I don’t like people who favor boys over girls. Preferring boys over girls is our country’s feudal ideology and the concept of inequality between men and women. In ancient my country, a man could marry three wives and four concubines. This was the inequality between men and women. They believed that women should have children. If they gave birth to a girl, the mother-in-law would not look down upon her. They thought that giving birth to a boy would be the only way to continue the family line, because girls are longer. They are destined to marry and become someone else's daughter-in-law. Of course, they also have to change their surname. They feel that they are no longer part of the same family, so they all favor sons over daughters. Many families think that giving birth to a boy or a girl is a matter for women. In fact, they are wrong. It is destined when the sperm and egg are combined. The XY chromosomes in a man's body will lead to a boy or a girl. XX chromosomes will be a girl and XY chromosomes will be a boy. However, many elderly people If he doesn't understand, he blames his daughter-in-law and says she is not living up to expectations. The preference for boys over girls is related to my country's Confucian cultural thought. Confucius has a famous saying: There are three types of unfilial piety, and the greatest is not having children. It has been passed down for thousands of years, making the elderly feel that they are sorry for their ancestors if they have no sons. After giving birth to a son, they can have someone to rely on and protect themselves against old age. I personally don’t like this kind of feudal superstition, and I am very opposed to it, because this kind of feudal thinking has caused the daughters-in-law in many families to suffer. When the mother-in-law complains and is dissatisfied, the husband will gradually feel that the mother is right, and the daughter-in-law is at home. It's very difficult to do, and in the end the family is ruined. In today's society, there is rarely such an idea of ??favoring boys over girls, because it is too difficult to marry a wife, the proportion of men is high, and many men are still single. In addition, young girls now have high demands, such as having a car, a house, and savings. So mothers-in-law are very kind to their daughters-in-law. I hope mothers-in-law will change their previous feudal ideas and not put their sons in a dilemma.