all, marriage is about fighting against the daily necessities of life. Dou Wei and Faye Wong's unresolved issues in Coming to Plateau remain to be resolved. Gao Yuan and Dou Wei had an underground relationship for five years from 1994 to 1999, and an open relationship for another three years from 1999 to 2002. But after Fengzi got married in 2002, the marriage only lasted two years and ended.

People must be alive before love can attach to them. After marriage, they are almost fighting against all kinds of embarrassments that life brings. Gao Yuan became pregnant and gave birth to a child, and Dou Wei's income also dropped sharply due to divorce. When all the ups and downs are squeezed into a pale reality by life, love cannot generate electricity, nor can it restore each other's weariness. △ Dou Wei and his second daughter Dou Jiayu when he was a child. After Dou Wei and Gao Yuan divorced in 2004, they were also very determined.

In 2006, Dou Wei even publicly accused Gao Yuan of taking away the child without telling him. The marriage with Gao Yuan was once again criticized by Dou Wei, "This marriage is a conspiracy." He even said that Gao Yuan was in revenge for his ex-boyfriend Ding Wucai being with him. △ Dou Wei. Are both marriages a conspiracy? Dou Wei, who wrote "Advanced Animals", seems to be too pessimistic about human nature!

It now appears that the first "conspiracy" mentioned by Dou Wei is Faye Wong's attempt to bring in the Hong Kong recording industry, and the second "conspiracy" is Gao Yuan's attempt to bring in the Taiwanese recording industry again. Collection "In the era of the Three Great Masters of Magic Rock, he even suspected that the record company in Taiwan Province was a "secret agency"

He was indecisive in relationships, like Zhang Wuji, and lacked a sense of security, just like Zhang Wuji and Dou Wei, who in their youth The experience of love not only relies on the adoration, appreciation and companionship of a partner, but also requires a pure and undisturbed creative space.

The love was sincere at first, but later it made him unable to feel happy. In an exclusive interview with Xu Gehui, Dou Wei once mentioned my views on happiness: "When happiness appears, I wonder if it is happiness, but in my opinion, these happinesses seem to cause misfortune in the future."

I remember that that year, Zheng Shaoqiu got married twice and gave birth to several children, all of whom were daughters. She was ridiculed by the Hong Kong media and said, "Qiu Guan gave birth to a daughter because she owed too many love debts."

Dou Wei has been married three times and has three children, all of whom are daughters, but he doesn’t know who he owes in this life. Or who owes it? It doesn't matter now. △ Dou Wei’s two daughters, Dou Jingtong and Dou Jiayu.

Except for Dou Wei himself, the women around him seem to get along very well. After the divorce, Faye Wong and Dou Wei didn't say a word, accusing Dou Wei of being bad. She keeps in touch with Dou Wei's sister Dou Ying and Dou Wei's mother, and Dou Jingtong often keeps in touch with her father and grandmother.

Gao Yuan and Jiang Xin have always been friends. Jiang Xin wrote in her autobiography that when Gao Yuan was ambiguous with Dou Wei, she also asked her own opinion, "She first asked me if I still loved Dou Wei, and could I reconcile with him? I said I had a boyfriend. , she said, 'I fell in love with Dou Wei. I told her, 'He will not give you happiness.' △Left: Gao Yuan, right: Jiang Xin. In 2017, all worries were gradually resolved. Gao Yuan accepted an interview with the media and asked Dou Wei if he would pick up his daughter after school. She didn't answer, she just cried.

There is no doubt about Dou Wei’s talent and charm. When he was young, everyone loved Dou Wei. Jiang Xin, Faye Wong, Gao Yuan, Chen Ran, everyone was attracted by Dou Wei's talents, and everyone enjoyed Dou Wei's life.

And Dou Wei, who just turned 50 this year, has also spent half his life in admiration and love. Although dusty and cold, his partner still loves and admires him just like Xiao Zhao.

They are also geniuses. Dou Wei and the others are much luckier than Van Gogh who struggled to survive, Kafka who was arrogant, and Borges who was not liked by women.

In the ending of the new version of "Eternal Heaven and Sword of the Dragon", Zhang Wuji not only supports Zhao Min on the left and Zhou Zhiruo on the right, he even plans to go to Persia to find Xiao Zhao. In real life, people like Dou Wei, Zhao Min and Zhou Zhiruo are too strong to kill each other in the face of daily necessities. Fortunately, Xiao Zhao is willing to be his lifelong girlfriend.

I remember Li Bihua, the author of "Farewell My Concubine" said: "A happy life is to live a superior life, put in average labor, and enjoy inferior lust.

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That's what Dou Wei is like! Although he has always been called "Dou Xian'er" among fans. However, his own life has long been settled: riding a lamb, taking the subway, eating at a fly restaurant, Holding hands with your lover on the street without covering up.

It’s not poverty, it’s not embarrassment, it’s comfort. When young writers and artists were still hypnotizing themselves by quoting Duras’s famous saying. Love is for me, not for skin, not for a meal, but for an immortal desire, a heroic dream in a tired life. "

The "Dou Xian'er" in their eyes has been understood.

The last two lines of the lyrics of "Advanced Animals" are "Where is happiness? Where is happiness?" Do you understand the answer Dou Wei gave?