Lin Xiangru of Zhao was named Shangqing for his meritorious service of "returning to Zhao intact", ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po doesn't like Lin Xiangru. Now, as soon as he was named Shang Qing, he was angry and unconvinced at once and said angrily, "When I see Xiang Ru, I must humiliate him!"
Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian.
When I tolerated and gave in to General Lian, I put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! "When Lian Po heard this, he pulled his face down, took off his shirt, willingly carried Vitex negundo, and" offered a humble apology "on the door of Lin Xiangru mansion.
2. Lou Deyi forgives with kindness.
Lou Deye, the prime minister of Wu Zetian era, is famous for his kindness, tolerance, diligence and laziness. Sima Guang commented that he was "generous and cautious, and he was ignorant of crime".
Li Zhaode, assistant minister of Fengge, called him a hillbilly. He smiled and said, I'm not a hillbilly, who is? Di Renjie, a famous figure at that time, also looked down on Loude's moral character and wanted to crowd him out of the court. He doesn't care. Later, Wu Zetian told Di: "The reason why I know you was recommended to me by Teacher Lou." Di Renjie felt ashamed.
3. Qi Huangong uses Guan Zhong
Bao assisted Childe, and Guan Zhong assisted Childe Nine. In order to support the reorganization of the succession, Guan Zhong once shot Xiao Bai, Xiao Bai feigned death, and returned to China early to become a famous Qi Huangong in history. Became a monarch, Bao recommended Guan Zhong. Xiaobai never forgets revenge. Bao advised, "It's rare that my servant is loyal to his master. If you reuse Guan Zhong, you will be more loyal to him and more talented.
The prime minister can punt in his belly.
Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!"
Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. " Later, some people praised Jiang Wan that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".
5. President Lincoln
President Lincoln has always been known for tolerating political opponents, which finally caused dissatisfaction among a member of parliament. The member said: "You should not try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they become my friends, am I not destroying my enemies?" Yes, a more tolerant and open opponent may be our potential friend.