This can only be a beautiful wish!

When parents grow old, it is a wonderful thing for children to stay with their parents and fulfill their filial piety.

Looking around the world, only China’s culture of filial piety has penetrated into every family.

No matter whether the family is rich or not, the culture of filial piety grows in the family.

Many children also hope to stay with their parents when they are old.

Once you can fulfill your filial piety, you will feel more at ease taking care of your parents.

Secondly, it is also about maintaining family ties. Only through companionship can we become closer.

As the famous saying goes: You grow up with me, and I grow old with you!

Unfortunately, in the modern social context, it is difficult to do it!

First, many parents are rural aborigines, and many young people have just established themselves in the city.

Even if young people are doing well in the city, their parents have to leave the environment they have been familiar with for many years.

Parents often cannot adapt to coming to live with you in a strange city!

They are used to the local accent and are used to their neighbors, relatives and friends.

In a strange city, most of the time after children go to work.

They have nothing to do and no one to hang out with.

This will make the elderly lonely and have no sense of existence and accomplishment!

Second, the living habits of the elderly cannot adapt to the lifestyles of young people.

The elderly prefer light health-preserving meals in their diet, and it is difficult for young people to adapt to spicy food.

When a family eats together, they cannot have the same taste.

Not only will it cause waste, but it will also cause a lot of trouble for each other to accommodate each other.

The sleep time of the elderly is also very different from that of the young.

Many old people have the habit of going to bed early and getting up early, while young people go to bed late.

Nowadays, the area of ??houses in cities is so large, it is inevitable that they will affect each other.

Sometimes due to cognitive differences, it is inevitable that two generations will have quarrels over some lifestyle issues.

This is only part of the problem. Different family backgrounds have different problems.

If you are confident that you can solve these problems, I suggest you try living together.

I personally am not too optimistic about it!

I agree that children should stay with their parents, but this requires wisdom!

It is not a problem that money can solve!

Author: Jianxian ?Public account: Be yourself ?

Be yourself who never forgets your original intention