1. Have confidence in your words and deeds. Even if a very good person stands in front of you, you must appear neither humble nor arrogant.

2. Learn to talk to the opposite sex and try to think of them as the same sex.

3. When faced with something you don’t like, try to divert your attention and don’t show your disgust.

4. The more people there are, the more you have to express yourself!

5. Only by being a different person from ordinary people can you make an extraordinary career.

6. Speak slowly but think quickly.

7. Don’t believe everything you hear and don’t spend all your money.

8. Happiness is always accompanied by generous people, health is always accompanied by open-minded people, wisdom is always accompanied by diligent people, prestige is always accompanied by noble people, success is always accompanied by practical people, and wealth is always accompanied by honest people. !

9. Doing complex things simply, doing simple things seriously, doing serious things repeatedly, doing repetitive things creatively, making simple things complicated is knowledge, making complex things simple is wisdom.

10. Maturity is connected with childishness, and action is the opposite of fantasy. Thinking should be praised, and action should be appreciated. Action is the mother of all success. One practical action is better than a hundred beautiful dreams. !

11. Choosing the right direction is far more important than working hard to do things, and doing the right things is far more important than doing things right! A clear mind is far more important than hard work, and a correct mentality is far more important than actual performance. The growth of Pain is far better than the pain of regret! The joy of victory is far better than the comfort of failure!

12. You can be square or round in life: square means that you can adapt to the ever-changing situation, and circle means that you can adapt to the ever-changing situation. Change; the square is the backbone of being a human being, the circle is the tool bag of living in the world; the square is the principle, the circle is the mechanism of change; be square to yourself, and be round when treating others; be square internally, and be round externally; live in the square, and return to your true self in the circle. !

13. When you regard success as a kind of happiness, you have knowledge. When you regard career as a kind of knowledge, you lock in success. The right direction, positive thoughts, environmental cultivation, and unremitting actions are all important factors for success!

14. Sow an action, and you will reap a habit; sow a habit, and you will reap a habit. You will reap a character; if you sow a character, you will reap a destiny; character determines destiny, and lifestyle determines lifespan!

15. Career does not need to be earth-shattering, success is achieved; affection does not need sweet words, Just think about it; money doesn’t need to be inexhaustible, just enough; your body doesn’t need to live a long life, just be healthy; friends don’t need to be counted in numbers, just have close friends!

16. Chinese Confucian Thoughts: "A gentleman loves money and gets it in a wise way", "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you", "Humans are one of the four great elements in the universe", "Man follows the earth, the earth follows the sky, heaven follows the Tao, and the Tao follows the law" nature".

17. Don’t let small disputes ruin a great friendship.

18. Find some time to be alone.

19. Whenever you are on the phone, smile when you pick up the phone because the other person can feel it! When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and say, “Why do you want to know?”

20. You should be honest in life and smart in doing things.

21. Know how to keep a certain distance from your friends, adopt a moderate approach to everything, and never show impulsive words and deeds in front of others. Learn to be a listener, so that you can successfully interact with friends.

22. Do what you should do at each age. Growing up lies in the process of growing up, establishing good interpersonal relationships, having a career that you can support yourself and you like, and being mentally stable and not impetuous. I know how to be a good son and daughter at home, a good husband (wife), and a good leader and employee in the workplace. Being able to do these can be regarded as basically growing up.

23. Don’t judge other people’s families, because it has nothing to do with you.

Don't evaluate other people's knowledge, because the most indispensable thing in the world is knowledge. In short, don't judge anyone, not even your family. Don't waste your money because tomorrow you could be out of a job. Don't be too arrogant because tomorrow you may lose ground. Don't be too showy, because you must understand that no one is weaker than you. Don't brag about your love, because tomorrow you may fall out of love. Don't wrong yourself because you may die tomorrow. In short, be a low-key person. Don't be promiscuous with friends, especially those of the same sex, because every move you make will leave a mark that will become right and wrong in the future. Don't rely on the opposite sex, because life is heavy and everyone wants to live an easy life. Don't hurt the opposite sex, because revenge will come sooner or later, and it's you who will suffer the consequences.

24. Don’t argue with others, even if you win, you won’t get his approval.

25. When you are in a very difficult situation, please think in your heart: everything will pass and things will get better tomorrow.

26. For people you don’t like, don’t have too much contact with them. Be careful every time you communicate, show your indifference and seriousness in front of him, and keep a certain distance.

27. Even if he expresses friendship to you, you still can’t forget that he is someone you don’t like. It is best to maintain your previous attitude!

28. Tolerance, try Try to forget some words and actions around you that hurt you.

29. When your interests are harmed, speak up and look the other person in the eyes confidently.

30. Learn to praise. Praising can bring you closer to the other person.

31. Learn to look into each other’s eyes when communicating, sincerely and attentively.

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