PUA, the full name of Pick-up Artist, refers to a kind of mind control behavior, that is, by attacking your self-esteem, catalyzing and destroying your ability to think independently, making you feel that you have nothing to do, then taking advantage of it, making you feel dependent and being manipulated by others.

Who will be more vulnerable to PUA attacks:

1, people who constantly belittle themselves.

If you habitually belittle yourself verbally, you may easily fall into the trap of being manipulated by others.

2. People who are black or white.

When a person falls into a black-and-white thinking mode and looks at everything in an "extreme" or "absolute" way, he will lose the ability to understand the outside world and complex relationships.

3. People who lack opinions.

People who dare not challenge others' thoughts and behaviors, especially those who feel guilty about challenging others, will also become the "prey" of emotional controllers.

4. People with insufficient awareness of environmental safety.

When criticized, I am afraid of being abandoned and eliminated, and I am afraid that I may have nowhere to live. Although there is no harm in often reflecting on your own shortcomings in criticism, if you are too sensitive to outside criticism, you may be more vulnerable to PUA attacks than ordinary people.

We can often see relevant cases triggered by PUA, which are warning us that we need to pay attention. In fact, many times we will unconsciously become PUA, deep or shallow, but it is crucial that we learn to stay awake in all kinds of intimate relationships, keep our personality independent, believe that we can live well and say "no!" Go to PUA.